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Archived questions from: 6 April, 2011 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

I saw my ex girlfriend cheating. Should I get involved?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4981 days ago

6 April 2011 (F) - There was this girl I used to be best friends with, lets call her Sydney, but when this new girl came along, lets call her Amber, all of a sudden Sydney was leaving no time for me and always hanging out with Amber. Amber and I didn't like each ...

I want to lose my virginity before my next birthday, but there's still no one special in my life.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4942 days ago

6 April 2011 (F) - This is rare nowadays, I know, but I am still a virgin at 31 years old. I've had opportunities to have sex before, but I didn't act on them because I promised I wouldn't have sex with just anyone. I don't regret that promise, but here I am, at 31 ...

Do I stay with my GF who I'm comfortable with, or pursue the new girl I can't stop thinking about?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4981 days ago

6 April 2011 (M) - Ok. So, I've been dating the same girl for two years now. Things are mostly good, except we fight a lot, have different personalities, and dont really have many similar interests (i.e. she gets pissed off when I spend a day watching sports). We are ...

Should I meet my ex coworker? We are both married and I am unsure of her intentions.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4982 days ago

6 April 2011 (M) - I worked with a woman a few years ago, and our relationship at the office got very intense. We worked together all the time, and this woman, who was my superior, had my office moved next to hers so we could be closer to each other. We are both ...

I lied. How can I pretend to be good in bed with no experience?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4982 days ago

6 April 2011 (F) - So i've told all my group of friends that i'm not a virgin and they all think i'm good in bed, i've never said i am but for some reason i let off that i am. The thing is theres this one guy in my group of friends who i really like and he likes me, ...

I am worried about wearing a revealing swimsuit. I need some advice.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4982 days ago

6 April 2011 (F) - I'm going to be going on a trip with my school year (about 200) and im going to have to wear a swimming costume, very tight diving suits and lots of revealing clothing that comes with the activities. my problem is that i'm about 12 stone, 5'5, and i ...

My BF's political views are self destructive. I will be leaving and I am worried about what he will do when I'm gone.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4982 days ago

6 April 2011 (M) - I think my boyfriend is delusional and lost. We're both 16 and he's confusing me so much. We come from different backgrounds. I live a comfortable middle class suburban life and go to private school. He goes to a rough school (People have been ...

Do you have any advice for someone who is separated from their loved one because of work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4981 days ago

6 April 2011 (M) - I am very concerned about how much time I crave to be with my partner. Her job as an international guide makes it difficult for us to have any time to see each other. She is always overseas, out with friends or at the office. She is pressed for t...

Questions about intercourse and condoms

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4982 days ago

6 April 2011 (F) - Hey guys, when you have sex and are using a condom, do you get more pleasure out of putting it on yourself, or would you prefer she was the one who put it on? Also, when having intercourse, do you ever feel the head of your penis touching her ...

Men what is the right number of times to call?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4982 days ago

6 April 2011 (F) - Men how often would you like for a woman, or your partner, to call you in a day or a week where you would not get aggravated when you two don't live in the same house. Thanks...

I always get bored. It's happening again. Why and what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4982 days ago

6 April 2011 (F) - I am 21 years old and i think of myself as a mature adult, i want to have that long term commitment with someone but my problem i have is that i become bored in a relationship very quickly. I am usually loud and very out going, and i enjoy the ...

My parents argue all the time. I don't know what to do about it. Please help.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4982 days ago

6 April 2011 (F) - Hello there. I'm so sorry to bring up this sad story to you. Ok the story is: my mom and dad can't handle each other. They just can't stay together and talk in the same room without arguing on somethings, fighting with words, rising their voices not ...

How do I start my life over?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4982 days ago

6 April 2011 (F) - Hi, my life as not been a good ride since 1999 when my father died, and 2006 my son died of sudden death, and 2009 my brother also died. due to having 4 children taken away from me and put into care as i was emotional. is there anyway i can start a ...

Stepmom instigated Dad and older brother to beat up my BF.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4981 days ago

6 April 2011 (F) - me + my bf(15) have been dating 4, 5 months (the only thing we do is kiss cus we decided 2 wait.) my step-mom hates me so last nite we were sitting their watching t.v. (my step mom was home the whole time) so she told my dad + big bro he was "on top ...

