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writes: I have been in a relationship with my husband for 14years and married for 9. We have a young child. I have recently ended an affair which I have had for the last two and a half years. It ended because we got just too close. We were best of friends talked for hours a day. Loved spending time with each other and making love was amazing. He has a youngish family also. He doesn't want to leave his family and I am not sure of doing this also because of the hurt it causes everybody. I know i have to make it work with my husband and I don't know where to start. I don't enjoy talking to him really. We never had a really chatty relationship before. How do I do this and still remain friends with my ex lover?
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reader, Wildberries +, writes (25 May 2005):
If you are serious about your husband, you cut all ties to the loverboy and get real about your family! Your spouse cannot, and should not be expected to fulfill ALL of your needs. But a starting place is friendship. Throw yourself into your marriage like you did in your affair. You would be amazed at what can happen if you try hard enough!
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