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writes:hi, my boyfriend and i have been together two years, sometimes we say we'll get married in the future etc, hes all "you and me baby you're gonna have anything you want we'll be so happy id give you anything!" silly stuff ya know! but sometimes i feel like he wants to head off and do his own thing... like i know he hates the idea of having children but says hes sure that someday he will want kids(hes 26). also were going travelling to australia together in july 07 but i have to be back by sept 08 for college, but iv heard him say to people that he might go for two years or more who knows?also says stuff like 'dont expect me o be paying for your trip' which obv i do not expect him to do! he knows that he earns quite a bit and im a college student with plenty of debt so maybe he thinks im a scab sometimes!! i would never depend on a man tho, when i finish college i will have a good degree that will get me places if im good enuf!and i work plenty of part time hours while in college , its just he can be a bit selfish sometimes, not much a little. but i love him so much and i know he loves me a lot too..hes very sweet guy! i just feel that as much as he says he wants me in his life i get the feeling im holding him back! do you think im paranoid?? i can get that way sometimes im not very full of self esteem thanks for your help xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2007): i think your still young in this love world.i also thinks he doesn't care for your plans he as his own that he's not sharing with you.
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reader, nologo  +, writes (5 April 2007):
 I could easily reply to this question saying that your boyfriend doesn't want a Commitment, but it's not true.Here is a difference between you two as to what this relationship should be like in the future.If you're gonna get married, you both should agree on a number of things in your life before that.You say: "when i finish college i will have a good degree that will get me places"If you believe this is really important to you, don't rush things with him.And finally, I didn't get the feeling you're holding him back.
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