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Archived questions from: May, 2012 (see latest in Big Questions category)

Big Questions: Help and advice

Regretting an argument over a guy, with another girl

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4594 days ago

31 May 2012 (F) - When I was 17/18, I had an argument with a girl over a guy. Typical girl problem, I know. I used to really like this guy (now, I think 'what the hell was i thinking?!'), but he ended up getting into a relationship with her. We used to bicker o...

I don't think I've had an Orgasm yet. But what can I do about my more urgent problem? During and after sex? Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4594 days ago

31 May 2012 (F) - I am a 21 yo girl and do not think i have ever had the big O. When my boyfriend goes down on me i often always have the sensation of peeing when i do not have to or have nothing to pee out. However, I have a had an accident or two when the "pee...

How do you clear up a rumor?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4594 days ago

31 May 2012 (F) - My friends always spread rumors about me, and tried to ruin my reputation.. made fake facebook accounts of me, and did everything they could. And it worked, now I am in grade 9, and the people in my gym class had spread a rumor that me and my frie...

Do drunk people mean what they say?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4594 days ago

31 May 2012 (F) - Hey everyone, So, I need to talk to someone and I have absolutely no one to confide in. This might be long, so thank you in advance for reading, I appreciate it so much. Me and this guy have been a "thing" for over two years, he's asked me to...

Girl won't be with me because of her moms beliefs! - HELP!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4594 days ago

30 May 2012 (M) - I am in a very bad a frustrating situation. I was married to a girl who left me for another guy and was living with him before we even got an official divorce. It took me a long time but I am finally over that now and have met the absolute girl of ...

Would you date a woman/person who is separated?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

30 May 2012 (F) - Hi everyone. I am especially interested in MEN'S opinions but this question is open to everyone: Would you date a woman who is separated if you liked her or would her separated status stop you from asking her out or considering her for a lon...

Is a marriage between two alcoholics more likely to survive?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2643 days ago

30 May 2012 (F) - Can a marriage survive if both husband and wife are alcoholics. I continue to read that chances of a marriage to a substance abuser of any kind most likely will not last but, if both of them are alcoholics that possess the same characteristics, ...

So much promise. And now nothing? How do I handle my online friend? was he ever genuine?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4594 days ago

30 May 2012 (F) - I have been chatting with a guy online and via web com and mobile almost everyday for a month. The guy got so much into me and he swore and made me believe him that we have future this and that. He wanted to come to see me to the UK as he lives in...

My Gay crush .Want to move on and forget. How can I understand why I'm so affected?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4457 days ago

30 May 2012 (M) - This has been a problem for too long now and I really need help with this issue concerning an ex friend. I’ve never really had many friends in my life but I’ve never let it bother me when I moved on from the few friends that I did have. But this...

How do you create a long lasting relationship with a woman? Do you have to be a 'bad boy'? Or are there some women out there who like the good guys?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4595 days ago

30 May 2012 (M) - How do you make a woman fall in love with you? Yes i know iv heard it all before ''you cant' - ' you cant help who u fall in love with '' etc, but generally speaking, i have found that women who are hurt/abused not necessarily physically, but more ...

I want to escape my abusive, drug addicted brother

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4587 days ago

30 May 2012 (F) - I can't take it anymore, I hate coming home.. My brother is a drug attict, thief and a liar. All he ever does is hurt me. He steals my money, takes my things, does drug deals infront of me. Im only 16, i shouldnt have seen any of this. i see his ...

Would I gain more confidence having breast implants?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4595 days ago

29 May 2012 (F) - I need some advice again with a problem that is really driving me mad. I'm a 32AA, I'm about 2cm away from being totally flat chested. I wear padded bras nearly every time I go out or my clothes look stupid and if I'm on a night out I'm complete...

We both want to get married one day, but I'm worried that if I move in with him he will become too comfortable and never marry me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4596 days ago

29 May 2012 (F) - Hi everyone, So I have this question about marriage. I have been with my bf for 2 years. We love each other and get along pretty well. We decided we wanted to move in together and are actively looking for a place together. It is all extremely ex...

We say 'I love you' to each other, but I've never told her I'm 'in love' with her. Should I tell her? Will this ruin things?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4596 days ago

29 May 2012 (M) - is it better to tell a significant other that you are 'in love' with them? Should i say this to my gf or is this best advised not to? I ask because i am in love with her, however we just say ' i love u', we have been together aprox 1 year, but im ...

What do you think of this short story that I wrote?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4578 days ago

29 May 2012 (F) - I wanted to get a strangers opinion before i showed this to any of my friends. so what do you think? any suggestions would me most helpful. this is just a little short story i wrote. wolf My house grows dark with every passing moment of terror...

Why do I feel guilty about moving on from my abusive ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

29 May 2012 (F) - I will give you guys a back drop story first. i was in a relationship for about 1.5 years. This was my first intense romantic relationship. i loved this girl (i am a lesbian) with everything. no inhibitions nothing to stop me. As time passed, we ...

