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writes: Alright friends I could do with some sound advice. You see I have been with my b/f for nine years. He's not a bad bloke but I really think I need to get out of this relationship for financial security. I can't fault him, but he just won't show affection or be romantic. He won't cuddle or bother with our daughter and will do what he wants when he wants.I don't want him to say I hold him back or I'm a nag. He told me at the beginning we would get married. No such luck, and more kids again. No such luck, and he is often very cold and verbally cruel.I have spoken to him more times than I can count. We have had trial separations, the works. Now I have had enough. I am scared I will make the wrong decision and regret it, but when I feel strong and tell him to go he will laugh and say don't be stupid and always changes my mind. But he won't change. We are in our mid 20s. My family and friends tell me were no good together but I need neutral advice.Am I right to feel like this? Is it me? Reply to this Question
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reader, envy +, writes (18 May 2005):
girl power and all that lark, id say. if he wont leave, make a stand and go yourself let him know that you are serious. you obviously can not carry on the way things are you need to take control of your life. your life is what you make of it
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