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*ait1994
writes:How do I stop missing someone?I havent talked to this guy for almost a month... we were pretty much dating and had a thing for over a month... and he told me I was annoying him because I misunderstood something that he said to me... i just don' get how you go from talking to someone all the time and then just one day you never hear from them again... we only went on two dates but we both felt a connection and we talked all the time... and its almost been a month of no talking and i still think about him...and miss him. I dont get why i still miss him because we didn't even have a thing for that long... so please tell me how to stop missing someone... bc this situation has made me very insecure and sad. thank you!
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 February 2014): There were two things that helped me get over my ex:
1. Get rid of ANYTHING related to that person. Delete all pictures, unfriend on facebook, throw out old notes, etc.
2. Make a list of everything you didn't like about him (turned out I had over 100 things--ha!) and read it every morning. His weird sense of humor, the insensitive comments he made, he was kind of overweight--basically, anything you can think of.
Pretty soon you'll realize that he wasn't that great after all…
Good luck!
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reader, Gauntlet  +, writes (13 February 2014):
 You're missing him because of his abrupt way of cutting any communication with you. You are appalled, shocked by that way to dump you without any good reason. You would like to know why, when did you do a mistake, and you feel rejected maybe unconsciously wondering if he didn't find a good excuse because he noticed something wrong with your body.
Anyway, I don't think that relationship worth fighting for it, it is surely unfixable. But don't think it failed because of you, I suspect that guy to have some issues (or did he just met another girl ?) that is 100% on his side.
Don't waste your time, life is shot.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2014): There's no formula forgetting someone who have not done anything wrong with you. But just make u laugh and feel happy most times. I mean your relationship with him didn't really push through. Most of the memories you had with him probably consist of happy thoughts. Happy thoughts are worth remembering.you will really miss him. What to do? Try to call him. Just say hi how are you and find out what the future might bring. Or just let it go and go on wondering what if your whole life.
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