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Im worried that whilst they are good friends she will want more!!?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6444 days ago

4 April 2007 (F) - hey ok a year and a hlf ago, my boyfriend went to this girls prom with her, he used to be best friends with her brother who died tragically a few years ago. she had asked him to go with her coz her boyfrend at the time didnt want to go - he was m...

How do I find a guy who's worth while without looking desparate?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6443 days ago

4 April 2007 (F) - the guy I love is in a relationship. I know it's gonna be so hard for me to see them together and knowing he's with her when I'm somewhere else. I want to find my own guy, but not just any guy. Most guys in my city are complete idiots and the most ...

I want friendships with guys to be just friends!! How to I break off the friendships with the guys are after more!?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6444 days ago

4 April 2007 (F) - I'd like to be good friends with normal (!) guys like some of my girlfriends manage to do, but the guys always want more. How do I break off friendships with guys who want more or won't accept no for an answer? Almost every time I see my male ...

I know he loves me alot, but get the feeling I'm holding back!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6442 days ago

4 April 2007 (F) - hi, my boyfriend and i have been together two years, sometimes we say we'll get married in the future etc, hes all "you and me baby you're gonna have anything you want we'll be so happy id give you anything!" silly stuff ya know! but sometimes i ...

How do I stop my boyfreind feeling insecure?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6444 days ago

4 April 2007 (F) - How do i stop my boyfreind feeling insecure?...

Ive been sleeping with another guy, he wants to end it, do I know come clean to my BF ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6444 days ago

4 April 2007 (F) - Hi. I have been with my boyfriend for 4 yrs. In November, I started sleeping with a guy from my class, he has a girlfriend of 6 years. We both know that it has to stop sometine. We get on really well and recently he said that when it does stop he ...

We only know each other through Myspace but we are in love!! His Ex is getting in the way, what should I do!?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6438 days ago

4 April 2007 (F) - I am going through a long distance relationship with my boyfriend.We have been going out ever since february and his last ex was a long distance relationship too. We both have a myspace, and so does his ex. Alex's ex,in which she lives on the east ...

My husband hates touching, kissing and cuddling me!!! What should I do!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6444 days ago

4 April 2007 (F) - I been married 17 months . I love my husband so much. But he hates touching kissing cuddling me . now even us talking ends in a row . He keeps telling me he dislikes me saying I love him I just don't understand. He used so caring towards me...

He has left his GF to be with me, were in love, but hes off to the army in September!! I dont want to be witout him!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6444 days ago

4 April 2007 (F) - Dear aongy aunt i really need your help, i think i'm in love. He has left his girlfriend for me, were so close and he makes me happy i feel special when i'm with him and he is leaving in september to the army! i need some advice cause i can;t ...

Ive realised that I fancy him too! What should I say so that he knows Im interested!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6444 days ago

4 April 2007 (F) - my friend told me he fancied me a few weeks ago, i said i needed time to sort out how i felt. ive decided i do fancy him back but what should i say to him to let him know im interested? im really stuck as to what to say!!! any suggestions will be ...

Why can't girls have the same sexual freedom guys do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6445 days ago

4 April 2007 (F) - Why do so many people have sexual double standards? I mean if a girl sleeps around she's a slut but if a guy does it he's a stud. You see parents who give their son a credit card on prom night to pay for the hotel room afterwards, but tell the girl ...

Why do girls dump nice guys for bad boys?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6441 days ago

4 April 2007 (M) - Why do girls dump nice guys for bad boys? I mean its interesting when girls say that they want nice sensitive guys but they usually date all the bad boys and the nice guys are reserved as friends. And its not just insecure girls, but even ...

How can I get my boyfriend to make more of an effort in the bedroom ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6445 days ago

4 April 2007 (F) - How do i get my boyfriend interested in making sex enjoyable for me as well as himself? I have only orgasmed with him once and we have been together for nearly 3 years, everytime i try to do something different and interesting in the bedroom he ...

He loves his daughter immensely, but doesnt feel, or act like other fathers, anything I can say or do to make him feel better ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6445 days ago

4 April 2007 (F) - My boyfriend has a seven years old daughter with his ex-wife. They have been separated for 4 years. He gets to see his daughter every second weekend, who stays over at his parent’s home. Sometimes during the week, he will bring her to the park or ...

