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Big Questions: Help and advice

I'm having a lot of brown discharge..is it because of the pill or an infection?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6432 days ago

17 April 2007 (F) - Hi im 15, 16 in a few days and i seem to have abit of a personal problem and if any of you out there can help or know someone that had the same or similar problem id be greatful for the advice. ok well i'm on the pill but not for sex reasons its ...

He says he loves me, but cant give me what I want.... A family!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6400 days ago

17 April 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I of 1 1/2 years had another conversation last night about marriage and children. He basically told me that he doesn't want to be alone but he's scared of commitment and he basically feels like he can't ever give me what I want and ...

Am I fat? I have bigger measurements than my friends and its bothers me!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6430 days ago

17 April 2007 (F) - Am I fat? I'm 5'7''. 14 years old and.. Bust-33 Waist-27 1/2 Hips- 39 Thigh- 31 My friends, who look worse than me, have much smaller measurements, and it's getting me down. Please let me know, and be honest! x...

Is this an eating disorder that she has, even if it is sporadic!?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6432 days ago

17 April 2007 (F) - I discovered my friend throwing up after a meal and she later then admitted to me that she throws up her food on the odd occassion yet does not have an eating disorder. She says she does it rarely, the most twice a month and claims she usually ...

My partner of 9 years is snappy and moody and only seem happy when hes having a go at me!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6432 days ago

17 April 2007 (F) - My partner and i have been together 9 years. Recently he has been moody, snappy and seems only to be happy when he's having a go at me. We have 3 kids and he has no time for them either. My friends say he either is cheating or he wants to leave but ...

I can never seem to talk to my bf about anything meaningful.. Any tips!?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6432 days ago

17 April 2007 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been seeing each other for 2 and a half years. but i cant seem to talk to him at all. i trust him more than anyone else and i feel safe when im with him but i cant seem to talk about anything meaningful with him. he keeps ...

He went to buy an engagement ring... Then said we are moving too fast!!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6432 days ago

17 April 2007 (F) - my boyfriend of 4 months went out on saturday to buy me an engagement ring (he thinks i don't know) we have been very happy and he has always been very loving and attentive. on sunday he left saying he needed some space and time to think and that he ...

My boyfriends is touching me more than I want him to, What should I do ?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6423 days ago

17 April 2007 (?) - Hi!Well I have a really bad problem.well my boyfriend is really sweet and everything and I do luv him but the other day we were snogging like we always do and he tried 2 go a little further and I didn't want 2 go further he tried undressing me and ...

If you say something quite embarrasing to a girl, alleging she did something wrong, would this change her opinion of him ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6432 days ago

17 April 2007 (M) - If a guy was to say something that is quite embarassing to her or alleging her of doing something wrong, say "You are not being honest" how much does it affect the image of this guy in her mind? Does it lead to break up? ???????????...

We are working on getting our relationship back on track, there are many things that affected his children, they dont want to talk to me and I dont blame them! I want to make all this right and need some guidance!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6432 days ago

17 April 2007 (F) - I'm not going to make any excuses for what you are about to read but I hope that you can see that I am a very genuine person who fully realises the mistakes she has made and is trying to make amends. I hope someone out there can offer me some words ...

Could he want to date my best mate just to get close to me ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6432 days ago

17 April 2007 (?) - hey!My best mate is a boy and my other best mate is a girl.I really really badly fancy my boy best mate, but I've been out wiv him before but he went wierd.The thing is I think he really fancy's me as well but yesterday he asked me to ask my other ...

Why do guys ask a girl for her number in a bar or club and never call ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6197 days ago

17 April 2007 (F) - why do guys ask for a girls number in a club or bar and then never call them? it keeps happening to me, is it because when they sober up they realise how ugly i am or do they later meet better girls after me?...

He changes his mind from one minute to the next, doesnt know if he loves me and doesnt know if he wants to move in? What should I do ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6433 days ago

17 April 2007 (F) - i met this guy 5 months ago,i wasnt that keen to begin with,but he kept chasing me so i gave in,and we decided to meet,we are both in our 40s,he has never been married before and has had a few bad relationships in the past and finds it hard to trust ...

