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I don't understand men! Why can't they just make a decision?

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Question - (29 August 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 29 August 2008)
A female Canada age 36-40, *ummyummy123 writes:

I dont understand men. Why do they say one thing an then do the complete opposite.

For example my guy an me broke up an then we take some time apart an after awile we begin talking again. When i went away we talked lots. He told me he wanted to get his life back on track before we date again. Now i dont blame him cuz he isnt very happy with his life. So then i came home an he was all awesome. Affectionate an everything. We were talking, texting, hanging out, everything.

Then all of a sudden lately he just stops. I dont understand why. Did i do somethin wrong? Its hurting me an i dont no what to think about this. Did he change his mind or somethin? :(

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A female reader, yummyummy123 Canada +, writes (29 August 2008):

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yummyummy123 agony auntthat makes sense.

I wish i could only run away from him. He does mean a lot to me..

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A female reader, hlskitten United Kingdom +, writes (29 August 2008):

hlskitten agony auntNo he's just one of those gys that isn't a 'what you see is what you get' kinda guy, and he doesn't yet know what he wants.

My ex was 34 and was the same way, some guys never grow up hun, and you are better off running as fast as your feet will carry you with this one. Although i'm aware you dont see that at the moment, but you will.

Go find someone that is a bit more grounded is all I will say.

Good luck.

C xxxxx

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