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Archived questions from: April, 2011 (see latest in Big Questions category)

Big Questions: Help and advice

He had thoughts of his ex, and a missed call from her, should I worry??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4958 days ago

30 April 2011 (F) - my boyfriend just told me that he thought of an ex girlfrend whom he dint talk to for many years this morning,then when he got home today he received a missed call,he called back the person and it was her...he says it was spooky...y is this ...

Feel so alone without my best friend, any suggestions??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4953 days ago

30 April 2011 (F) - I miss my x best friend(with Bennefits) so much it hurts. He was my best friend. Always there wheather I needed him or not. It was a very different relationship as it started when my boyfriend(x) started to abuse me. Robert was always there.. we ...

Drama in relationship, but should I have broken up with her??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4929 days ago

30 April 2011 (M) - Ok we started out good first time. The first times were great and stuff but as the relationship went on things started to change. Our first argument was over her telling me I might not be the girl for her because she feels alive around other guys. ...

We broke up, should I keep the promise ring or give it back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4958 days ago

30 April 2011 (F) - my bf broke up with me 2 days ago in a txt after i had given him space to think if he can b in this relationship bcuz he was havn trust and insecurity issues cuz i have cheated in my past and decided to txt with my sons coach(txts were innocent).... ...

How can you tell if someone actually cares about you??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4958 days ago

30 April 2011 (F) - How do you know if someone actually cares about you?...

How do I remedy this problem??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4958 days ago

30 April 2011 (F) - Okay so, I have now been with my boyfriend for two months. I know its not that long. He says he loves me and I say I love him. Im not really sure if I do though. You see we were best friends before we got together! Its bunch of us, its our. "Click". ...

I can't seem to relax my brain, do you have a suggestion please??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4957 days ago

30 April 2011 (F) - I have a lots of anxiety, and my brain never can rest. . they recomandeded meditation to me many times. I was hoping ,it will help.. I really dont why , but meditation never worked for me. It is not effective to me, no matter what I try. I li...

Could you tell me why you think this question was asked??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4923 days ago

30 April 2011 (M) - I know this is not your usual type of question on here but I would very much like your opinions on this please. Last year I had a good friend killed in a car accident. A few days after the accident the police called to my friends home and asked ...

He walked out, should I move on or take him back if he returns??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4958 days ago

30 April 2011 (F) - hello everyone. . I would be grateful for some advice. . My boyfriend of four years walked out yesterday saying it was over after a strange tense day. We had had a lovely week together the week before but for some reason yesterday we were at each ...

We all live together, he used to be my bf, now he likes her, how do I move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4953 days ago

30 April 2011 (F) - Lately i'm questioning if I can be friends with this girl and guy that i live with. We met as she was friends with a friend of a guy I was seeing. While seeing him she would sometimes be around, and on one occasion I invited her to sit with us, big ...

I feel very lost, please help me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4935 days ago

30 April 2011 (M) - I need some real help. I feel so lost. I went through a separation from my wife a while back. During which time I had an affair that was the biggest mistake of my life. I invested all my love into the wrong person. This person broke my heart into a ...

She isn't ready, I don't want to wait around, what to do??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4958 days ago

30 April 2011 (M) - Me and my gf split at the end of january, as i said some nasty things about her ability at work etc (i was an idiot) we lived together and i moved out about 6 weeks ago. We've met up a few times to see how things go, but everytime it goes well i ...

He's gone most of the time, I'm ready to leave. Thoughts??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4955 days ago

30 April 2011 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 12 years now, during that time we broke up 3 times cause he had cheated on me, and yet i still took him back cause i love him or so i think i do. Im 31 years old now and we have one child together and another one on ...

I don't know how far my BF has gone with this other girl, but its killing me. HELP!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4958 days ago

30 April 2011 (F) - I'm devastated. I have an LDR of 3.5 years and we were going to meet for the very first time in July. He went out two nights ago with his cousin and his cousin's girlfriend. His cousin's girlfriend's feelings fluctuates from hating to lovin...

The fact that my GF was not a virgin when she met me, is breaking me down.I cant handle this relationship anymore...

This question has 29 answers - newest was posted 4558 days ago

30 April 2011 (M) - Ive being going out with my girlfriend for nearly two years now and early on in the relationship i found she wasnt a virgin. This was painful for me to hear for two reasons: 1-I belive that you should lose your virginity to someone you love and want...

Should I stick by my GF despite her attitude or should I not bother and go with a relationship that I feel could work?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

30 April 2011 (M) - Dear Cupid, First off let me set up the situation for you. I have been with my girlfriend now for over 4 years. It has been a rather rocky relationship. a few years back i broke up with her because i felt it wasn't what i wanted. I didnt do anyth...

