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Ive had it confirmed by the doctor I have miscarried! How an earth do I tell my fiance that I've lost our babies!!!

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Question - (4 April 2007) 4 Answers - (Newest, 5 April 2007)
A female South Africa age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Hi I found out two weeks ago that I was pregnant, then last night I started having cramps and this morning the bleeding started, I went to see my docter and he told me I had had a miscarraige... My question is how do I tell my fiance that I lost our babies just as we were getting excited at the idea of becoming parents?

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A female reader, _Hannah_ United Kingdom +, writes (5 April 2007):

If You Cant Tell Him Who Can You Tell?

I'm Afraid your going to have to be brave. This is something you can't pretend didn't happen.

Peace.out

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A male reader, Jamer70 United Kingdom +, writes (4 April 2007):

Jamer70 agony auntIm also sorry. But dont say "I've lost the baby"

It wasnt your fault.

Just sit him down in a alm room and tell him, if your relationship was strong, he wont are as he has you.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2007):

What you have got to remember is that this is not your fault. Tell him as soon as possible about the bad news, that way you have each other to comfort rather than you feeling guilty about keeping this tragic news to yourself whilst he's excited about the babies arriving and talking about cots, dirty nappies, sleepness nights etc (not knowing that you have miscarried).

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2007):

I am sorry for your loss. You sit him down and you just simply tell him. And then the the both of you hold each other, cry and mourn this deep loss, together. There is no specific way to deliver news like this to a loved one. The best way is to communicate openly, and let him know what you are going through. This is a sad time and the both of you will need to rely on each other's strength and compassion to get through. Again, so sorry. Take care.

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