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*ikkia787
writes:The man I fell in love with has known me since i was in the second grade. He knows everything about me and he also treats me as if we were still in elementary school. He loves me back(as he says)but I don't know if I should continue dating him if he only acts immature when we're around his friends. Should we stay together or break because of his maturity level?
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reader, Jamer70  +, writes (4 April 2007):
 Boys will always at like kids, even men. I still at like an child, and Older men i know act like kids so.So dont worry about it 'cus it will go on for a while (40+ years)He will most ikely at serious around you, so dont make to much about it.
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reader, TELLULAH +, writes (4 April 2007):
 Hi,
Of course he acts immature. If he is the same age as you honey, he is still a child himself.
Dont you know that men are about 3-5 years behind us girls, and the bad news! they dont get much better.
My partner is 43 and he still acts like a twit when he is with his mates.
Thats just men, they are all boys at heart.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2007): Nikkia, this "man" may still be at the elementary school level. People mature at different ages and at different rates. It seems as if you may not have much in common at this point, "love" aside. I don't know how thin your patience is, but perhaps you should "rethink" your relationship. You might try talking with him about how his behavior is annoying you. What are some things you are both interested in. Maybe you could get him to spend more time with you and less with his "friends". They may be influencing him to this "immature" behavior.
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reader, Lady Jo  +, writes (4 April 2007):
 Well that depends on you ...there is a difference between being immature and being hurtful and disrespectful ...if he's not treating you the way you need to feel loved ...then let him know ..talk to him tell him what it is thats hurting you so ...If you mean anything to him he'd want to change his ways to keep you in his life ....
Ps. Let me know how it goes ....
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reader, idontunderstand +, writes (4 April 2007):
Well.... Your young don't worry about guys, just yet. They're not worth it. Maybe his just trying to impress his friends or in some way impressing you. You can't change a person, that's who he is. Tell him how you feel, what have you got to lose. He will grow up soon, that's what happens in life, I dont know how long but he will. All boys are like that, if you love him countine your realtionship, everything will fall into place, or the way its supposed to be in the end.
Good luck x
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