I'm very shy and worried that if my girlfriend breaks up with me I wont find anyone else! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

29 May 2012 (M) - Hi,im 19yrs now.but i have this problem that worries me alot,many people say im handsome thats not the point,im a very shy type.this has impede my progress with dating girls,its very hard for me to stand a girl i like due to this reason. Yes i have ...

I'm engaged, he is married and there is no attraction, but I enjoy our conversations! Am I wrong?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4596 days ago

29 May 2012 (F) - I feel like I'm doing something wrong by having an intellectual conversation with another man! I'm engaged, he is married. We are former co workers who are on Facebook together. When we used to work together he came in as the assistant manage...

Who is responsible for kids turning into drug addicts? The parenting? The genetics? Or just luck?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4595 days ago

29 May 2012 (F) - Who is responsible for kids turning out drug addicts? The parenting? The genetics? Or just luck? This situation is ruining my life,and my marriage, and I feel ,Im not responsible for this, but the society is turning against us . It is very painful ...

Does love no longer exist?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4597 days ago

28 May 2012 (F) - Why does this keep happening? Does love not exist anymore? So my ex boyfriend cheated on me. I thought we were in love. We were on the phone all the time, I knew when he was showering or eating. I thought I knew his whereabouts but I was wrong....

What can I use my PhD to do next? Will I seem overqualified to enter good jobs in business?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4597 days ago

28 May 2012 (M) - I'm currently feeling a bit lost and was hoping for some advice. I'm in my final year of a PhD in biochemistry (9 months left) and I'm not sure where I want to go next. I took the position because it was more or less offered to me on a plate at a ...

Still being judged for an affair 12 years later

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4596 days ago

28 May 2012 (F) - 12 yrs ago I had an affair with a married man which resulted in his divorcing his wife and leaving their 3 teenage children. A yr later he and I married and have been happily married ever since. His ex wife continues to call me an adulterer and has ...

Our landlord is trying to take all of our deposit and then claim for extra money for repairs! How do we dispute this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4597 days ago

28 May 2012 (M) - Our landlord came to check on the property since we are moving out in 4 days, though plans to come back on moving day to do another one. Its as if she is purposely looking to trip us up to get more money as she herself is in a heap of debt - why not ...

I've kissed over 50 guys on nights out and feel disgusted with myself!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4597 days ago

28 May 2012 (F) - Ever since being in university I feel like i've lost my self respected, dignity and it makes me feel sick. I'm disappointed in myself for it... Basically, I keep kissing guys I meet on nights out! I've probably kissed just over 50 guys since being...

He may have children he doesn't know about and I am hurting, what do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4597 days ago

27 May 2012 (F) - I was really upset yesterday, as my boyfriend told me that he might have children that he doesn't know about. He is much older than i am, so he has had more of a past than i have had. He had flings with a few women from other countries when he was ...

Girlfriend "moved on" while I was deployed, what happens now?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2411 days ago

27 May 2012 (M) - I was dating my ex for close to a year before I was deployed in October. My deployment was originally scheduled to last for 6 months, but was extended twice so now I'm scheduled to return from my deployment in about a month (9 months). The majority ...

I'm hopelessly in love with a man who refuses to commit. Is there any way this could turn? Is there anything I can do? Should I just run?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4598 days ago

26 May 2012 (F) - I'm in denial but maybe writing this out will help me move on? I am madly in love with a man that I've known for years and was seeing for a few months. Despite the baggage he has, issues, and I think a drinking problem. Things were really gre...

Is he bailing out on me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4599 days ago

26 May 2012 (F) - Hello, I've known this guy along time. We had a great connection and began dating. We had a lot of fun together and I found myself developing some deep feelings for him. He explained early on he was "burnt" in a relationship years ago and aft...

Why are people so upset by the fact that I cant drive?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4599 days ago

26 May 2012 (F) - For the longest time i have been fearful of the art of driving. as a teen i was never excited to get my drivers licensee like everyone else. I have always been baffled how people could go through life driving and ultimately putting there lives in ...

Need advise on how to improve my resume, and job interview tips

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4599 days ago

26 May 2012 (F) - hey aunties, I really need help I'm 19 and currently looking for a job, I've send out resumes but never actually got an interview, I think mostly due to the fact that I don't have any experience ( not even volunteer job)although I speak four lan...

Is it common for an uninterested married man to get hit on in a bar?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4599 days ago

26 May 2012 (M) - OMG I am married and I got hit on at a bar today. It felt awful plus I had to chug a really expensive, very very good beer! This has never happened to me before but I don't go to bars very much. Is this common, to hit on guys that are wearing...

I need career advice. Don't know which direction to take my life.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4600 days ago

25 May 2012 (M) - Hey guys, I know this isn't much of a relationship question but I've been using dearcupid for about three years now and I know that it's well known for it's respected and helpful aunts. I've decided that I want to head back into school for a deg...

Why do so many women want to try having sex with a big penis if size doesn't matter?

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 2178 days ago

25 May 2012 (M) - Why do so many women want to try having sex with a big penis (like bigger than they've ever had before) if size doesn't matter? Why did men evolve big penises (length and girth) compared to other primates if size doesn't matter?...