Can anyone help me fix an internet cookie problem?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4956 days ago

30 April 2011 (M) - Dear cupid. I love this site. It has helped me alot since I registered. My question is I need to speak to someone who can help me fix an internet cookie problem.? This is related to a feeling because I love playing that game. So I am a bit sad ...

I need a reliable bug repellent!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4958 days ago

30 April 2011 (F) - i have this big bug problem these senipeds and spiders and ants and pertty much everything i git this new bug spray called raid max bug barrier and so i guess its been working and i just sprayed it all over my room and out side... i would really ...

My boyfriend's bird obssesion is troubling me...along with the bird shop girl who flirts with him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

30 April 2011 (F) - My b/f Paul likes collecting birds and I am not sure I can take it any more. He already has one cage of birds. His father collects them too. But I have asthma and i dont like be near the birds and all the feathers and it smells. But when he is away ...

What does my dream mean?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4958 days ago

30 April 2011 (F) - I had the weirdest dream last night!!! It was about a friend who I really have not thought about in anyway as a potential "partner". Actually, that same night I had hung out with a guy who I am trying to find out whether I like or not. But here is ...

If he has such deep feelings for me, why hesitant about a relationship? I need to knw-Is he playing with my emotions and using his recent break-up as an excuse?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4959 days ago

30 April 2011 (F) - Okay so this might be fairly long, but I'll start from the beginning anyway. I have this guy bestfriend and we've been messing around for 4, almost 5 months now. Last year we were just friends and he was in a relationship, but whenever we got the ...

I was wondering, does anyone on here work as a paid agony aunt?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4957 days ago

30 April 2011 (F) - I was wondering, does anyone on here work as a paid agony aunt? And then I guess, come on this site to gain more knowledge/experience? Does anyone know how one would go about gaining paid employment as an agony aunt/advisor? I really love doing this ...

Please help me to move on...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4959 days ago

29 April 2011 (F) - When i was 17 i got pregnent with a baby girl. At first her father and i were still together. But sooner or later he started to stray from me. He started talking to other girls. Once we broke up he dated and had sex with another girl. I fought to be ...

How can I let him see it's time we both grew up, we're both adults!?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4932 days ago

29 April 2011 (F) - I've been in a relationship with a man for almost 2 years now and we've been rocky for a while. It's always been his dream to travel overseas to teach English to children, which is why he is getting his degree. This is not because he loves children ...

How to control my intense sexual thoughts?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4958 days ago

29 April 2011 (M) - I'm a little conservative type of a person and i have high ambitions in my life. But intense sexual thoughts and unrealistic fantasies distracting from working towards achieving my goals I think sex outside marriage is morally wrong and I've d...

Should I buy? Or rent?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4959 days ago

29 April 2011 (F) - hi all need some advice ive saved 25,000 pounds and wants to know whats better renting or buying a one bedroom place any advice will be great . my family says get a mortgage and my mates says rent help ...

Am I being too naive to be upset about my Gf's attitude to sleeping her way to the top?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4957 days ago

29 April 2011 (M) - So I have been seeing this girl for a couple months and we got to talking recently about our work and job history. she is a decently successful actress in commercials and some background TV spots. now here's the thing: she was a model first, and she ...

I want to study in scotland to be with my boyfriend, but so many concerns. I need some advice please?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4946 days ago

29 April 2011 (F) - I am in a LDR with my boyfriend who is back in Scotland, where is was born. He is 31 and I am 18. I want to go to Scotland to study at University, and also to start a life with him. But i am not sure what criteria i have to meet to do this. And i ne...

Surely by 25 this feeling of awkwardness should be gone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

29 April 2011 (F) - Hi I have a problem that I don't know how to overcome. I have little confidence in myself, especially when talking to people. I feel this has got worse in the last 3 years or so. I just can't help noticing people my age around me have so much sel...

My insecurities leave me feeling so alone inside

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4930 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - I have a question I'm very self conscious and vunreable and I dont know how to snap out of it. A little backround on me I;m 24 yrs old. skinny, many ppl say i should model big breasts, I have a graduate degree, and currently employed. I just got...

It is domestic abuse. So why would some try to blame the victim? What's their mindset and the payoff for doing it?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4946 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - i work with T who has recently been subjected to domestic abuse, and is still having this happen to her, at home. But something happened this week, people talking behind the back of T. And it has shaken my trust in some of my co-workers. Am i m...

I love my therapist and she's helped me so much, but my wife is jealous

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4959 days ago

28 April 2011 (M) - Hi. Hope I can clarify my feeling. I have been in therapy with a lovely women therapist who I had almost immediate connection. I was very vulnerable and so taken by her honesty and style and her insights. My marriage has always been pretty ...

I want my boyfriend to need my attention more, not the other way round!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - i love my boyfriends's attention and he loves mine too, i give him a lot of attention, he does too. but sometimes he doesn't at all and i feel lonely. I want to get over this and be independent. I want him to be needing my attention more, ...

