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writes: I started seeing my boyfriend when I was 15. I'm now 18 and he's 22. We were always seeing each other on and off 4 the last 3 and half years that we've known each other.During that time he treated me terribly, kept going off with other women, has taken al my confidence away and done lots more to cause me pain.The situation now is he has a gf with an unplanned child. He was seeing me behind her back as never been able to stop seeing me. But she found out and I told her the truth but now he won't even talk to me because of it.Even though he's not a nice person, he's the love of my life. I can't stop thinking about him. It hurts so bad not being with him and I feel so hurt and angry at what he's done to me.I want to know how I can stop feeling this way so I can move on with my life and be happy again.
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reader, smilechipper +, writes (12 May 2005):
hi, I think it's going to be hard for you to move on unless you get your confidence back first. This guy has taken all that away from you, leaving you angry and hurt. You did no wrong by telling the truth. He's not speaking to you simply because she will think he's seeing you behind her back again.He can't think much of either of you to have been seeing both of you at the same time anyway. You should give yourself a makeover - ie new clothes new hairdo etc - and get out there and feel your confidence start to come back when you start turning heads! I hope this helps x
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 May 2005): Hi sweety. It sounds to me like you are infatuated with this guy. You probably already know what`s coming next. You need to leave this on/off relationship in the past and move on to someone who will treat you properly and with the respect that you deserve.If he is doing this to you now and you are 18 and he`s been like it since you were 15 then what makes you think things will be any different or any better in the future? Really, it sounds like it is time to move on and perhaps find real love and true happiness.I hope you find this of some help . Thank you and good luck.
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