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Archived questions from: November, 2010 (see latest in Big Questions category)

Big Questions: Help and advice

My best friend has cut me out of his life and I am heartbroken! What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5066 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - Ok to cut a long story short, me and my friend have been very close for 3 years, there has been laughter/heartbreak/anger/passion everything, I fell for him and he didn't feel the same so he stopped talking to me because he didn't want to hurt me, ...

Does he like me or is just curious about me ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5108 days ago

30 November 2010 (?) - Okay so there's this guy in my history class that always stares at me when I look back at him I smile he doesn't smile back he just does a small nod or raises his eye brows . I'll continue working but then I'll see him watching me again sometimes he ...

Is it normal to be really concerned about potentially catching an STD?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5109 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - Is it normal to be very hesitant about dating new people because you don't want to get an STD? Everyone seems to not care and it makes me wonder if I'm worrying about it too much. However, I feel like most people would lie if it's convenient. I ...

Am I paranoid or is my wife cheating on me?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5102 days ago

30 November 2010 (M) - Hello, I am trying to figure out if I am paranoid or if my wife might be cheating on me. We have been married 12 years and have two young children. We recently relocated for her job and I quit mine to stay home with the children. She has lost a...

One day he said he would love me forever, the next day he hates me and has found a new partner!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5109 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - I Was in a relationship for 6 years on and off for a year because another person they went with we got back together 2 years now we became partners a month ago a week later they text me they dont love me and is with another person already! how can ...

In love with two women!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5108 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - I never thought I would go through this, especially not now, but I'm in love with two people, two women. I met this wonderful girl a couple of months ago, we see each other almost everyday and it's always great. I trust her completely and she trusts ...

I'm not happy with my boyfriend and have feelings for his best friend, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5107 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - I like my boyfriends friend and I don't know what to do? So here it goes this story may be long, crazy and strange. and please don't be rude believe me i already feel weird enough... okay so i have been with my bf for 2yrs (we will call him bo...

I feel like my life has fallen apart and I feel very alone......

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5109 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - Where to start? Well have been with my boyfriend for almost 3 yrs. We have a child together, she is 15 mos old (I am stay at home mom). It seems every 3-4 months we get into a big fight, where he says he is unhappy. This last fight I had it, if h...

What is with his kisses?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5107 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - hi my boyfriend and i have been together for 2years and everytime we kiss he always just pek kisses me why is that?...

Is he going to marry me? Or not?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5109 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - Please help! My boyfriend of one year seems unsure if he wants to marry me. This really hurts me because at this pont am ready to be married to him. He used to be so sure about getting married--but lately he said.. we didnt get along so well that he ...

Why am I hurting so much?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5108 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - Hey, I was in a relationship for about a year with a guy that i believed in my heart was the one. we got together and things were good for a few months then i started to feel like he was scolding me like a child, when he would hurt my feelings by ...

How do you stop thinking about what your ex is up to, and eradicate resentful feelings?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5108 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - I broke up with my ex-boyfriend a few months ago, and I'm moving on and stuff. We are not in contact and I've accepted that and I'm just moving on with my life. One problem is that now and again I have thoughts which crop up and bother me: I ...

How do I get her to slow down in bed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5109 days ago

30 November 2010 (M) - So I'm with this gorgeous woman for a little over a year. We are both very sexual, but she is the first new partner I've been with in a while. The problem I am having is I don't orgasm quickly with her, and in fact, I don't feel like sex with her ...

I eat less than my boyfriend and exercise more, so why am I the one gaining weight?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5109 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - I eat less (including less unhealthy stuff) and exercise more than my boyfriend, but I am getting fat and he isn't at all! Why? It's making me insecure!! ...

Is it wrong to feel tempted by the opposite sex when you are in a relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5109 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - Is it right to get attracted to a member of the opposite sex even though you are in a relationship that is going well? And when this happens...is it wrong to feel tempted? ...

Why haven't I met her yet? I'm almost 31 and tired of waiting!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5108 days ago

30 November 2010 (M) - Well, I havent dated for a year now since I broke up with my gf. She wasnt the one for me.She even called me mental.I just need a gf thats understanding and doesnt talk so much.I'm just wondering if I'll ever find because I dont know any friends to ...

For girls, what's your taste in guys?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

30 November 2010 (M) - I know every girl has diffrent taste in guys but these are just a few questions I can think of off the top of my head that I want to know the answer to 1.Do girls like guys with long hair? 2.Do girls like guys who call them babe or baby? (I d...

