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Archived questions from: February, 2014 (see latest in Big Questions category)

Big Questions: Help and advice

Could he have been right? Am I too close to my mum?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3923 days ago

28 February 2014 (F) - Am i too close to my mum? My ex boyfriend who i was with for 4 years and lived with recently dumped me becuase he said i'm too close to my mum. He's made me question myself, tourture myself, caused a gap between me and my mum and has made me hate...

What can I do about my Bf's extreme aversion towards contact with me when I have my period? His actions are hurtful.

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 3919 days ago

27 February 2014 (F) - my boyfriend is good to talk to, not a great listener, but he is very passionate when he cares, is helpful, understanding and not egotistic and is generous. but when it comes to me been on my period, it is a whole different box of cookies, i cannot...

Should I try to talk to him again or just let him be?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3925 days ago

25 February 2014 (?) - There's a guy that I work with that always gets quiet and tenses up around me when I see him. I saw him when I was leaving and said, "Hi!" and he literally froze and pressed himself up against the wall. Another time, I caught him staring at me and ...

He's so special to me, but I wonder if I'm just one more of the countless girls for him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3926 days ago

25 February 2014 (F) - I'm having a hard time coming to terms with my boyfriend's past. In the beginning, I knew he had been somewhat promiscuous but I didn't know to what extent. I have never been promiscuous myself, although I have had no strings attached sex, only a ...

Should I tell the employer that I can only start the week after I finish the course?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3926 days ago

25 February 2014 (F) - Should I finish this training course to get a job, or should I get a job when the course is finished?. I am on a training course that the jobcentre have put me on at the moment. I started last week, and finish on the 14th March. However, I have been ...

Why are there times when I'm not attracted to him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3924 days ago

25 February 2014 (F) - Why do I go through phases of finding him very attractive, and then not so much so? I love my boyfriend, and generally speaking he is a good looking guy. I find myself wildly attracted to him sometimes...and then other times...not really. I know i...

First one night stand has me wondering why boys are like this!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3926 days ago

24 February 2014 (F) - On Friday I had my first ever one night stabd! But I really havebt taken it well I didn't know the guy I had met him that night And had spent most of the night with him we had got to talking and he took me back to his. Obviously everything happened ...

Help -- my manager is a bully!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3924 days ago

24 February 2014 (F) - Sorry guys not really a relationship question but here goes... I really could do with some help regarding my job. I work in london in a very busy office of around 300 people. I'm in a good job, well paid and stable. However I'm feeling real...

My boyfriend thinks I am cheating because I am 'too loose".

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3919 days ago

24 February 2014 (F) - Help, my boyfriend, we've been together for 2 years and he thinks I'm cheating because I feel "loose", and I feel it to. We used to have sex everyday, but it began to lessen. Now we have sex once every two weeks, and even then I still feel loose, I ...

When my girlfriend gets mad, she doesn't scream, she doesn't shout, she just shuts down!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3927 days ago

24 February 2014 (M) - Hey guys. I'll go ahead and jump right in. I'm a 30 year old male. I've been seeing my gf for just over a year now. We have talked about moving in together within the next year or so and marriage, but her behaviors are totally destroying our r...

Hurtful comments from stranger .........

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3925 days ago

23 February 2014 (F) - Today I went to a coffee shop and ordered myself something to drink. While I was about to leave the shop, I walked by a group of guys and they were looking at me and laughing at me. I heard one of the guys said, "did you see that girl?" "Did you get ...

Not sure if I'm bisexual or just bi-curious!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3927 days ago

23 February 2014 (F) - I am really confused about my sexual orientation. I have liked guys for all my life. I feel attracted to men and sometimes in a sexual attraction,but I was always uncomfortable with the idea of sex whenever it got to where me and a guy were alone. ...

