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Archived questions from: 9 April, 2011 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

I have never approached a woman in my life... am I a failure as a man?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4977 days ago

9 April 2011 (M) - I have never approached a woman in my life... am I a failure as a man? I have had three significant relationships in my life. One isn't a great example because it happened over the internet, but the two others happened whenever I was approached i...

BF is uncomfortable about physical scenes in the play. Should I not do them?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4979 days ago

9 April 2011 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for just over a year and we really trust each other. I do drama and as part of a role I have some pretty intimate scenes with another guy. My bf is really happy for me that I got the role but says he is really ...

BF took money from daughter's room. I am not sure what to do about this relationship. Please help.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4979 days ago

9 April 2011 (F) - here is my dilema...my boyfriend of 5 years is lazy , has lied a lot in the past, I found out last year that he got oral from another man when he was in his teens .. i have been thru a lot with this guy.. but i am the kind of person that sees the ...

Depressed because of age. Any advice?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4979 days ago

9 April 2011 (F) - I am getting terribly depressed and although not suicidal. I keep getting very depressed because I am coming up to 60 years of age. No man will want me now I know that and cant help wondering what a bleak future. I know one doesnt have to have a ...

Are my dark "bits" as pretty as a white girl's to my boyfriend?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4979 days ago

9 April 2011 (F) - I am black and my partner is white. I have seen some of the porn he uses and they have white women in them, and they all have very...pink, light skinned vagina's. Of course, as I am black, I am much darker down there and I feel insecure. Are whit...

My Bf got a stripper pregnant on a one night stand. How do I deal with it? He's sorry.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

9 April 2011 (F) - Hi, my boyfriend of 8 yrs had a one nite stand and now a female is carrying a baby from him. She was a stripper. he says he is sorry I want to still be with him try work things out for us we have kids together,but how do I deal with this sex I m...

I'm being pressurized into marriage because my GF whom I never really loved, got pregnant and had our baby, by lying to me about using birth control..

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4978 days ago

9 April 2011 (M) - Hello. I am in a spot of bother. I had been going out with a girl long distance for about a year, we moved in together and I was pretty sure then that it wasn't true love. After about 6 months, when she was telling me she was taking contra...

I feel my daughter's friends don't include her much into their group and she is getting left out. As a concerned parent, how can I help better the situation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4979 days ago

9 April 2011 (F) - The problem is that I feel that my daughter is left out with her friends. It is more hurtful for me as a parent than it is for my daughter. She is in sixth grade, and her class is small. There are three other girls who are all very outgoing. ...

I asked him to wear a condom and he was "offended" that I didnt trust him! Now he doesn't want the relationship anymore!!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4977 days ago

9 April 2011 (F) - I first met this guy in summer school...i didn't have any classes with him...but from the very beginning he started showing signs of interest...afterwards I think it was in September when he added me on face book...he kept on commenting on my posts ...

My BF doesn't believe in sex until marriage but I don't think I'm ever going to be ready for marriage. Should I stay or leave??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4979 days ago

9 April 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 years and he's 19, I'm 18 and he doesn't believe in sex until marriage but I don't think I'm ever going to be ready for marriage and I don't want him to compromise his morals for me so, what I'm asking is if ...

Am I the only person who believes you should give advice if you have experienced a situation?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4979 days ago

9 April 2011 (F) - I have been a member of this site for a long time and have been reading a lot of the advice that is given. A lot of it varies and not everyone has them same answer which is to be expected. A few aunts or uncles I have been following give q...

Is it possible to fall in love in just 2 meetings including sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4979 days ago

9 April 2011 (M) - Is it fair to tell her I am in love? Our first meeting - We had sex for 2 hours and it was extremely passionate. How we ended up having sex in the first meeting is something which I rather not discuss here. Our 2nd meeting - We ended up chatt...

Need help making an employment decision...its putting a strain on my partner.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4980 days ago

9 April 2011 (F) - Hi everyone, I have been on the fence regarding this decision for a month now. I've never been so indecisive in my life, its driving me nutty and despite my fiance's best attempts, I can't seem to make a decision at all. I'm just stuck right in t...