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30-35,
*utless
writes:Hi,im 19yrs now.but i have this problem that worries me alot,many people say im handsome thats not the point,im a very shy type.this has impede my progress with dating girls,its very hard for me to stand a girl i like due to this reason. Yes i have a girlfriend and we have been dating a couple of months.but i think our relationship is heading to the rock i dont know the girl is hot and cold,ok if we break up now,it may be hard for me to find someone else since i'm shy and she knows that.please any advice
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reader, Cutless +, writes (1 June 2012):
Cutless is verified as being by the original poster of the questionTnx very much i had startd working on that,and i'm improving gradually,gaining self confidence is great,im glad im having a taste of that now.i just want to enjoy this friendship while it last and im doing it now tnx alot
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (30 May 2012):
 Yes stop worrying about the future and enjoy living in the moment. Nobody can tell what the future holds for your relationship. If you do not feel like it will last or you are not happy with the relationship then don't just stick with her because you are scared you won't get anybody else. This would mean you are just stringing her along and its all the wrong reasons to have a relationship.
You need to build up your confidence and your shyness will go away along with that. Look for things to do that makes you feel good about yourself. Force yourself to talk to someone new every day, even if it is just a simple hello. Take small steps on over coming your shyness. Don't just accept that you will always be shy and might never meet a new girl, you can change this if you want to so start making small steps now to improve your self esteem.
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