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Archived questions from: 7 April, 2011 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

I have a really embarrassing problem. Should I tell her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4981 days ago

7 April 2011 (M) - hey guys, i just wanted to know, is it normal for me to 'jizz' every time i snog my girlfriend i want to tell her that it happens but im scared in case its a turn off, or makes things weird between us, or makes her go away from me shall i tell h...

Who should apologize. We talked about her on FB, but she only found out about it by stealing a password.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4981 days ago

7 April 2011 (F) - I have been best friends with this girl I work with. Lat's call her "E". She tells me everything even the fact that she's seeing a guy when she is very much married. She has another very close friend whom she just recently introduced to me. Let's ...

Is it that he doesn't want to commit, or is he trying to protect me in case he doesn't make it back home?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4981 days ago

7 April 2011 (F) - Me and my guy friend have been seeing one another, we didn't have a verbal commitment but more of an unspoken one bc he just went away to war. With that being said, one morning I was laying on his chest and asked him if he wanted a life with me ...

BF uses drugs. How do I deal with it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4979 days ago

7 April 2011 (F) - I've been seeing this guy for a while now and its been the most rocky relationship I've ever had. Its very on again off again which is weird considering we haven't even been together a year yet. He uses drugs and I found this out a few months back ...

He was jealous and possessive, but says he's changed. Should I risk going back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4980 days ago

7 April 2011 (F) - I hope there is someone out there who can help me. I have been dating this guy for almost three years I love him so much. We recently broke up because he is extremely jealous and possessive and things seemed to get worse. Since the break up he has ...

We sleep over each other's houses. Is what I am doing wrong?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4981 days ago

7 April 2011 (?) - I need advice from parents with older kids. I'm 19 years old, have a job, keep a 3.9 GPA in college. I also have a boyfriend. I'm a nice kid, I do what my parents ask most of the time and I don't do drugs, don't drink, I'm quite responsi...

Need advice. I want to wow him at the airport for the first time and wow his family too!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4981 days ago

7 April 2011 (F) - Hello all. This is a question for future reference. I'm meeting my LDR boyfriend in July for his birthday. I will be meeting all of his friends and his family as well. We've been dating for three and a half years, and I've no clue what to wear! ...

My marriage ended two years ago....I found out my wife had been cheating on me, but I still cant seem to move on

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4980 days ago

7 April 2011 (M) - Hi new person here. I am a 39 yr old male and at the point of desperation. My marriage ended two years ago. I found out my wife had been cheating on me (again, we had that issue before and thought it was resolved). She did not want to w...

My boyfriend is acting ungratefully. How should I handle this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4981 days ago

7 April 2011 (F) - My boyfriend asked me to buy him a expensive pair of shoes that I can not afford right now. I was straight up with him and told him that I couldn't afford them right now and his reply was that he never ask me for anything and if it was something ...

Am I being cheap here and over-reacting? Or does my boyfriend not give me the respect that I deserve?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4978 days ago

7 April 2011 (F) - Sorry this is going to be long; thank you in advance for reading and for your answers. I’ve been dating my bf for about 2 yrs now. He’s always been a little clingy and overbearing, but I attributed that to the fact that he’s had a disturbed childh...

When a man says "Be Patient With Me, ".what does that mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4981 days ago

7 April 2011 (F) - I have been seeing this man since Nov. all was great until Feb. I saw him 3-4 times a week, slept over and suddenly that slowed down. I found out that he sees another girl on my off days, he has no idea I know, I have asked if there are other women ...

Although I am not ready to have a GF, I still feel as if I am missing out on something important in life

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4981 days ago

7 April 2011 (M) - I dont like flirting around with girls, not because it is bad but because am not ready for it. i don't have a gf and don't need one now, but when i meet or see a girl especially with her bf, i feel i am missing a lot of things in life. my question ...

Nothing I do is ever good enough for my parents....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4981 days ago

7 April 2011 (F) - Nothing I do is ever good enough for my parents. Nothing I have ever done has gotten any sort of approval. Everything I do could always be improved, according to them. I get A's and all they have to say is, 'You didn't get an A*, it's not good ...

I keep having dreams that my boyfriend turns into a drunk, abusive, cheater! Does this mean anything?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4603 days ago

7 April 2011 (F) - I keep having dreams about my boyfriend where he turns into a complete loser. But he's nothing like this in real life. In my dreams he turns into a complete drunk, shouts abusive things all the time, and even cheats on me with my friends right in ...

I got physical with my girlfriend during an argument. She has forgiven me, but I cannot forgive myself! It is always on my mind. How can I move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4981 days ago

7 April 2011 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been together for almost a year, and we get along great. I can honestly say that she is the only girl I ever want to be with again. BUT at the same time I am so confused and disappointed in myself. A month ago, we got into...

