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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Before me and my girlfriend got together, she was at a party at my house. My friend is a typical womanizer, and has had sex with over 30 girls altogether. At the party he got a good vibe with her, and when the others had left they asked to use my room. She was 15 at the time, and he got to take her virginity had sex with her in my bed while I waited outside. When he had finished with her, I had to change the sheets after them. The next few days he bragged about how tight she had been, and how he had broken her hymen. Half a year later my girlfriend and I got to know each other and got together. She says it was just some stupid fling when she was drunk, and my friend tells me she's all mine now. But I can't seem to get those pictures out of my head. The bed squeaking, him making her moan, and the smell of sex after they had finished. I realize most people have various sex partners before they get serious, but I just can't get over the fact that it was him of all people. When I go down on her, I can't forget that his penis has been there, and when we have sex I'm always reminded that he broke her in. Are there anyone who has been in the same situation? The jealousy is eating me alive.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 November 2010): So you let your womanizer friend use your room to statutory rape a drunk 15 year old while you waited outside and you're complaining because he got there first?
She's right get over it. Change the picture, it's you and her now. I would sympathize with you but my first sentence says why I don't and seeing as this a relationship "help" site I won't tell you what I think of you and your friend.
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (29 November 2010):
 You need to change the picture in your head. He didn't "break her in" he took advantage of a drunk 15 year old girl!
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