Is it fair to request that he deletes his ex-girlfriend's phone number?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5109 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - My fiancee has an ex that he shares a long history with. They were off and on for years and he cheated on one of his girlfriends twice with her as well. It was about 5 years ago, and the girl he cheated on was crazy and he wasn't in love with her. ...

Does my best friend fancy me like I fancy her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5109 days ago

30 November 2010 (?) - I'm gonna' be straight up and say I'm in love with my best friend. I can't stop thinking about her it's driving me nuts. We've been best of friends for about 2 years. When we met we hit it off straight away. After about a year I told her I fanci...

Unexpected father of a lesbian daughter. How do I deal with this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

30 November 2010 (M) - I am a 28-year-old single, straight, male, who is now a stay at home dad to a 14 year old girl, my niece, who was left with me when my sister and brother-in-law died 2 months ago in a car accident. The first month was definitely awkward as I have ...

I cant deal with her anymore! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5109 days ago

30 November 2010 (M) - Hi there my girlfriend and I have been living together for three months, and in this period of time our relationship has fallen apart. I want to move out, but I feel that will wreak havoc on my schoolwork and that I will have to finish the lease and ...

Why doesn't my new partner want to see my ex wife's child when I raised him as my own for 8 years?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5109 days ago

30 November 2010 (M) - i am wondering if any one can explain why my new partner doesnt want me to see my ex wifes child even though i bought him up for 8 years since was one and he is my sons half brother ? confused...

He only seems to talk about sex and forgets important dates, am I right to doubt him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5109 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - i am in wierd situation i am in an affair from past 2 years but we are not been on any date together from 2 years as my boyfriend stays abroad and nowhe is coming to india .he has a plan to meet but still i am not sure he love me or not because h...

Should I invite my enemy to lunch?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5109 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - Hi there is this woman at work who invent s things against me and what not. accused me of screwing her husband and always spreads bad rumors about me though everyone I talk to does not like her. I wondered if I should simply invite her out to see ...

How do I learn to be ok with this? My partner wants to become a woman!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5109 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been dating for about a year and a half. serious for about 10 months. we live together and he gave me a promise ring because neither one of us is ready to get married but we are committed to each other. he is very sexual and ...

Is it really that bad to explore someone's sexuality even if its only been 2 months and considering my age?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5107 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - Hello, Im a 24 year old woman, Im still a virgin. Ive been with a 29 yr old boyfriend for two months, hes been good to me so far. Ive had already had other boyfriends before, we made out but never went far 'cuz I didnt want to. I love making out ...

Is he just being nice to me, trying to not hurt my feelings by playing along until he has to leave?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4959 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - This will be long so please bear with me. I am very confused about this situation and I just want to see the 360 without people being biased. I have had a crush on this guy for close to 10 months. He is older than me and graduated from t...

I'm keeping it in the family!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5110 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - I'm 15 and i think im in love with my brother's girlfriend's brother, but my brother's girlfriend and my brother are having a child together, ive been out with my brother's girlfriend's brother before though, is this wrong or incest in any way ? ...

Why are some teenagers so promiscuous???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5108 days ago

29 November 2010 (?) - Just out of curiousity... Why are there so many young teens out having sex with what seems every person they are with? Isnt there parents doing anything? or caring what their kids are doing these day? y'know getting stoned, completely drunk...

I just don’t know if I want to invest possibly years of my life and give more of my heart just to get it broken...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5110 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - I’ve been dating the same man now for over a year. We are both over 40, have our own homes and even though work is really tough right now we both have had successful careers and will again. We spend most of our free time with each other and have a ...

Humiliated by my wife's old lie!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5106 days ago

29 November 2010 (M) - Hi, I met my wife back in high school and we got together the first summer of college 20 years ago. We slept together before we got together that summer and I knew she had had an encounter with a friend of mine after we slept together but before we ...

Can you catch chlamydia or HIV if you have sex with another person who has never had sex before?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5110 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - I thought I'd combine two into one so here goes my first worrie is really a question. Can you catch chlamydia or HIV if you have sex with another person who has never had sex before? stupidly I did it unprotected when i was very young and this ...

How do I propose a secret "friends-with-benefits" relationship to a closeted bisexual guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5110 days ago

29 November 2010 (M) - Hi, I've got a slight situation. Its quite simple to sum up really... I am a gay guy in my teens at sixth form college. There is another guy who has told me he is bi but he isn't out to anyone else. There are others who suspect he is bi but I don't ...

