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Archived questions from: 17 April, 2011 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

What would you think of this age difference?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4970 days ago

17 April 2011 (F) - Please be as brutally honest as your thoughts might be. If you saw an 18yr old girl walking down the street holding hands with a grey haired 49yr old man what would you think? Thank you for your time xxx...

I want a child now. He's asked me to wait. Do you think he does not love me enough?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4970 days ago

17 April 2011 (F) - Hello dear cupid. I have sitution here with my boyfriend. We're not married but we live together for 4 years. He told me he want to marry me one day and have kids. He is 31 years old and I'm 23. I want to have kids now. I mean I love him.I do ever...

He left the country and is out of contact. Why is he being so cruel?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4971 days ago

17 April 2011 (F) - I am desperate. He left to other country for 2 weeks to his ex, cause they have child together. I dont understand the way he told me, it caused me pain. He just sent sms before as a reply to msg that he goes for holidays and that no regrets. Now ...

How can you resolve long standing, extended family based conflicts in a marriage?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4971 days ago

17 April 2011 (F) - How can you resolve long standing, extended family based conflicts in a marriage? Me and my husband married more than 25 years ago, and we still have the same conflicts, about his family , what we used to have at the beginning. Very ''classic...

Deep feelings for a married man and no longer love my own husband.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4970 days ago

17 April 2011 (F) - This is my first time on this forum so here goes. I have deep feelings for a married man. I am married. We both have young children. I see him often as our children socialize together. I have had these feelings for him for over a year now and I k...

He's giving me mixed signals, do I have a chance with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4971 days ago

17 April 2011 (F) - ok so theres this guy that i met like 6 months ago and i recently started to have feelings for him but i don't know if he likes me back. Sometimes he seems like he likes me a lot and sometimes he seems like he doesn't care at all. My friends ...

Do I deserve to be alone because I'm picky with men?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4971 days ago

17 April 2011 (F) - Please pardon my anxiety filled letter. But I am desperatly seeking some honest perspective on this. Anyone taking the time to read or reply, I greatly appreciate it. I'm just 22 years old, never dated, and already feel like I'm one of those ind...

I am the Real 40 Year-Old Virgin

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4863 days ago

17 April 2011 (M) - I am a 41 year-old virgin, suffering from social anxiety and isolation disorders and I feel like less of a man and human being because of my total lack of intimacy. How can one regain their sense of self dignity and live a more fulfilling life?...

I told him I hope he "suffers on his deathbed"...now I'm afraid of karma

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4971 days ago

17 April 2011 (F) - My boyfriend is 30 yrs older than me and I have come to realize he played 5 yrs of my life by manipulating me, sexually used me...the 5 yrs relationship I feel is based with lies. I thought it was real relationship since he is so charming, gives ...

What is the point of "adding" friends and contacts if you don't communicate with them?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4967 days ago

17 April 2011 (M) - I really don't understand social interaction - or I'm sceptic about it. I have a blackberry, and I do have contacts on blackberry messenger. However I know If I don't message, then the others wouldn't. They'll only message if they need something. ...

There's no love anymore, how do I break up with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4269 days ago

17 April 2011 (F) - I want to break up with my boyfriend. We have been in a long distance relationship for about a year and a half now. He doesn't let me hang out with my friends, I'm only allowed to see them like once every 2 weeks if that. And he constantly makes me ...

Can chemistry grow with time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4971 days ago

17 April 2011 (F) - Hello I have been 'seeing' this lovely guy. He is caring, considerate, kind and all the things you could wish for in a guy. He calls and texts everyday. The only problem is I feel no chemistry with him. I should do as he is so lovely. I enjoy hi...

Retroactive Jealousy is driving me insane. Help!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4971 days ago

17 April 2011 (F) - I need help in dealing with Retroactive Jealousy. I’ll keep this as short as I can. Kevin (my bf) was in love with me since school. I didn’t feel the same way and turned him down. A couple of yrs later, I fell for him and tried to approach him....

In a loving relationship, until I found out about his facebook inboxes..

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4971 days ago

17 April 2011 (F) - I'm 19 yrs old and i'm in a relationship with a guy who i adore and love. We have been together for almost 2 years now and i never want to lose him. I used to be kind of a slut, i dated a tonne of guys and cheated on almost all of them. They were ...

Love don't live here anymore

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4969 days ago

17 April 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been together for 9yrs.We have 4 boys, but i know i dont love him in that way anymore. He says he still loves me, but yet he cheated on me? I know he stays for income reasons, he has none. Is it wrong and selfish that i want ...

Masturbatio & Sex Duration worries/troubles

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4971 days ago

17 April 2011 (M) - I am a 27 year old virgin I do watch porn quite a bit too. What I have noticed is that when I masturbate, it takes a few strokes/seconds before I climax, and it is possible for me to do this 4/5 times an hour. Is this normal? If I ever have ...

Not sure how to act in my bosses house

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

17 April 2011 (F) - hey, I'm doing this boot camp thing this week because my boss/instructor wants me to do it. and he has pulled out all the stops to enable me to do it as well, so much so that i am now staying with him and his girlfriend this week at their house. ...

He messed up our relationship, but he's not maing the effort to get me back!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4968 days ago

17 April 2011 (F) - Hmm okay so this recent tuesday i was suppose 2 see my boyfriend and he never showed up cause he was in Jail and i never thought the reason would be this: so he told me he found a phone of a girl co-worker and it was those new high tech pho...

I have a high sexdrive and my partner doesn't seem to understand my needs.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4971 days ago

17 April 2011 (M) - me and my girlfriend of 3 years have not had what u call a perfect sex life. its been good 1 second next its cold for a few days. she dont moan when we have sex. she just lays there and looks at the roof. she just wants to lay on her back, n...

I don't like how my partner is treating our child..

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4971 days ago

17 April 2011 (M) - hi all, im 29 years old, got a little girl who i love more than anyone (14 months old) sometimes this is the problem with me and my girlfriend of 3 years. i dont look at her in the same way anymore. not because i dont fancy her or some...

I've messed up badly, but now I want the guy I can't have..

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

17 April 2011 (F) - I've been married for almost four years now. My husband stopped having sex with me since the first few months of our marriage. Since then, we have sex once or twice (a year), literally. We have a twenty month old (apparently we're both very fertile ...

My ex cheated on me and now she's with a guy who used to be a good friend of mine. I'm a mess right now! Help!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4948 days ago

17 April 2011 (M) - I was cheated on by my ex and now she's with a guy who used to be a good friend of mine. I know it's a cliche. Anyway, I found out she was doing all this behind my back after about 5 months last year in Dec, which means she started this in Sept. No...

My marriage is on a downward spiral.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4971 days ago

17 April 2011 (F) - My marriage is on a downward spiral. I just want him to love me like he used to. I know he is capable. But I am not sure with my life at an all time low how to get his time and love. I need him so much, my mom is dieing and i feel alone and scared. ...

Do I want a man???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4972 days ago

17 April 2011 (M) - I work hard to be a sexy looking woman, and can pass as one. I do this to turn men on and plan a night of being a man's bed toy, but I just don't do it. I have been kissed and it felt good being in a dress with a man holding me. I just never let him ...