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Archived questions from: August, 2008 (see latest in Big Questions category)

Big Questions: Help and advice

Why can't I find anyone?!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5803 days ago

31 August 2008 (M) - I'm not sure what to do, I just can't find anyone! Its been about 3 years since I've had a relationship, in the time between I've filled that void of my life with work and study. Now I just feel empty and lonesome, its not even so much a sexual ...

How did he "prove" we had sex when we actually didn't?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5929 days ago

31 August 2008 (F) - This is going to sound like an odd question but here goes. My boyfriend's best mate didn't want me to be with his friend, so to split us up he told my boyfriend that i had had sex with him. I obviously denied it because it didn't happen and he sa...

My sister made a comment about guys in college and that has made me re-evaluate my love life!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5930 days ago

31 August 2008 (F) - In a conversation with my mother, My sister laughed when Mom made a comment that maybe someone at her school would ask her out if she takes a break from her current boyfriend. In response, my Sister explained that nobody askes anyone out on dates ...

What should I do? Wait till I'm 18 to move in with him or wait till graduation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5929 days ago

31 August 2008 (F) - hey i dont really know how to put this.. but i am 17 years old, my bday is in november bout 2 months away and i just recently moved 1200 miles about a month ago. i left behind the only person who ever makes me happy and the only one i love most. hi...

Has this connection gone?? Is it salvagable???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5929 days ago

31 August 2008 (M) - Hey there. It has been a very long time since i have liked a girl but a couple of weeks ago i met a girl through a friend and i just had the general feeling we had a connection. We have sent loads of messages to each other since and have seemed ...

I feel awkward in social situations. How can I overcome this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5930 days ago

31 August 2008 (F) - hey, i really need some advice on how to boost my confidence. i find that i get very uncomfortable in social situations. i feel awkward and don't know what to say. how can i overcome this?...

We may both have fertility problems, and the pressure is threatening our new relationship.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5784 days ago

31 August 2008 (M) - my dilema is, I fell inlove with a girl 7 months ago, at the moment it is a long distance relationship, she lives in england, i live in scotland, we visit eachother quite alot, the problem is however, she has a history of fertility problems, and ...

Is it rape if it was your boyfriend?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5160 days ago

31 August 2008 (F) - Was hanging out with my boyfriend one night and he wanted us to go to the drive in later that night after dinner so i agreed and when we got there we let all of the seats down to get comfortable and in the middle of the movie he starts unbuttoning ...

Should I still take my daughter to see my ex's daughter even though he has told me to stay away?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5930 days ago

31 August 2008 (F) - I ended it with someone 8 months ago now. He has moved on with someone else and all is fine in that way, but before this, he used to use his daughter and mine still wanting to see each other as a contact to me, which i put up with for the childrens ...

Is the guy I am dating toying with my emotions and feelings? I never know if today I will be loved or ignored.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5749 days ago

31 August 2008 (F) - I've heard of this trend in the dating scene where a guy purposely makes a girl feel insecure (through put downs, ignoring etc), just so she will feel bad about herself, more desperate for him, vunerable and hopefully (for the guys) easier to get ...

My long distance girlfriend is acting differently, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5930 days ago

31 August 2008 (M) - Hi everyone. I am with my gf for almost 2 years. We are now living far from each other. Sometimes, we meet once a month and sometimes not at all. I miss her a lot that I always wanted to talk to her. Usually, I called when she is not working. She...

Boyfriend is unhappy with my teeth

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5930 days ago

31 August 2008 (F) - I have dentures and I kept them a secret from my bf for nearly 3 years. One day my mouth was hurting so much from wearing them i told him I had them and then went to the bathroom to remove them to relieve the pain. I have taken to not wearing t...

I still can't forget what he did at the beginning of our relationship!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5930 days ago

31 August 2008 (F) - i have got this really weird problem... i have a boyfriend(my classmate in coll) and we've been together for last 18 months.i feel he really loves me but when we initially started out he had this habit of complimenting other girls and usually ...

Did I betray my best friend? Is this considered cheating? What do I do now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5930 days ago

31 August 2008 (F) - Basically I want to know whether this counts as cheating/boyfriend stealing and betraying my best friend at the same time? I'll start from the begining. Ok, yesterday, actually technically the day before yesterday, I go on msn. My best ...

I'm in a loveless marriage. I'm miserable but I can't leave the kids. What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5930 days ago

31 August 2008 (M) - Don't know what to think or do anymore. April 7th, 2000 my wife left without a word. No note, no indications whatsoever. Took our kids and moved in with her boss where she stayed for a year and a half. Then she came back... my mistake but I still ...

His mother is not willing to give him up! Should I stay with him or let her have him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5931 days ago

31 August 2008 (F) - hello, I had met my soul mate when I had been on holidays, although we were both expecting nothing of it at first but a summer fling, we both fell in love. He had proposed to me, and I came back home the happiest girl. Its been 4 months long dist...