We slept together and he doesnt believe I didnt tell anyone, people say he wants other girls, but I want him to love me again, what can I do ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6433 days ago

17 April 2007 (F) - iv known this boy since i was like 5 and we have been going out on and off since then we always run back to each other, im 15 and so is he ,our mums and everyone know we are seeing eachother ,w e both had sex for the first time last year and we keep ...

Im underage and he wants to have sex with me, I love him, but I dont want to get pregnant and I dont want to dump him!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6423 days ago

17 April 2007 (?) - hi,I have this boyfriend who I luv 2 bits but he wants to have sex with me.plus I'm under age!I don't want 2 get pregnant but I don't want 2 dump him either what should I do? ...

He denied that the violent porn was his, now that hes admitted it I feel decieved! I feel hurt and stupid and dont know what to do!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6431 days ago

17 April 2007 (F) - Cheating? About a year ago I found violent porn on my boyfriends computer. for months on end questioning him he told me his friend downloaded it but he was grossed out by that sorta stuff. I believed him for a while. Then after some more question...

We broke up in Dec 05, we are in mediation, hes in another relationship but its dead, but he hasnt told her to move out, how can I get him to tell her its over ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6432 days ago

17 April 2007 (F) - This is difficult and knowing where to start even more so. Basically my ex and I split up December 2005 after 7 years together, we didn't split because we didn't love each other, it was because of a huge fight. We have a little boy and the last...

Im 15 hes 19, tried to prevent people from finding out we had sex, they all know now and he doesnt want anything to do with me!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6432 days ago

17 April 2007 (F) - if you read my other questions you would proberly get this question,this boy iv been on about for ages ,well i left him alone like you all said to do and he came running to me , now im really sorry to say i have slept with him , but because im ...

My bf is pretty attached to me, but I dont think I feel the same way anymore!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6432 days ago

17 April 2007 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been together for around 3 months now. he's very attached and i just don't find myself feeling the way i did at the beginning of the relationship. there is also this other guy that i have been seeing and just recently i ...

We are both bisexual, I've just discovered how many women hes slept with and its bugging me, hes done way more than me, I want to commit to him but at the same time want to experience more!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6432 days ago

17 April 2007 (M) - Hi, Im a 21 year old guy who up until a year ago thought I was straight. I have since managed to become attracted to a 30 year old guy and we have fallen in love. Everything I lived and thought before this relationship was real, and i know that....

She blows hot and cold and one minute thought she was into me.. Shes been with another guy and I dont know what to do as it hurts!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6432 days ago

17 April 2007 (M) - Two very good friends of mine are married, I have been married for 10yrs but seperated from my wife 18months ago. The sister of my female friend comes out with us regulary she is 34, I have had feelings for this girl for 6 months, and she seems to ...

How can I trust him ? its not his fault, I just cant seem to trust as Im scared to lose him, what do I do ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6432 days ago

17 April 2007 (F) - hi, my relationship is in pieces i love him to bits and i am sure he loves me but i dont dare let him go out or anything i cant trust him he has never gave me any such reson not to trust him but i just dont, i dont even know how to start trustin...

My bf of 2 months, has his ex on his my space account claiming to be his gf, What should I do ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6432 days ago

17 April 2007 (F) - hi me and my b/f have been together for only two months but i recently saw on his myspace page that his so called ex saying she is his g/f and soon to be wife. mind you she stay in illinoise and his in tennessee i havent talk to him all week (his ...

Is there such a thing as your breasts being considered too large! Should I consider a breast reduction ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6432 days ago

17 April 2007 (F) - I am 5ft3 and have a large chest. In a guys world, can there be such a thing as being too big? I am 36 E and sometimes feel like a brunette Dolly Parton, if you know what I mean. I always make sure that the girls are covered and well secured and ...

How can I love her personality but not be physically attracted to her!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6433 days ago

17 April 2007 (M) - ok i met this girl online she lives in the same city as me i have talked to her and so on........but I absolutely have practically fallen in love with her personality.....but i met her recently but she has a nice body nice eyes.....but her face ...

I've never spoken to her before, but know we like each other, how do I approach her ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6432 days ago

17 April 2007 (M) - Hi, there's this girl that I know likes me, because I have noticed her looking at me and staring at me on two different occasions. I have never talked to her before, but I know for sure she likes me. So my question is this, how should I approach ...