I ended it with my husband because he was awful to my son. Now he wants to work on the problems. Should I give him a chance?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4980 days ago

7 April 2011 (F) - Ok, I did it. I ended my relationship. My second husband’s relationship with my little boy was awful. My little boy is 9 years old and he needs anxiety counselling because of all the chaos in his life. I have to say, although I love my Husband, it ...

My boss bullies me, and my boyfriend is a colleague. Am I right to feel peeved that he ignored me at a social gathering?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4981 days ago

7 April 2011 (F) - My boss is a horrible person and a bully. She treats me like crap even though I do a good job (I have great stats for my work, better than almost everyone else). For example, she recently forced me to apologize publicly for a mistake that was her ...

My husband cheated on me with his ex! Did he truly end things with her? What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4981 days ago

7 April 2011 (F) - I have been married 5 yrs. Lately, when my husband and I argued, he would always calls his ex. He said it was nothing and they are just friends. Then he started calling her secretly. One week later, he went on a date with her and they had sex ...

She broke up with me for another man. Does she want me back now? What should I say to her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4979 days ago

7 April 2011 (M) - Two years back, I had a girl friend whom I loved so much. She had all the qualities I would need in a woman. I love her and did everything in my capacity to make her happy. We co-habited for two years in Kampala Uganda during my studies. When I ...

How to deal with your parents and other people pressuring you?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4981 days ago

7 April 2011 (F) - I get pressured a lot mostly by my dad! I'm in college doing a sports course I want to be a coach. He tried to pressure me to finish college this year to work on a burger van with him. I said no, also he trys to make me feel bad about myself! My ...

My husband wants to take me to visit his woman on the side!

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 4908 days ago

7 April 2011 (F) - i've been married for 17 years and have tried to be a devoted wife and mother, even sacrificing my career and my time with my mother for the sake of the family. i have 2 beautiful children who will pass out of school in a couple of years.also, the ...

I'm worried our relationship is purely based on sex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4981 days ago

7 April 2011 (F) - My boyfriend of 3 and a half years are always having sex. Our sex drive is ridiculous and we always want eachother. Our relationship has been good so far but I am worried that its based on sex. Im taking him very seriously now so I dont want this to ...

Is he right about our relationship? Will I be missing out? Will we both end up getting hurt?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4979 days ago

7 April 2011 (F) - i'm 18 and i'm dating a 26 year old. though unorthodox, we persued our relationship. through the protective older brothers and sisters, judgmental extended relatives, and questioning parents; we came out as happy as ever and perhaps ...

Am I just a bit of fun, so he keeps me a secret?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4981 days ago

7 April 2011 (F) - How do you know when you are being used for "one thing"? Ive being in a relationship for 6 month now. I would be offened if he didnt want to or fancy me like that but Im not sure if thats all he is after. Im not saying we are at it all the time or ...

She lied and flirted with other guys so I cant trust her anymore, but she wants another chance. What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

7 April 2011 (M) - hi everyone. please help! i met a girl last year, march 29 2010, shes very pretty, cute. a month later, we started dating. and i proposed her and she accepted me. when we go out together, she kind of stare other guys, she doesn look, rather sta...

Moving in with my boyfriend and his 2 friends, but I dated one of the friends a few years ago! Will it be awkward?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4981 days ago

7 April 2011 (F) - Right about our one year anniversary, my boyfriend, his two closest guy friends and I are all moving into a house together. Yes... I'll be living with three guys but I'll be in my boyfriend's/our room. Unfortunately, I dated one of his friends for a ...

I want a long-term serious relationship, but I get bored easily!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4982 days ago

7 April 2011 (F) - I'm generally an easily bored person, and it's no different when it comes to relationships. I'm constantly wishing for my ideal man--someone who is engaging, funny, and charming among other traits. Maybe it's because I want a unrealistic fairytale ...

How can I get laid without lowering my standards?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4981 days ago

7 April 2011 (F) - I've only dated people that I had really good chemistry with before, but it's been over a year since I've met anyone I'm interested in. It's hard for me to meet new people since moving to a new city and working around 80 hours a week. I thou...

Advice on dating outside your own race?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4963 days ago

7 April 2011 (M) - Ok, I'm a white boy and haven't had many girlfriends at all. Where I live there are a lot of Hispanics in addition to whites. I have found a lot of the Latinas to be very attractive and outgoing but haven't asked any out cause I think they wouldn't ...

My ex-bf recently got married and I want him back...Plead for a lifeline.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4968 days ago

7 April 2011 (F) - I met this pakistani guy on the internet since 11 dec 2008. I am lebanese and was 19 years old at that time he was 27 years old. The moment he sent me msg on facebook we clicked, we exchanged emails and chats for almost a year without seeing each ...

Inappropriate crushes?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4982 days ago

7 April 2011 (F) - I have a habit of making trouble for myself. I develop crushes easily and seem to always have one on somebody somewhere. This is a problem because I have been happily married for many years. It seems that the more inappropriate the crush, the ...