Should my girlfriend pay more than her equal share when we go out to dinner?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5930 days ago

31 August 2008 (M) - I've been with my girlfriend for little under a year. We both make decent money. She enjoys eating out at finer places more so than I do and I pay for a majority of these meals. Since I'm mainly going out to these finer establishments for her, ...

Asking Stupid Questions!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5925 days ago

31 August 2008 (F) - How many woman out there cant stand the "oh babe, is it that time?" Come on you know what i mean, right!? I hate being asked that question. Most of my guy friends ask me everytime i start, to complain. Some dont bother cuz they know not to ask me ...

How important are your school friends / your popularity at school?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5930 days ago

30 August 2008 (F) - I am 15 at the moment. How important are your school friends/ your popularity at school? I have lots of friends at school and am sort of friends with everyone, yet I don't seem to really fit in anywhere? I am never inivited to particular gro...

I am really tired of investing in friendships that pan out to nothing. What can I do to stop trusting people so much?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5931 days ago

30 August 2008 (F) - I am really tired of investing in friendships that pan out to nothing. It is like I keep thinking I am making a new/close friend and then for whatever reason, I eventually end up never hearing from them again and I am left wondering what the heck I ...

Which boy should I go for?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5931 days ago

30 August 2008 (F) - Hello, rather basic question here: I currently have a rather embarrising crush on too great boys - one in the year above me and one of my friends mates who is just going into sixth form who i have known since year 2. I really REALLY like my f...

How should I behave in the office now that this new woman is changing everything?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5931 days ago

30 August 2008 (F) - HI, My problem is related to my professional relations. Actually Im with my company from past 7 years and worked a lot here with full honesty and more than my profile. My bosses used to appreciate in front of me for my work and behave. We had a very ...

Did this boyfriend steal my 10yr old daughter's phone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5931 days ago

30 August 2008 (F) - Met a guy, few weeks later he took me and my kids out for the day in his sisters car (she was away on business) My 10 yr old daughter took her phone, decided before we got there she didn't want to carry it round so i put it in the glove box. Fo...

He has turned from Prince Charming to a big jerk. What should I do about this

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5931 days ago

30 August 2008 (F) - I am a single mother of 3 and I met a guy who seemed very sweet and loving towards my children. He was a complete gentlemen and took me out and treated me like a princess. Well, 2 months have gone by and he has become a total jerk. He made my ...

I still can't get over him, even after 2 years. I feel like I got the sour end of the break up

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5931 days ago

30 August 2008 (F) - Please, Please read this.. It would mean a lot to me to get your opinion. In the summer before 10th grade(June 13th,2006), I got my first boyfriend, "Stephen". It was all so new to me because I had never had anyone really give me that kind of att...

I have fallen out of love with him but I don't know if I should continue to be with him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5928 days ago

30 August 2008 (F) - I am married to a man who is a wonderful provider for me and my children, but I feel that I'm falling out of love with him. He's just two years older than me and he acts so settled down and old all the time. I like to get out and do things, but ...

Is there any possible way to regain trust where he will still see the woman he was with for the rest of his life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5931 days ago

30 August 2008 (F) - This is a long one, so brace yourselves. I probably have one of the most unhealthy relationships out there besides abusive ones. My boyfriend and I were both engaged to other people when we met. I was with my ex for 10 years, he was with his for ...

I've been kicked out of the university for not dedicating myself properly!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5931 days ago

30 August 2008 (M) - ive been kicked out of uni for not dedicating my self properly-theres no chance of me getting back in-all this is due to personal health reasons which i have seen a docter about. For the last fornight since i found out- i have not slept or ate ...

My depression broke her heart. Could get a second chance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5931 days ago

30 August 2008 (M) - This story is somewhat complicated but I will do my best do explain it. Basically, I was in a long-distance relationship with a girl. She was really in love with me and wanted to be my girlfriend. I was up at college, and was going through a ...

If she had wanted to hit me with the bottle, she would have... right?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5931 days ago

30 August 2008 (F) - was at the pub meeting my friends n i bumped into this boy who is gorgeous..we hugged said hello..he introduced me to his friend etc..anyway bit of history..he is kinda mates with my ex..he stares at me and litrally turnt his head as far as it would ...

Should I stop masturbating?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5912 days ago

30 August 2008 (M) - Masterbation is the best, but my girlfriend told me to stop because she said that it is like killing millions of babies, and one that could have had a chance to live, should I stop, or should I keep masterbating. she said she would dump me if I ...

I'm 35 years old and never been in love. Is there still hope for me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5931 days ago

30 August 2008 (F) - i am nearly 35 and have still never been in love. Im getting very anxious that i will never find love and have children. Is it ever going to happen to me or am i too late ?...

We got off on bad terms but I still have to deal with him because of our mutual friends. What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5932 days ago

29 August 2008 (F) - i dont know what to think!..i dont even know how im suppose to feel..oh wow ok real quick..me and my ex broke up on BAD terms..i tried talking to him the other day and he shouted at me..we had a tiff..ended in him threatening to punch me..so i said ...

