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writes: My boyfriend of over two years is leaving in about a month for military training and will be gone for a year and has decided he doesn't want to try to have a long distance relationship. He told me after he broke up with me that he did something he regrets at a party and doesn't deserve me anymore. What can I do to have him want to at least try a long distance relationship while letting him know I forgive him for the things he has done?
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reader, Devil's Advocate +, writes (10 May 2005):
 Although he has done the dirty on you, it would seem that he has a conscience and has come clean.Most (and I stress most, not all) forces personell will play the field while away on training and some even carry it on through their service life.If you are happy to be cheated on throughout your relationship with this guy then persuade him that you want to continue your relationship with him while he is gone, otherwise do yourself a favour and find a guy that will be around all the time.
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reader, wwww.datinghaven.com +, writes (10 May 2005):
You wont like my answer, but here it goes...If he doesnt WANT a long distance relationship you shouldn't force him, as you wouldn't want him to force you into anything you dont want to do.If he is going to some war (anything that isn't called a World War is training, I believe lol) he might not want you to worry about him and if unlikely he dies from it you would be very upset, wouldn't you?I think he's doing it because he don't want you to worry about him. He's a brave man, I'm sure he is seeing as not being with you as a punishment for possibly cheating on you. I'm sure when he gets back he would want to get back with you. Make sure you don't lose contact with him though.
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