Should I marry her while I still have this desire to be with men?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4975 days ago

6 April 2011 (M) - I have a lovely girlfriend. We've been together for a few years. I want to married her and start a family soon, but there is a problem. Back when I was in my twenties, I made a very bad decision that landed me in prison for almost a decade. While I ...

He is not the same since he started drinking. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4982 days ago

6 April 2011 (F) - He use to be so nice and sweet but he has been drinking and now i don't know who he is. He has just changed and its scaring me. What should i do? I think i might love him but i don't know him anymore.:( Please help me!!...

Is it worth being in the job if I'm unhappy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4982 days ago

6 April 2011 (F) - I'm 28 and I've been working as a lawyer for about 4 years now. I don't really know why I went to law school but it seemed like the right thing to do, you know, get paid well, have a high status job and make my parents proud. My mum loves to be ...

I am desperately unhappy because I cant measure up to my boyfriend's ex and I just want to get out of this relationship so that I do not have to be compared to her...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4982 days ago

6 April 2011 (F) - I am so so jealous of my partners ex. I dont know where to start but it just seems like she was better in every way. She was very good looking, she had a kid, guys were always hitting on her. She is now doing a great job that pays well and she is ...

Applied for the same job, I got it and my BF didn't...and I lied to him that I didn't make it too!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4981 days ago

6 April 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid My bf and myself applied for a job in the same place and we both have the same qualification, although i personally think he is more knowledgable than me. Long shory short, i got the job and he didnt. He was very upset that he di...

Forbidden Love and I don't know how to handle it

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4982 days ago

6 April 2011 (F) - Dear Agony Aunt, I'm a 18 yr old girl in love with an 24 yr old guy. We met on a social networking site but havent met each other, as we both stay in different cities but in the same country. Our story is a very clichèd tale but unfortunately wi...

Who answers the questions on this site?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4982 days ago

6 April 2011 (F) - Hi Andew Not really sure how I got here virtually!!! Must be on a cloud? who is it that actually answers these questions people have? other users or do you have a staff of lisc. social workers, Ph.d's ect...who purse this site and chime in when th...

I just want to move on with my life and enjoy the rest of my pregnancy and get along with my ex but I don't know how...HELP!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4983 days ago

6 April 2011 (F) - im 19 years old and i am 22 weeks pregnant. My baby's father and i were together for 3 years but broke up before i found out i was pregnant. When i told him everything was fine but then a couple weeks later out of no where he would tell me that he ...

My G/f is unbelievably controlling/manipulative/insecure and I'm wondering if I can do anything to make her a little more secure...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4982 days ago

6 April 2011 (M) - I know that my girlfriend of almost 1 and a half years is controlling/manipulative/insecure/etc...and that 99.9% of me knows that I'll inevitably break up with her, but I am the kind of person that wants to have no regrets and exhaust all measures ...

Is there any such thing as "I don't know why I love you but I love you"..??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4977 days ago

6 April 2011 (F) - My boyfriend of 9 months told me yesterday that he doesn't know why he loves me but he loves me. Is there any such statement and does such exist. I can tell him 3 reasons why I love him but he can't? When I asked him what he menat. He said "It mean...

I earn more money than my B/f. Is this going to affect our relationship long term and will he resent me for it one day?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4983 days ago

6 April 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for just over a year and a half and we have a very good relationship. I studied at university for 6 years while he started working right out of high school. At the moment I earn more than him and I think thin...

I love her, but I cannot have the future I want with her. Any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4980 days ago

6 April 2011 (M) - I have strange sexual tastes which my girlfriend of almost 7 years fulfills. (I'm 70%-30% roughly bi to the straight side and I like to cross dress and satisfy guys sometimes). Problem is my girlfriend is married and has kids (26 and 28). She's co...

How much do appearances matter?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4983 days ago

6 April 2011 (F) - I recently met this guy whose family was from my hometown originally but he was born and raised in this country. He obviously likes me a lot and we had a lot to talk as his major is similar to mine. We've met twice but nothing was awkward and he ...

I'm just not comfortable with myself being gay

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4983 days ago

6 April 2011 (F) - All my life I have liked boys but sometimes I get a funny feeling not in my tummy or heart its that sexual feeling when I'm around this one girl friend. I don't think lesbians/gays/bisexuals are bad people! But personally I don't want to be. It has ...