I want to keep contact with my dad but it seems that my mom has a different view of him. This is upsetting me and I don't know what to do.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5932 days ago

29 August 2008 (F) - For 11 years I've been brought up by just my Mum. With my grandad around too. My dad left when I was 3, I saw him for about six months after my parents split and then that was it. I didn't see him after that. I've been thinking about it recentl...

My husband has filed for divorce and I don't know what to do!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5929 days ago

29 August 2008 (F) - I am 34 years old w/ 3 children -2 boys (16 and 13) and a girl (8). My husband and I became friends first. We talked until all hours of the night (he was still with a girl he had been with through high school- 9 years). We saw each other a few time...

Is it possible to be in love with two people at the same time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5932 days ago

29 August 2008 (F) - is is possable to be in love with 2 people at the same time? iv been with my boyfriend 2years now and we were best friends years b4, i really think i love him and at the moment i feel like i wont to be with him for ever. But i'm very close to my ot...

My boyfriend acts different with everyone else except me, what can I do to change this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5932 days ago

29 August 2008 (F) - Dear cupid, I am so confused! I started dating my boyrfiend 6 months ago and im head over heels in love with him. Ive had so many bf's and never fell inlove before. A few months ago i truly felt that he was the one and i wanted everything with him...

I'm always staying at his house, but he never stays at mine. What can I do to balance this out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5932 days ago

29 August 2008 (F) - My fiance and I are in a wonderful relationship. We both live with our parents still as I am still in college, and he's waiting for me to graduate and become financially stable for when we do move in together. We see each other, usually around 4-5 ...

I don't understand men! Why can't they just make a decision?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5932 days ago

29 August 2008 (F) - I dont understand men. Why do they say one thing an then do the complete opposite. For example my guy an me broke up an then we take some time apart an after awile we begin talking again. When i went away we talked lots. He told me he wanted t...

I'm 35, single, and still a virgin, but my religion sees sex before marriage as a sin. What can I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5931 days ago

29 August 2008 (M) - hi I found this website may be can help in this matter. I am single guy,35 years old.I am still virgin.I am live in uK but i am from Egypt and christian. MY regailion refuse any sex before marriage and in my religion sex before ma...

I've been celibate for 5 years and I'm wondering why I can't attract men!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5766 days ago

29 August 2008 (F) - I have been celibate for 5 years and I have been trying like mad to figure out why I can no longer attract men! I never used to have this problem - I had plenty of boyfriends and relationships throughout my 20's. I broke up with a long term partner ...

I think there's something wrong with me because I've never had a boyfriend!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5932 days ago

29 August 2008 (F) - I seriously think something wrong with me because am 21 and never had a boyfriend abd I know am not an ugly girl. Im confident about the way I look but at the same time I do find guys that talk to me but they are not my type usually they are ghetto ...

What did he mean when he said this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5932 days ago

29 August 2008 (F) - Ok this has confused me abit. Well before i start i'd like you to know that this bullying is mroe or less over but i'm still wondering about this. Basically afew members of the group suddenly took a disliking to me, never found out why or anything...

What can I do? I don't want him to think I'm following him, it's all coincidenses!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5932 days ago

29 August 2008 (F) - This is all TRUE on my life. A few months ago I met a man in a hotel whilst in Spain we were friends but thats all! He told me where he lived and by pure coincidence I own a flat very nearby him-which I rent out and live 100 miles away. ...

If a girl says she will always regard you as a good friend, is there any hope for a change?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5932 days ago

29 August 2008 (M) - Hi all, My question here is...if a girl tells you that she will always regard you as a good friend, does it mean that it is doomsday for the guy? Totally no hope of becoming something more? So what are the steps a guy should take to avoid the '...

Should I tell him that I was dating/sleeping with someone else in the earliest stage of our relationship? I did tell both at then our relationship was casual.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5932 days ago

29 August 2008 (F) - After a long dry spell, I decided that I should start looking for my 'special someone'. I met two great guys and decided to date them both for a while to see which one was a better match. In the beginning it was very casual - I would see each man ...

Is it normal for a man who has a healthy sex life to watch porn?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5932 days ago

29 August 2008 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years now. We love each other very much and have a healthy sex life. I found out today that he watches porn sometimes. He told me without hesitation and I did not ask. We some how got on the topic of porn. H...

I don't know if should stay or just leave him. I don't trust him anymore!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5933 days ago

29 August 2008 (F) - Ive known my husband for 15 yrs and married for 6. He went to Ohio 2 weeks ago for work. I knew something was different when I talked to him. He came home told me he didnt love me, wanted to be alone, etc. I was in shock it came out of no where. I...

Is it so wrong for me to want him to see the truth?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5927 days ago

29 August 2008 (F) - Hi I have a psychological question. I think. First is it a mistake to try and make someone see things about them selves? If they aren't ready? They deny it totally? I am trying to prove to a very imature friend that he is a mommas boy. And he has ...

What are the chances of me being pregnant?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5932 days ago

29 August 2008 (F) - Alright. So me and my boyfirend (long term) have been havign sex, everything is fine. But i think i may have gotten pregnant. We had sex the past 3 days a few times he finished off inside me. And a few times we used a condom and then after we used a ...