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Archived questions from: 1 November, 2010 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

I find it tough to find attractive women who fancy me! Should I lower my standards??

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5116 days ago

1 November 2010 (M) - Hi guys can you help? I'm 32 (embarrassed that a guy my age is even on here) and feel I'm getting on now and need to find a decent girlfriend. I’ve been single for 2/3 years now but to be honest girlfriends have always been hard to find. (before ...

Are there any other departments we could go to for help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

1 November 2010 (F) - I am 20 and my husband is 20, we have a two year old daughter . we live in ny and on june 10th 2010 my dad passed away from heart cancer in my arms. we lived with him and he supported us finacially. we have section 8 housing and finally have our own ...

Seriously... what's going on here???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5137 days ago

1 November 2010 (F) - Seriously I might as well just give vital points: -been seeing each other over a year -get along VERY well -when we're together, he treats me as if im the only one that matters -waited a while before having sex -met his brothers, have yet ...

I can't stand the drama and I don't want to be a drop out!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

1 November 2010 (F) - i'm sick and tired of all the craziness in mexico i want to run to california and meet my guy, i can't stand the drama but i don't want to be a drop out! i'm a senior at college and i don't want to risk all my school years for nothing but i really ...

If your boyfriend was blind, would you stay or would you go?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4974 days ago

1 November 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid, My name is Alexis and I'm 18 years old. I met the man of my dreams of 21, four years ago and we have been together ever since. When we first started dating, I knew I could picture myself getting married to him, and having a family ...

Why is true love so hard to find...?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5138 days ago

1 November 2010 (F) - Why is true love so hard to find?...

Website to bash and humiliate my husband's other woman???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5137 days ago

1 November 2010 (F) - I would like to know if anyone knows of a website were I can upload a picture of a woman that likes to sleep with married men and get pregnant. knowing that the men are married. I would like to bash her and humiliate her for what she has done to ...

How would you define the word "outgoing?"

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1 November 2010 (F) - How would you define the word "outgoing?" And is it such a bad thing to be on the shy and quiet side? I want to work as an Au Pair abroad, but one of the families i am interested in says they are looking for an outgoing girl. I do like to socialize ...

I really need some advice and my heart aches every day and the desire of just to be with her is so overwhelming.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5137 days ago

1 November 2010 (M) - Help please, I have a real big problem, I am in love with my first cousin. I am 25 and she is 29. I have always been really close to her, and have always though of her as a great friend, well my best friend. I recently separated from my wife and...

Preparing yourself!

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1 November 2010 (F) - Does fingering, masturbating and playing with sex toys really help before first sexual intercourse?...

How do I leave this abusive relationship for good?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5138 days ago

1 November 2010 (F) - I have been seeing my on and off boyfriend for almost two years now. He can be such a sweet and charming man but he can also be a psychotic bully as well. All of the problems started when I moved in with him away from family and friends. I always ...

Was I wrong in asking his dad to call first?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5136 days ago

1 November 2010 (F) - My question: Was I wrong in asking my boyfriend's father to ask us before coming over? My boyfriend of 4 years and I recently decided to move in together. We've been considering it for the last year, and the opportunity came up about 6 months a...

How can I just forget the fact that her male-friend likes her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

1 November 2010 (M) - Me and my girlfriend are celebrating our anniversary, and I make it noted to everyone. Write it in my facebook status and im proud of her and i for coming this far. She drops the "so my friend told me he likes me" bomb and i dont know how to deal ...

How can I get over a break-up when there wasn't one?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

1 November 2010 (F) - I feel so pathetic for writing this but I'd really appreciate the advice. My boyfriend of four years just left me. Told me three days ago that he was coming over the next day to break up with me. Well, he never showed up, and I kept trying to call ...

What if I cannot stop my attraction to my sister in law?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

1 November 2010 (M) - hi, Im back again with these SIL thing. I got your answers to the question however I dont think it done me much justice. Im still having these feeling in fact I woke up thinking about her. What if i cant stop it? I know im married and so is she with ...

First time sex anxiety!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

1 November 2010 (F) - how to overcome anxiety in first sexual intercourse?...

Will my prayers work so we can be together? And does he even like me if he has not shown any interest in 10 years?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

1 November 2010 (F) - dear readers, im madly in love with this guy for the past 10 years. we used to speak to each other as kids when i was as young as 9 yrs old, but we stopped now as we grew up. The thing is i have been praying continuously for the past so many yea...

What can I do about my feelings for my teacher? And why am I attracted to a girl when I am straight?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

1 November 2010 (?) - Ok, I'm going to be vague about this, as I don't want to much revealed but here goes. I'm a straight girl, and I'm in love with one of my teachers... Who is also a girl. She's a young teacher, I think about 25. She's been at our school for a f...