How can I change her mind about rejecting me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5106 days ago

29 November 2010 (M) - Hi, i just need some advice on this girl i like. i've known her for about a year now, and we are best friends. i realised i fancied her, so asked a friend to log in on facebook as me, and ask her. so she said no, and i told her that he had been ...

Need advice about pictures to send to boyfriend or not???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5108 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - I have a problem because i'm rather inexperienced in this issue. My boyfriend lives overseas, and his birthday is coming up. I want to send him something personal. So pictures. But i don't know what the pictures should be of, or poses, like i do...

Why doesn't he understand?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5110 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - I have been with my fiance for almost 7 years and known him for longer than that! We were also business partners and the best of friends suring our relationship. He cheated, I forgave him, then I found out he kept cheating on and off for 3 years! ...

Are there anyone who has been in this same situation? The jealousy is eating me alive.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5110 days ago

29 November 2010 (M) - Before me and my girlfriend got together, she was at a party at my house. My friend is a typical womanizer, and has had sex with over 30 girls altogether. At the party he got a good vibe with her, and when the others had left they asked to use my ...

I caught my fiance in a lie!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5110 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - I caught my fiance in a lie. I saw him talking and laughing with one of his female co-workers on their way to lunch (I was running an errand and saw them - with their lunches - walking together). When I asked him that night if he had eaten with ...

I just feel like giving up...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5110 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - Hi guys, I just feel like giving up... I have no money, no idea what want as a career, no boyf. I'm crashing on my mates floor and I'm about to turn 30! All I want is to meet someone lovely and buy a house and settle down and have kids! I mea...

How can I put an end to all this bullying?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5110 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - A few months ago my best friend was dating this guy, and we (me and the guy) became really close and were best friends for a while. During the time that they were going out, I went really down, and blackmailed him to talk to my head of year about ...

Did I do something, or was it her who changed?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5109 days ago

29 November 2010 (?) - I need some serious help! My gf of 3 years broke up about 4 months ago. The problem is that I just can't get over on how she treated me in our relationship. The first 2 years were fine, but the last year that we moved in together was com...

I really want plastic surgery because I hate the way I look

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5109 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - I really want plastic surgery because I hate the way I look, I dont like looking in the mirror because everytime I do, I feel like Im going to cry. What can I do to feel happier about myself?...

My girlfriend told me she wants me to take her virginity! I'm scared to hurt her!!!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5085 days ago

29 November 2010 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have been dating for just about 7 months. A couple of days ago she said that she wanted to have sex and i told to give me a day or two because its a big responsibilty if we do it. The problem is that she's a virgin and anemic. ...

Is this a normal reaction from a guy? is what he is asking within reason?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5110 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - this is gonna sound mental but here goes... my bf of 6 months is a swinger now thats cool with me cause im a swinger too though he didnt know that at the time, i dont know why i didnt tell him straight i sought of hinted to him that i was bad girl...

I had sex with my ex and I regret it so much!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5108 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - I had sex with my ex bf 3 days ago and i felt extremely guilty for myself.I don't know what the hell am i doing after i left his house. Here is the story : Me and my ex went for a movie after 4 months of break up. He hug me,kiss me in the cinema...

I feel so stupid for running back to him, the abuse has started all over again! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5110 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - Hi, So here is MAJOR issue im facing. Been with my "bf" for 4 and half years. Weve been closer then just the bf girlfriend relationship. (Id say its more like a marriage type of relationship, him staying at my home, our families meeting, planning...

Should I stay with my husband or destroy everything for my boyfriend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5109 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - I am in a situation that I am married and have been for seven years. I have a boyfriend who I have meet at work and he is in early 20's and I am in my late 20's. We have gotten close to the point I have developed strong feelings for him. I actullay ...

I'm afraid of the responsibility that comes with turning 18!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5110 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - I am 17 years old but I am scared of turning 18 because i feel like i will "officially" be legal and thats just too much. Not just the whole sex thing but the responsibilities that come with it. Any advice?...

A bit infatuated with my stalker

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5109 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - I have made an unbelievably bad decision. This might be a little long, so thank you in advance for reading. I have no one to turn to, not because i don't have anyone but because i do not think anyone would understand. Ill start at the beginning...

Can someone please translate this guy-speak?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5111 days ago

28 November 2010 (F) - Hey, can any guys or girls reading this please translate some guy speak for me? I've been with my bf for 2 months. He showed me a text he sent to his female friend who he has known for years about a party they're going to next week. He'd tex...