Should I go to college or stay with my current job?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4601 days ago

25 May 2012 (F) - For the past few years i have been wondering weather or not i should go off to college, you see i have had a study job working on a farm for sometime now and it actually pays just enough for me to get by on my own, but im not sure if i want to keep ...

Can I dye my hair again? The color isn't dark enough

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4601 days ago

24 May 2012 (F) - Ok this isn't a relationship question and I'm not sure if I will get a real answer on this site but I couldn't find an answer anywhere else online. I do ask questions on here all the time, no relationship problems right now though! It's about my ...

Should I stay in an unhappy marriage for the sake of my son?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4601 days ago

24 May 2012 (F) - Hi everyone! Lately I’ve been thru a hard time with my husband (we’re not officially married, but living together for 3 years), we’re both 32 yo, we have a son together of 2 years old. We’re from different countries and currently living in South-...

The pros and cons of getting a GED or repeating a grade?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4600 days ago

24 May 2012 (F) - hello everyone during my suppose to be 10th grade year i was taking 9th grade classes and i was considered a 9.5 or a 9th grader so im going to say i was repeating. i really missed up during this year and missed majority of the school year and got ...

Whenever I have problems he calls them stupid. Is it wrong to want to talk?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4602 days ago

23 May 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I don't argue a lot, but when we do, it's BAD. And there is a routine to it that I've been having trouble dealing with. It goes a little something like this: 1) I tell him what I'm having a problem with/what I'm upset about 2...

My boyfriend doesn't care about his education, what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4602 days ago

23 May 2012 (F) - My bf and I have been together for almost 2 years now. He initially told me he'd gotten his high school diploma but then told me the truth that he dropped out at 15. He's asked me for help which I try to do by asking every once and a while when he ...

I want to end it with my BF but don't have the courage. Can he sense I'm detaching?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4602 days ago

23 May 2012 (F) - Hi All, I have been with my BF for 16 months and am really close to breaking up with him, as I have found it hard, work, him secretive and I suspected him of cheating, although I cannot prove it. Can guys sense it when you are detaching? I have ...

24 year old dating a 34 year old with a kid?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4590 days ago

23 May 2012 (F) - Hello, Ill try to be brief, list the facts and ask the question *I got out of my first and only relationship (so far) about a year ago, I had the toughest time moving on and even became depressed until I met him, I think I'm 80% healed, I t...

Can't stop thinking about my ex having sex with another guy.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4602 days ago

23 May 2012 (F) - I was in a long distance relationship that lasted a year and a half. She's in the US and I'm in the UK. She visited me and stayed here for a month and a half. Everything was fine until this April. We had an argument which made me react by blocking ...

How can you tell if someone is crazy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4602 days ago

23 May 2012 (F) - How do you tell if someone is a bit off thier rocker or just needy/bored/alone? So i posted an ad on craigslist in the platonic section. Just wanted to meet some new friends around my area that can hang out from time to time. Nothing sexual or ...

Can I hear from some women whose husband are either in the military or they are fireman?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4603 days ago

22 May 2012 (F) - I need advice from ladies whose boyfriends or husbands are in the army! My boyfriend is considering a career either in the army or as a fireman although I think he would prefer the former. While I am supportive of whatever choice he makes, I can't ...

I'm a lesbian, then what's with my feelings for this man?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4600 days ago

22 May 2012 (F) - Hi aunts and uncles. I'm in a bit of a crazy dilemma here. First off, I'm a 29 year old lesbian woman, holder of a PhD in Electrical Engineering. So I'm not an idiot. I also don't want kids, so I'm not really worried about my age. Since I was a ...

How should I convo with him? He was looking at me. So why did he write to her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4602 days ago

22 May 2012 (F) - I like this guy were both 19 and hung out yesterday but they (him and his cousin) said i was quiet and it was awkward, but i don't get it, because I ask him like what he does for fun, what do you usually do? what sports you like? what kind of music ...

This manager kept mumbling under his breath. Does he like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4602 days ago

22 May 2012 (F) - i know this is a stupid question but i would really like to hear someones opinion. ive recently applied at a restaurant and i am now working there. when i went for my first interview the manager who interviewed me was very polite like should be. but ...

Why do guys have to give up their porn but girls get to keep their toys?

This question has 45 answers - newest was posted 4379 days ago

21 May 2012 (M) - So I've been reading post about women upset about their boyfriends using porn and post about guys upset about their girlfriends using a vibrator. It strikes me odd at the double standard women have for vibrators and porn. Every post I read consist ...

Is it me? Are my expectations on how life should be realistic?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4604 days ago

21 May 2012 (F) - I'm looking for advice on really what is acceptable Or is me? Are my expectation on what life must be like how it is realistic? My belief is that a person must not have more than one partner. Sometimes I feel like I'm different, or there's somethin...

Reunited after 9 years. So why is he so disregarding my feelings?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4604 days ago

21 May 2012 (F) - This is a long one, so leave the page now if you don't like long stories lol. I am in a situation where I should be feeling on top of the world and settled. But I feel tearful and unsettled. I am in the process of getting back with my child's ...