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female
age
30-35,
*skRosie
writes:A few months ago my best friend was dating this guy, and we (me and the guy) became really close and were best friends for a while. During the time that they were going out, I went really down, and blackmailed him to talk to my head of year about how i was feeling (i just wanted to die), I wouldn't have blackmailed him but he refused to do it and it seemed like the only option open to me. Things got better for a while but then when him and my bf went out, I was dragged into the middle of their relationship, with each of them telling me all about their relationship, she didn't like him in that way and he was in love with her.Anyway, naturally, I guess I sided with my best friend. When my best friend dumped him, he blamed me leaving horrible messages on facebook, and calling names, a bitch and a whore for example. Since then our friendship has deteriorated, and he's teamed up with this guy, Sam, and told him everything about what happened between the two of us, and how i ruined his relationship (which i didn't). Since then Sam has also started leaving horrible messages to me on facebook, and badmouthing me to the rest of the year, and my friends, who all turned against me. Now they chuck food at me (I've had a battle with anorexia) and call me a bitch and a whore to my face. I feel like I can't cope, and my school refuse to do anything, my old head of year, Mr V, would have but I'm in Sixth Form now and Mr B won't do anything, I feel like no one is listening to me. I'm really losing control here, and I don't want to relapse or anything like that, but I'm being really pushed to the limit. My confidence has been knocked by these people, and they won't stop, even though it isn't my fault. They're holding all these things from my past against me, and I've said that I'm sorry. I'm at my wits end and I don't know what to do, please help me!
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 November 2010): If you have sincerely apologised and sat down and talked it through why it happened then although they don't have to forgive you they should at least be civil with you.
My advice would be to move on and make new friends
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