I'm confused, he says he wants to be with me but is dating someone else again!?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6445 days ago

4 April 2007 (F) - 3 months ago i split up with my boyfriend, 2 weeks after he got together with this girl and are still going out with each other. his cheated on her twice with me. last week at my birthday he told me he still loved me and that i was beautiful. he ...

Was he sincere and honest about not being able to get online ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6445 days ago

4 April 2007 (F) - hello i met a nice man on a marriage site i did not know that he existed on the site until one day i recieved an invitation to chat from him he told me that he would love to chat with me then i agreed we chatted and sent e-mails he told me that ...

My partner is still living with his ex, she thinks Im the reason they broke up, and is unaware there is no chance of a reconcile! Should I tell her ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6445 days ago

4 April 2007 (F) - My partner is still living with his ex girlfriend. He told me a while ago that their relationship was dead and once he had told her we started to become close again. He won't kick her out but is prepared to let her stay as long as she wants until ...

How do you get over and deal with all the hurt!?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6445 days ago

4 April 2007 (F) - how do you get over some thing , i got rejected problem got sorted by help of you guys but now i dont know what to do i dont feel like going out any where im going out tonight but what can i do im even going to tidy my room please some help me i ...

I'm 14 and really want to have sex with my 21 yr old boyfriend!!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 6427 days ago

4 April 2007 (F) - hi, im 14 years old and i have a 21 year old boyfriend, i see him all the time and i love him alot. its not really a problem though cause if i didnt want to see him i would of told him to **** off. anyways, my friend has been to his house with me,...

Ive had it confirmed by the doctor I have miscarried! How an earth do I tell my fiance that I've lost our babies!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6444 days ago

4 April 2007 (F) - Hi I found out two weeks ago that I was pregnant, then last night I started having cramps and this morning the bleeding started, I went to see my docter and he told me I had had a miscarraige... My question is how do I tell my fiance that I lost our ...

Im worried about my friend and this guy thats forcing her to have sex and hitting her!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6445 days ago

4 April 2007 (F) - i know it is really non of my buisness but iam really worried about my friend. shes 14 and she met an 18 year old guy in the chat rooms. she meets him every day after school and he forces her to have sex withhim. i once followed her home from school ...

I've been having an affair for 2yrs with my husbands friend! I'm trying to end it and do the right thing, but he keeps threatening suicide! What do I do!?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6413 days ago

4 April 2007 (F) - I am in such a mess and I don’t know what to do anymore. Without going into loads of detail and not wanting you to condemn me straight away, I have been having an affair for the last 2 years. Thing is, my husband is lovely, we have been together ...

He forced himself on me I asked him to stop but he just said its a laugh and I need to get a sense of humour! I cant see the funny side!?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6437 days ago

4 April 2007 (F) - i went to meet my ex boyfriend yesterday because he wanted to talk to me so i thought if i met him outside id be safe. we went back to his house and the door was locked so we couldnt get in because he didnt have his keys. i asked him wat he wantedt ...

He's my mate and thats all I see him as, he asked me out the other day what should I say!!?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6444 days ago

4 April 2007 (F) - i have a mate and i dont want to go out with him but he is like my best mate and i dont want to upset him. he is bisexual and i respect that i dont have a problem with that as he trusts me but he asked me out the other day what should i do???? ...

is this pain I get after drinking alcohol my Liver!!?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6337 days ago

4 April 2007 (F) - Everytime I drink, the next day I have a pain under the right side of my rib cage. Is this my liver and should I see the doctor? I don't drink all the time, only once a week but probably too much! No more than most teenagers though. Thanks...

I think I had sex, but Im not sure, Im worried that Im pregnant!!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6437 days ago

4 April 2007 (F) - i dont know if im pregnant!! but im reallyy scared after reading all these stories. i think i had sex but im not sure! if u have sex can u feel the penis go inside of u??.. i dont think it went inside but im not too sure. we didnt even use a condom. ...

The guy I have a crush on told me he loved me! What should I do now!?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6444 days ago

4 April 2007 (F) - i was talkin to a guy on the phone last night that i have had a crush on for along while. we used to see each other every day as just friends and we never kissed each other or anything because we where friends. but then he had to move away. i really ...

I'm only 14, I told him I'm pregnant, He laughed at me and called me a slag, But I thought we were in love!!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6444 days ago

4 April 2007 (F) - i have been with my boyfriend for 19 months and i feel i really love him now. i am only 14 and so when i got with him i was young and i didnt know what love was but now i feel i do. i didnt sleep with him till i became 14 because i thought i was too ...

