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How can I change her mind about rejecting me?

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Question - (29 November 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 3 December 2010)
A male United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Hi, i just need some advice on this girl i like. i've known her for about a year now, and we are best friends. i realised i fancied her, so asked a friend to log in on facebook as me, and ask her. so she said no, and i told her that he had been messing with my laptop and i hadnt known he was doing it. so she doesnt know that i like her, but i really want her to be my girlfriend. i know the answer is no, but can anyone tell me how i could get with her?? also if i told her in person, would her answer be any different??

thanks in advance guys :D

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 December 2010):

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Thanks louisex, will try that :)

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A female reader, louisex United Kingdom +, writes (29 November 2010):

I'm not sure how much help I would be but I'll give you my opinion from a girls perspective. If you are going to say anything to her you must say it face to face, never do these things by text or facebook because I wouldnt automatically be like nah. She probably knew it wasnt you, girls pick up easily on style of chat on facebook and texts, unless he was an expert he probably didnt say it in the nicest or best way either, which would only be best coming from the one who likes her, you. If iI were you I'd slowly give off hints. If she picks them up and acts well towards them keep going and make them more obvious each time, then eventually get round to telling her how you feel, but if she seems uncomfotable with your hints, it's probably a no and she just likes you as a friend. Good luck though!

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