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writes: I have been with my girl now for nearly 4 months. Recently we have been arguing loads. She has a daughter and rarely gets time to herself, but I like to spend time with her. She says she needs space but I find that hard. She also thinks that I still want to be with my ex girlfriend, which I dont!We have broken up but I really want her back. I can't seem to make her understand that I don't want anybody else...What should I do?
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reader, pops +, writes (29 June 2005):
You are always going to place Second to her daughter. Give her space. She will respect you for it. Let her know you are still fond of her, and would like to date her again. Be creative in dating proposals. Always try to find something that will involve the three of you, or will show your fondness for her daughter.If you aren't into that little girl, let mom go. Find someone else. And don't expect to ever be able to monopolize her time to the exclusion of her daughter. Mothers are not wired that way, and dads should not be, either. If that is something more than you can give, then find someone else to love. pops
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reader, babygurl +, writes (1 June 2005):
I think the best thing you should do is give her the space that she wants and just make sure she knows that you're there for her when she need you.
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