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Archived questions from: 28 April, 2011 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

My insecurities leave me feeling so alone inside

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4930 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - I have a question I'm very self conscious and vunreable and I dont know how to snap out of it. A little backround on me I;m 24 yrs old. skinny, many ppl say i should model big breasts, I have a graduate degree, and currently employed. I just got...

It is domestic abuse. So why would some try to blame the victim? What's their mindset and the payoff for doing it?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4946 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - i work with T who has recently been subjected to domestic abuse, and is still having this happen to her, at home. But something happened this week, people talking behind the back of T. And it has shaken my trust in some of my co-workers. Am i m...

I love my therapist and she's helped me so much, but my wife is jealous

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4959 days ago

28 April 2011 (M) - Hi. Hope I can clarify my feeling. I have been in therapy with a lovely women therapist who I had almost immediate connection. I was very vulnerable and so taken by her honesty and style and her insights. My marriage has always been pretty ...

I want my boyfriend to need my attention more, not the other way round!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - i love my boyfriends's attention and he loves mine too, i give him a lot of attention, he does too. but sometimes he doesn't at all and i feel lonely. I want to get over this and be independent. I want him to be needing my attention more, ...

I don't want my friend to get hurt by this man, what should she do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - dear cupid, i really didnt get a lot of responses to my question on tuesday. i need some good advive for my girlfriend. she is a good person . we are like sisters. i dont want her to get hurt. the guy she is seeing only goes to her place. he doesn...

Is my life going to change completely when my mother has a baby?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4960 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - My mother is 45 and pregnant, i am 22. I am so excited to have a baby in our family again after those years but is my life going to change completely? I need help, will i be baby sitting forever and wont be able to live my own life i am worried, ...

Happy about the royal wedding but sad about not having a hubbie of my own!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - This is going to sound really odd but I'll give it a go. As everyone knows its the Royal wedding tomorrow, and being a royalist I am excited/happy to see the ceremony and the wedding dress etc. It will be a lovely day here for many of us in the UK ...

Is there anything I can do to stop the pattern I seem to be falling into?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - Hi, I'm wondering if I am beginning to notice a slight pattern in the type of guys I fancy, or "really fall for" it always happens when I am away somewhere, I seem to really get curious when people have different backgrounds. I always seem to "...

How do I stop myself from feeling like this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - Hi I've asked a lot of questions about this problem before and received a lot of kind words and helpful advice so I'm back again. To cut a very long story short, about a year and a half ago my male best friend broke up with his girlfriend, we...

He doesn't call me, does this mean he doesn't love me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - please i love my boyfriend but he does not call me , he said i should be the one calling, he said he does not have the money to call, does that mean he does not love me...

What did I do or say that was so wrong?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4959 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - Ok i was supposed to be spending the weekend with my boyfriend that lives out of town. i had plans on driving and getting him, its only four hours away and he text me and told me that he couldn't come because he said something came up with his son. ...

How do I confront my husband about his cheating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4959 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - I've been married for four years and just found out he's cheating. It really breaks my heart because I think we are doing ok and he doesn't complain much. We have 2 kids. How do I confront him? I don't want to talk to the tramp his dealing with I ...

Will I lose my virginity if I give him oral? Will he love me more if I do it?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - i'm a 17 years old girl and still a virgin. my boyfriend is asking me to have an oral sex with him, he's 18 and were both virgins. i keep telling him that i don't want to because i'm reserving my virginity till the day i'm married. (even though im ...

I don't want to live at home anymore and I also don't want to live with my boyfriend. How do I tell him I'm not ready?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - I'm at a crossroads at the moment and feeling very confused. I don't want to live at home anymore and I also don't want to live with my boyfriend. I don't know how to tell him that I want to get my own place...I think he's going to be devastated. ...

I am feeling devastated by the Tornado in Alabama. Can people please just keep us in their thoughts?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - I am feeling devastated by the Tornado in Alabama. We got completely leveled today by the tornadoes. Just asking for people's thoughts and prayers for the state of Alabama. Lots of people lost their homes too, and their lives. just please keep us i...

Could the trauma of my parent's divorce and seeing what I saw as a child be the reason I cannot connect with girls?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

28 April 2011 (M) - This is difficult for me to write, as it is deeply personal. When I was a boy, my parents were on the verge of divorce and I had just turned 10. My father constantly traveled for his work, and his absence and constant fighting when he was home drov...

Am I the only person in the world who feels this way?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4959 days ago

28 April 2011 (M) - Hi. I am a 16 year old guy. The truth is...I don't know how to be myself...I am paranoid, truly suffering from paranoia. I do not think there is anyone who is like me on this planet. I am scared and nervous of life in general..as crazy as it ...

Can too much sexual talk or sex put off your man and his perception of you?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - I love my boyfriend. We are in a LDR and we have been trying to make it work. The only thing that bugs me is that I find myself in relationships where men like to talk dirty to me and I think my relationship is turning into that. I love sex a lot bu...