Should I tell my boyfriend that I'm a lesbian and get this over with?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3926 days ago

23 February 2014 (F) - Here goes. I've been abnormal from the get-go, okay? All of my friends would blabber on and on about the floppy-haired fellow down the hall while my thoughts gravitated towards the lunch menu. I never seek out any boys myself, but I'll be damned if ...

All are blaming me for reporting what I had to. What are your thoughts on people be allowed to bring their children or baby to their workplace?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3928 days ago

22 February 2014 (F) - What is everyone's opinion on people bringing their babies/ children to the work place? The reason I ask is because last week 1 of my colleagues, who is on maternity leave came in with her baby who is 7 months old. We work in a call centre and...

My thirteen year old caught my husband and I having sex. How do I repair the relationship with her?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3928 days ago

22 February 2014 (F) - so every friday, my susband has a day off. we thought to make it special on valentines day, and ended up having sex. we didn't hear the key turn in the door because the next thing i know, my thirteen yearold daughter's standing in the doorway ...

How can I deal with these noisy people?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3927 days ago

22 February 2014 (?) - This is quite a basic question but I feel like I need some objective advice on the matter. Basically, I live in a halls of residence at university so I don't expect silence in the slightest, I knew when I moved in that there would be noise and so ...

Does having anal sex make me no longer a virgin?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3927 days ago

22 February 2014 (F) - I pledged not to lose my virginity until marrige but it has been hard with my kind of personality seeing naked guys and me getting wet. All the thoughts about having sex. I have a guy in my house currently and he has been here for over a week. At ...

We are both single. He visits me, offers cuddles only. Does he want a relationship or not? Your thoughts?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3929 days ago

21 February 2014 (F) - Hi im in a very confusing situation. I have known this man since last September i really like him but i cant tell if he wants to be with me or not. Every time i see him which is maybe once a month he comes to my place we watch a dvd he kisses and c...

My ex who tried to ruin my relationship has contacted me. I don't want to hurt her, but I don't want to hurt my partner. What should I do?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3829 days ago

21 February 2014 (M) - Me and my ex broke up back in June after being together for a year and a half. We tried being friends but this proved impossible after I started seeing someone four months later. This lead to something of a bitter parting for us. She and her family ...

Should I contact my ex? It's 6 months since I finished the relationship, and this would have been our 6 year anniversary.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3931 days ago

20 February 2014 (F) - Hi aunts, I'm feeling a little low. I was in a relationship for 5 and a half years. We were childhood sweethearts and got to together at the age of 17. I loved him to pieces but the relationship fizzled out after around the 4th year. We stayed ...

The more time I go being frustrated, the more arseholes I attract & the more depressed I get. What am I doing wrong? Should I lower my standards?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3931 days ago

20 February 2014 (F) - I'm completely confused. I need help figuing out what I want. It's been 7 months since I've been in a relationship and had sex. Which isn't long I know but I've got a high sex drive and I'm very hormonal.. I'm 23 and completely sexually...

Do I get all these obsessions because I have an itch that was never scratched?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3930 days ago

19 February 2014 (F) - I'm 25 and I've had an ongoing problem for over 10 years now that is only getting worse instead of better. I get obsessions with guys, usually ones I don't know on a personal level. The most recent one was my last supervisor, for example. I knew him ...

I made great plans but now I'm having second thoughts about everything

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3931 days ago

19 February 2014 (F) - I'm currently in my final year at college (year 13) studying Media and Film, I have also applied for universities and have had all 5 offers back to study Journalism. The University I have chosen as my first choice is Sunderland, which is about 2 ...

How can he love me and want to share me?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3933 days ago

18 February 2014 (F) - I have met a man who seems wonderful in every way. We have an incredible connection on so many levels yet I have a question. He has said to me that if I feel the desire to have sex with another man in his presence he is ok with that. Even turned on ...

My friends want to move abroad without their young-adult children

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3928 days ago

17 February 2014 (M) - Am interested what you think of this situation. Some friends of min are bith 52, and have 2 kids: girl of 18 and boy of 20. The parents want to emigrate from england to spain on a permanent basis. The kids dont want to go with them. But the p...