Does sperm die the second it hits the air !?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6445 days ago

4 April 2007 (F) - hi everyone, is it true that sperm dies as soon as it is in contact with air, or is there a chance that it doesnt. me and my parnter are despert to know. we had a mini arguement about this subject. So does it die straight away on the bed sheets. xxx...

Is he flirting to be friendly or just boost his ego!?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6445 days ago

4 April 2007 (F) - I'm getting mixed signals from a male colleague. About 6 months ago, i was introduced to this guy who is in quite a senior position at work. He seemed quite charming but indifferent - cracked a few funny quips etc...but nothing to write home about...

My affair guy has turned against me and not contacted me! Im distraught, How do I move on ?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6445 days ago

4 April 2007 (F) - My affair with a married man recently ended, he told his wife after only 6 wks of seeing each other that he loved me and was leaving but went back because of Xmas and his children. We continued to see each other and he left again after another 6 ...

He had a one night stand, phoned me immediately as all he could think about was me! Is it right to forgive him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6445 days ago

4 April 2007 (F) - Right here is the thing, my boyfriend has recently gone out and had a one night stand with a girl, he rung me immediately after he had done it to tell me he had done this and and we have decided to stay together and make it work. he says he started ...

I truly love him, but he needs to get his act together, I need someone to join resources with me, not drain mine!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6445 days ago

4 April 2007 (F) - My past four serious relationships have been with men who are alternately responsible/sweet but no passionate or creative/passionate but irresponsible. Currently I'm with the latter type, and I love him more than anyone I've been with. But it drives ...

Anybody any good ideas for losing weight ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6445 days ago

4 April 2007 (F) - I'm wondering if anybody has any advice on how to lose weight. I weigh about 70kg (70 x 2.2 = 154 Pounds) and I'm 167cm tall (5 Feet 5 Inches). I feel this is over weight. I'm joining a gym tomorrow and plan to go a few times a week but was ...

He acts immature around his friends, should I stay with him or break up ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6445 days ago

4 April 2007 (F) - The man I fell in love with has known me since i was in the second grade. He knows everything about me and he also treats me as if we were still in elementary school. He loves me back(as he says)but I don't know if I should continue dating him if he ...

We broke up after dating for 2 years 3 weeks ago.. shes asked to met for lunch, is it too soon to be "just friends" ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6445 days ago

4 April 2007 (M) - My ex-girlfriend of nearly two years broke up with me 3 weeks ago... She is my first love and first long term relationship. We were high school sweethearts and have been 2 hours apart during college semeters. We saw each other about once a wee...

Why do men expect me to pay thier way when they find out my occupation!?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6446 days ago

4 April 2007 (F) - Hello, I have a question. I'm not sure exactly how to ask it, but I am 20 years old, and typically go out to bars and such with my sister where sometimes I meet men. When asked about my occupation, the men tend to make jokes about me becoming ...

I know who I would like to ask me to the Prom, worried I will be dateless, so should I ask him ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6445 days ago

4 April 2007 (F) - My school's Prom is April 28th. I know who I would like to ask, but I don't even know if he likes me or if he already has a date. I'm worried that no one will ask me and I'll be dateless for Prom. Should I wait for him to ask? Or, should I ask him ...

It started off as flirting now I'm really attracted to him, do you think he feels the same ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6445 days ago

4 April 2007 (F) - I began working with this man several months ago. We clicked immediatly, had lunch, breaks, shared personal info about each other, made each other laugh, serioulsy laugh. All of the body language of interest is there. Anyway you get the point. ...

Are these emails as innocent as he says they are ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6432 days ago

4 April 2007 (F) - I recently, saw lots of forwarded mails to my husband from a woman. He says that she and her husband are his clients. These mails are very inappropriate, sex jokes and all that. He said that he only met her husband and her about three times for ...

He was so heartless, didnt want me, didnt love me, but would have sex with me, hes doing it to someone else, do I tell them ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6446 days ago

4 April 2007 (F) - if a man dont love you,and dont want to be with you,but wont tell you.and he play whit yours feeling and has sex whit you .and he knows he dont want you.but wont tell you.he play you for a long time he dont care how you feel.he dont care for you ...

How can I look less nervous without having a face transplant? Any suggestions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6445 days ago

4 April 2007 (F) - A friend of mine commented that I always look nervous, although I don't necessarily feel that way. I wonder if this is putting guys off, because although I am told I am a wonderful person, men never approach me. How can I look less nervous without ...