Not sure if Im love with him or just infatuated ? Either way I want to forget him, but how!?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6423 days ago

17 April 2007 (F) - Dear sir, i have been dating a man and later on i find out that he is married and have one kid also.after that i didnt go to met him and didnt call him also, i thought i dont love him much and i can let him go easily but i found myself in love w...

I have trouble reaching orgams, Only one man made this happen for me, what can I do to make them part of my sex life ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6432 days ago

17 April 2007 (F) - Dear Cupid, I do have one more question. Im 29 years old and having trouble having orgasm. I was 22 years old when I first had one and that was with my daughter father. It's like even today he is the only person that I can have one with. I had ...

Am I reading this pregnancy test correctly ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6432 days ago

17 April 2007 (F) - Hello, I took two pregnancy test on saturday and one of the test had one line which ment not pregnant however, the other one had one dark line but, it had a second line that was really lite! How does the test work? Like it could be wrong right? P...

My fiancee slept with my sister, so other family members say, he wont admit it. Im pregnant with his baby, but should I break it off ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6431 days ago

17 April 2007 (F) - what do i do if my fiance slept with my sister and i find out from other people in my family and he wont tell the truth what should i do? should i break it off? i am pregnant with his baby also. what am i to do? i am concerned because i think he is ...

Since moving in together hes been less affectionate, is this because I cheated in the past ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6432 days ago

17 April 2007 (F) - i just recently moved in with my boyfriend. we've known each other for about 10 months and i've been unfaithful to him in the past but i still feel like he's holding on to everything that has happened. i thought us moving in together was the ...

I've masturbated for about 10 years, can I cause my self any harm ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6432 days ago

17 April 2007 (F) - hi :/ I'm a sixteen year old girl who has been mastrabating since i even knew what it was. Because I've been doing it for practically ten years i am haivng a really hard time stopping. Plus i want to know if there is any damage a girl can get fro...

I've all of a sudden got an interest in another guy, I dont want to, I love my BF of 6 years, how can I get this other guy out of my head ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6432 days ago

17 April 2007 (F) - I'm in my late 20's and have been in a relationship with a guy for the past 6 years. It's been an overal great relationship and I've never cheated on him/nor him on me. I'm currently in grad school and have fighting the urge to "explore" with other ...

I want to hang out with these guys as friends and friends only, how can I make sure they know its not a date ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6432 days ago

17 April 2007 (F) - I've recently broken up with my boyfriend and have been asked by a couple of different guys to catch up, they're nice and I want to hang out as friends but I really don't want a relationship and probably not even to do anything with them but I don't ...

Im confused, he did me a "favour" when I tried to return it he said No! ??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6432 days ago

17 April 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I were on his couch making out the other night. Long story short, he did me a *favor*, and when I tried to return it, he said "Not tonight" and told me that I could be "in debt" to him. I found this very odd. We were in the heat...

Is this just the way guys are or do his friends just not like me ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6433 days ago

17 April 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I recently got together after 2 years as friends. He told me that all the girls he works with were really interested and excited hearing about me, but he said the guys in his office and his guy friends didn't care at all. Is t...

4 years together, brought a flat 6 months ago, now he tells me he never loved me, and never wanted me!! Im very depressed about this and its affecting my heatlh, please help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6284 days ago

17 April 2007 (F) - I am having problems at the moment. Six weeks ago my partner of four years (friend of ten) said he needed some time to figure out what he wanted from the relationship as he wasn't sure that he still loved me. Events came about when I sat him down to ...

Im 30, and Im not that sexually experienced, thought about hiring an escort but Im too scared! I need experience what do I do ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6432 days ago

17 April 2007 (M) - Inexperienced in need of serious help... I'm 30yrs old and have had about 3 sexual experiences with women. my problem is that i don't know what to say or do during sex, and my last encounter was about 8 years ago and the longer it goes on the hard...

We are both married, we slept together and think we are in love, Ive asked that we stay friends and stop the sex, now hes not calling me!?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6432 days ago

17 April 2007 (F) - Both of us are married and are having an affair. He works few months here and most of the time overseas.We both know that we really cannot be together, but we are so much inlove or so I think. I know that I love this guy and he says that he loves me ...