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writes: hi, I have been with my boyfriend for nearly two years and at the beginning of the relationship I cheated on him 3 times, which I am not proud of and told him as soon as it happened. Since then, we have broken up 3 times and got back together because we love each other so much. He even proposed to me and I genuinely do want to get married. However, I have suspected him of cheating on me for a long time, which my close friends say is true, and now we have no trust between each other. The other day, I foolishly kissed my ex because I am feeling quite unhappy with my current relationship-which I have told my boyfriend and asked to overcome this-but I haven't told him I've cheated this time round.... Should I? I dont really want to lose him, but I know he will never speak to me again if I admit I cheated again.
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reader, lauren1266 +, writes (12 May 2005):
If you are unhappy and you cheated maybe it would be best if you guys broke up. I would confront your ex about how you feel and your unhappiness and also explain to him you were so unhappy you kissed an ex. And this person was most likely an ex for a reason, regardless of how you guys feel in a sad moment, he still is an ex for one reason or another. If you and your boyfriend are supposed to be in love you'll work through this problem and he will undertsand that although cheating is wrong he never wants to make you feel like your so unhappy you'll cheat.
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