Is the only way to move on to forget about your ex completely?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5137 days ago

1 November 2010 (F) - I miss my ex a lot. I miss his smiles, his hugs, his stories, his everything. I know he has moved on. I know he would be happier with someone else. He has told me many times what he doesn't like about me. I wish I could be the person he wants to be ...

How can we grow as a couple when we cant even get one day to ourselves because of his mom!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5137 days ago

1 November 2010 (F) - Thanks in advance for all advice. Ok I have a live in boyfriend for 1yr in my home - yes we split bills - right off the bat* Now I really love him and can look past some sexual issues he has (pre ejac, lack of drive)- He feels horrible and has...

For the men: Do you count on your wives to look after the house and kids, or do you take charge and help out around the house?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5137 days ago

1 November 2010 (F) - i want to know how many guys out there who work full time are married and have kids. when you get home from work do you spend time with your kids, help with housework, dissapear and do your own thing? i dont mean to sound rude but im just curious ...

Does the fact that he has difficulty feeling love and empathy mean he's a narcissist?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5137 days ago

1 November 2010 (F) - Does the fact that he has difficulty feeling love and empathy mean he's a narcissist? He has admitted to me that he doesn't love easily. He has had several relationships before me (one that lasted 2 years!) and claims that he never loved his prev...

Delayed ejaculation or not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4918 days ago

1 November 2010 (F) - I ve been with my current bf for almost year and a half.i m 19 and he s 24.Its a long distance relationship,and we see each other every week or two.He is the first guy i ve slept with,so i dont have lots of experience with this but 4 almost a year ...

I don't know where I am going wrong in this relationship!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

1 November 2010 (M) - Hi everyone; Been with my ex girlfriend for 5 years and been lived together for the past 2 years. Im 26 and she is 22 so we been together since she was 17 and i was 21. While we been living together she left me 5 times but 4 of them took couple...

Have I done something wrong or was it the situation which made me act this way?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5138 days ago

1 November 2010 (F) - i am in a commited long distance relationship since 1 year 4 months.i have messed up very badly.i really love my bf and even he loves me a lot but now i have created a big mess. in the month of june,there was a misunderstanding between me and my b...

My mother is a hoarder!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

1 November 2010 (F) - My mother is a compulsive hoarder. I'm the exact opposite and like to keep everything neat and tidy, but every single room of the house is overtaken with her useless shit. Living in a house full of clutter for most of my life and getting hurt while ...

Why am I so unlucky in love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

1 November 2010 (F) - What's wrong with me? I'm 25, single and lonely. I have a 3yr old whom I have raised as a single parent from pregnancy til now (with help and support from my amazing family), I have a good job, an active social life, a positive outlook, an above ...

Is there anything I can do to break these attributes?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

1 November 2010 (M) - I come out to be a reserved, quiet guy. I enjoy hanging out with my friends, but sometimes I feel bad that I don't really participate much in conversations. Usually, its because I don't have much to say. When I do have something to say, it seems ...

Should I give up on my dream career and play to my strengths at University?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

1 November 2010 (?) - So this is not a relationship question but more of a life crisis. Im in my third year at a very prestigious university. Im planning on going to medical school after I graduate. The problem is Im struggling in my organic chemistry class. I feel so ...

My fiance has been cheating for the last 3 years! What do I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

1 November 2010 (F) - Please help! I have been with my fiance for over 7 yrs and just found out he has been cheating on and off for the past 3 yrs! I am scared to be alone and would take a huge financial hit if we separate as we own businesses and real estate together. ...

I feel like I have changed so much following this break-up, is this normal?

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1 November 2010 (M) - Ok so about 2 weeks ago i broke up with my girlfriend of 6 months, not only that, i even told her i didn't want her in my life and that we shouldn't be friends even though she wants to.. At the time it seemed like the right thing to do but now it ...

Am I the bad guy for asking him to quit smoking?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

1 November 2010 (?) - Hi so ive asked questions in the past week about my LDR boyfriend and i but this has also been bugging me. When he said smoked cigars i thought he actually did, but he smokes cigarettes too. Cigars i dont mind, cigarettes i mind. And i had told h...

My Fiance's sister in law is a monster

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

1 November 2010 (F) - Hi, My fiance and I have been together for almost a year now and have a great relationship. At the beginning though, his ex wife made things very difficult for us because she was stuck on getting him back. What made things even more difficult t...

What is guy's reaction to rape cases?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

1 November 2010 (F) - I would like to know, what generally is the reaction of boyfriends on their girlfriends rape cases. Do they usually tend to leave her inspite of being in a long time relation or else accept and support her. What is the acceptance percentage so fa...