I am writing because I feel so low .............

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3933 days ago

17 February 2014 (F) - I'm writing this because I'm feeling so low, and maybe any answers might help. To cut it short, I met this guy many years back, we started off as friends, He lived away from me, but when we met up, it became more than friends. I then found out he w...

Looking for some life advice

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3934 days ago

17 February 2014 (F) - This is weird, but I want to get some advice. I want to change some personality traits of mine that do nothing but bring me down and take away opportunities for a better life, but they deal with fighting my nerves and anger. -I hold grudges...

Am I too unrealistic in wanting to find a guy who's not into porn or casual sex?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3934 days ago

16 February 2014 (F) - Please don't be nasty with your replies but I would like to know the chances of finding someone who; 1. Hasn't got much of an interest in porn when in a relationship 2. Hasn't had a one night stand or a friend with benefits 3. Doesn't see...

She knew I liked her, ignored me for a year, and is now engaged to someone else. Why message me now?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3935 days ago

15 February 2014 (M) - So after being ignored by a girl for a year because I told her that I liked her. She has since gotten engaged she sends me a random faceb00k message after a year..."Hi. How you doing?". I reply simply..."I am OK, and u?". She replies..."all good". ...

Do you have to hear the word love to be loved?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3936 days ago

15 February 2014 (M) - Hi, well I said those magical words lastnite after watching the notebook, we been seeing each other for over eight years, I broke up with her couple of years ago, for a few months, cause she never says it back, but we got back together, she said it ...

24 and never had a girlfriend. Where do I start?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3936 days ago

15 February 2014 (M) - This fact has made me very depressed and I have felt this way for a long time. I have never had a girlfriend or even had many friends that are girls. In fact I don't have many friends at all. I have one brother and though we are close in age, we ...

Would it be a bad idea for me to get in touch with my ex?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3935 days ago

14 February 2014 (F) - I'm not sure whether to contact my ex or not. We haven't spoken for a year and a half. The last time I spoke to him, he told me that he didn't want us to contact each other again. We used to have a lot of arguments, and now that I am older and a lot ...

Is there anyone who has a similar job in reception or administration that can give me some tips

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3937 days ago

14 February 2014 (F) - Can anyone give me abit of advice for starting a new job. I know its not a relationship question but its really getting me down. I'm by far a confident person, infact I'm worried that I won't be able to do the job properly and perform as they had ...

Will I get used to study life or are some people just not made for it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3938 days ago

13 February 2014 (F) - This is not a relationship question but if anyone may have some input to help me? Iv just started my first year of uni. One week in and i am SO overwhelmed. I haven't had to study since school (where i had a don't care attitude back then) I fee...

My ex is pregnant, she told me just after we broke up. I offered my support and she rejected that. Anyone else been in this situation? Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3939 days ago

13 February 2014 (M) - Well here it goes, recently I got back with an Ex girlfriend who I had dated a few years ago, and I can genuinely say that I loved her then, and that things appeared to be going well second time round. Then it all went downhill. One weekend and ...

How can I stop missing someone? How did you stop missing someone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3938 days ago

13 February 2014 (F) - How do I stop missing someone? I havent talked to this guy for almost a month... we were pretty much dating and had a thing for over a month... and he told me I was annoying him because I misunderstood something that he said to me... i just d...

Why is it okay to criticize big boobs?

This question has 39 answers - newest was posted 3853 days ago

12 February 2014 (F) - Every time there is a question about small breasts, I've noticed a lot of people take it upon themselves to criticise big breasts and call them 'ugly' and 'saggy' it's really insensitive, and quite offensive. The latest question I'm referring to is ...

I thought I was doing the right thing by being honest but he turned it against me

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 3939 days ago

11 February 2014 (F) - I recently met someone and felt it right to be upfront about the fact I had ( several years ago now) been involved in an abusive relationship. I left that relationship with nothing, emotionally,financially and tbh was completely broken and had to ...

