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We say 'I love you' to each other, but I've never told her I'm 'in love' with her. Should I tell her? Will this ruin things?

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Question - (29 May 2012) 2 Answers - (Newest, 29 May 2012)
A male United States age 36-40, *ay3532 writes:

is it better to tell a significant other that you are 'in love' with them? Should i say this to my gf or is this best advised not to? I ask because i am in love with her, however we just say ' i love u', we have been together aprox 1 year, but im not sure if i should step it up and actually express that im in love, would that be game over then? Whats everyone's thoughts and experiences in expressing to someone there 'in love' ? thanks in advanced j

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A male reader, Sageoldguy1465 United States +, writes (29 May 2012):

Sageoldguy1465 agony auntYou're spending 'way too much of your time and mental energy on a subject that really doesn't matter.....

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A reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2012):

To be honest I wouldn't expect someone to say "I Love You" if they weren't actually in love. I don't know why you'd think it'd be "game over" I personally can see no difference in either statement. By all means go for it and say you are completely in love with her because I can't see how that would cause any problem since you've been together a year and already say "I love you". Best wishes.

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