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If she had wanted to hit me with the bottle, she would have... right?

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Question - (30 August 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 31 August 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

was at the pub meeting my friends n i bumped into this boy who is gorgeous..we hugged said hello..he introduced me to his friend etc..anyway bit of history..he is kinda mates with my ex..he stares at me and litrally turnt his head as far as it would turn to look at me when i walked past..only thing his gf see this and wernt happy..

anyway so back to the pub we said spk tya later n then he didnt talk to me all night..

then i found out his gf was there who clearly hates me..n then i see a bottle smash in front of me and then my friend said oh thats that boy..and apparently he said to his gf leave it lets go. so they got in the cab n left..

any thoughts..my thought is that if she really wanted to hit me..she would have walked up to me and bottled me.. is the girl jealous..does she think he likes me..

if theres any girls answering this..do you get jealous..n how do you deal with it..just curious

and no i wasnt flirting with him at all

he never really spoke to me all night..obviously coz his gf was there but wer just mates..well kinda.. thanx

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A female reader, PsyCookie United States +, writes (31 August 2008):

PsyCookie agony auntBasschick, I think you should try to read more careful next time. She made no mention of "trying to steal him" nor did it say that the guy made such advances to her farther than a friendly smile.

Well, original poster, you gotta remember that this is a PUB where some people drink too many and do strange things they don't remember the next day. The bottle may have come from ANYBODY who thought throwing it would make a great dart.

But if it was indeed her, then she's went a bit extreme with her jealousy. I mean, trying to physically hurt you just because she doesn't like you and you talked to her boyfriend? Physically hurting someone (slapping is acceptable to a degree) is a no no, no matter the situation. The girl may be jealous, but this kind of behavior shows some psycho in her.

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A female reader, Basschick Australia +, writes (30 August 2008):

Basschick agony auntWell let me put it to you this way......If YOU were with him, totally diggin his company, smoozing on his kisses, loving him completely, would you want some other girl moving in on your vibe? I think not. He's a two-timer and trust me, if you do win him away from her, you'll ALWAYS have to keep an eye on him. He's easily lured away by the next pretty face. And there will always be someone else he's gawking at when he's with you. He's not worth it. Move on. You don't want to be the girl who steals another woman's man. That's bad karma.

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