Is it unusual for a man of his age to take lots of photographs of himself?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3939 days ago

11 February 2014 (F) - This might seem like an odd question, but it's in the context of a lot of other behaviour that I won't go into. Is it unusual for a man in his 30's or 40's to take lots of photographs of himself - I mean lots of him doing activities but a...

Should we stay 'just good friends' at the expense of my heart, or should I cut & run, even if it hurts both of us?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3940 days ago

10 February 2014 (F) - I'm romantically interested in a guy who isn't over his ex, who left him in extremely abrupt circumstances approx. 4 months ago. We get along brilliantly and he's the first person I've ever truly 'clicked' with in terms of personality. The problem ...

Do you think he might like me? Or do you think he still likes the other girl? Why on Earth did he tell me he's interested in her if he did all of those nice things for me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3941 days ago

10 February 2014 (F) - I've know of this guy for 3 years through a girlfriend of mine. I began speaking to him on facebook recently and I mentioned to him I had a recent breakup. As soon as I told him this, he came to see me for the weekend because he said he wanted to ...

Should I work it out with the father?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3941 days ago

10 February 2014 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for three years and we now have two children together. Our emotional situation has been constantly insecure. I learned early on he had been lying to me about a porn addiction and we tried hard to work through ...

Comfort zones and new relationships- I'm confused!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3941 days ago

10 February 2014 (F) - I'm 20 and have little experience with relationships and that experience isn't necessarily good. The first 'hook-up' I had left me feeling heartbroken and used at 17. At the time I naively thought we were in a relationship but little did I know ...

My friend is in a relationship after just three dates with this guy! Is that too quick?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3941 days ago

9 February 2014 (F) - My friend has been on three dates with this guy and already they are in a relationship! Am I the only one who thinks that is very quick? She said that they didn't see any need dragging it out when they know they'd want to be together and like each ...

Things are finally working out in our relationship, but now that marriage is on the table I'm not sure about it!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3942 days ago

9 February 2014 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 5 years. We have had to face a lot of difficulties but now finally things are working out and he has said we must get married. We lived together in our second year, then he had to transfer back up country, where he...

Could my ex have undetected HIV if he received a blood transfusion years ago, before blood testing was standard procedure?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3942 days ago

9 February 2014 (F) - I have a concern, not mentioned on the site before to my knowledge. It involves HIV from blood transfusions. I've noticed that in the years where a potential partner would be born was when they didn't test for HIV in the blood. So basically is it ...

I suspect that my sister's problems are due to alcohol but don't know how to confirm this

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3940 days ago

9 February 2014 (F) - How do you tell if someone is an alcoholic? I've looked up a few websites, but they all have questions to diagnose yourself as having a problem with alcohol, not another person. This may seem like a silly question, but my sister lives on the oth...

I have feelings for a very close friend who sends me mixed signals, but I'm afraid of ruining our friendship if I tell him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3942 days ago

9 February 2014 (F) - Okay. Huge problem/dilemma/ I don't know what to do situation. I believe I may well and truly be in love, and this, this is really really really rare for me. I have had two relationships in...

Is porn really to blame for the relationship problems many women attribute to it?

This question has 28 answers - newest was posted 3921 days ago

9 February 2014 (M) - Spoiler alert. Some may find this misogynistic and or demeaning to women!!! This is the Chicken/Egg paradox. When I was a kid most wives were stay at home moms, were financially dependent on their husbands and were either submissive by choice...

Finally stood up to my mother after years of her belittling, but am worried I went too far!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3942 days ago

9 February 2014 (F) - My mom is very controlling..and today, I finally stood up for myself. But i don't know if i took things too far. Over the years, she has constantly harassed me about my weight (always calling me fat, despite me being 5'9 and 160 lbs, and work ou...