I don't want my friend to get hurt by this man, what should she do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - dear cupid, i really didnt get a lot of responses to my question on tuesday. i need some good advive for my girlfriend. she is a good person . we are like sisters. i dont want her to get hurt. the guy she is seeing only goes to her place. he doesn...

Is my life going to change completely when my mother has a baby?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4960 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - My mother is 45 and pregnant, i am 22. I am so excited to have a baby in our family again after those years but is my life going to change completely? I need help, will i be baby sitting forever and wont be able to live my own life i am worried, ...

Happy about the royal wedding but sad about not having a hubbie of my own!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - This is going to sound really odd but I'll give it a go. As everyone knows its the Royal wedding tomorrow, and being a royalist I am excited/happy to see the ceremony and the wedding dress etc. It will be a lovely day here for many of us in the UK ...

Is there anything I can do to stop the pattern I seem to be falling into?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - Hi, I'm wondering if I am beginning to notice a slight pattern in the type of guys I fancy, or "really fall for" it always happens when I am away somewhere, I seem to really get curious when people have different backgrounds. I always seem to "...

How do I stop myself from feeling like this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - Hi I've asked a lot of questions about this problem before and received a lot of kind words and helpful advice so I'm back again. To cut a very long story short, about a year and a half ago my male best friend broke up with his girlfriend, we...

He doesn't call me, does this mean he doesn't love me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - please i love my boyfriend but he does not call me , he said i should be the one calling, he said he does not have the money to call, does that mean he does not love me...

What did I do or say that was so wrong?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4959 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - Ok i was supposed to be spending the weekend with my boyfriend that lives out of town. i had plans on driving and getting him, its only four hours away and he text me and told me that he couldn't come because he said something came up with his son. ...

How do I confront my husband about his cheating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4959 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - I've been married for four years and just found out he's cheating. It really breaks my heart because I think we are doing ok and he doesn't complain much. We have 2 kids. How do I confront him? I don't want to talk to the tramp his dealing with I ...

Will I lose my virginity if I give him oral? Will he love me more if I do it?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - i'm a 17 years old girl and still a virgin. my boyfriend is asking me to have an oral sex with him, he's 18 and were both virgins. i keep telling him that i don't want to because i'm reserving my virginity till the day i'm married. (even though im ...

I don't want to live at home anymore and I also don't want to live with my boyfriend. How do I tell him I'm not ready?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - I'm at a crossroads at the moment and feeling very confused. I don't want to live at home anymore and I also don't want to live with my boyfriend. I don't know how to tell him that I want to get my own place...I think he's going to be devastated. ...

I am feeling devastated by the Tornado in Alabama. Can people please just keep us in their thoughts?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - I am feeling devastated by the Tornado in Alabama. We got completely leveled today by the tornadoes. Just asking for people's thoughts and prayers for the state of Alabama. Lots of people lost their homes too, and their lives. just please keep us i...

Could the trauma of my parent's divorce and seeing what I saw as a child be the reason I cannot connect with girls?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

28 April 2011 (M) - This is difficult for me to write, as it is deeply personal. When I was a boy, my parents were on the verge of divorce and I had just turned 10. My father constantly traveled for his work, and his absence and constant fighting when he was home drov...

Am I the only person in the world who feels this way?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4959 days ago

28 April 2011 (M) - Hi. I am a 16 year old guy. The truth is...I don't know how to be myself...I am paranoid, truly suffering from paranoia. I do not think there is anyone who is like me on this planet. I am scared and nervous of life in general..as crazy as it ...

Can too much sexual talk or sex put off your man and his perception of you?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - I love my boyfriend. We are in a LDR and we have been trying to make it work. The only thing that bugs me is that I find myself in relationships where men like to talk dirty to me and I think my relationship is turning into that. I love sex a lot bu...

How can I show my gratitude to a teacher who has gone above and beyond for me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4922 days ago

27 April 2011 (F) - What can I do to show/tell my teacher how much she helped me? Basically, I was disapointed with my last set of Chemistry results. (one mark off an A)In March we had the next set of exams. I asked my teacher to help with revision. So she sat with ...

How do you know if your boyfriend is over their ex-wife for good?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

27 April 2011 (F) - I am having a baby with my bf of 1 year. He is at the end of a divorce - the last part - third final papers. Before I fell pregnant I thought he was already divorced. Turns out they were separated for four years and as soon as he got with me he ...

My boyfriend's gay friend asked him for sex! Does this mean he is gay too?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4961 days ago

27 April 2011 (F) - I have a boyfriend and everytime I open his account he ask me not to open his messages and comments . I was so curious that day that I replied to a gay friend of him and ask why, then I was shocked when that gay answered "where are you now ,could we ...