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My husband hates touching, kissing and cuddling me!!! What should I do!?

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Question - (4 April 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 5 April 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I been married 17 months .

I love my husband so much.

But he hates touching kissing cuddling me .

now even us talking ends in a row .

He keeps telling me he dislikes me saying I love him

I just don't understand. He used so caring towards me

NOW it feels like he hates me .

I end up crying myself to sleep most nights.

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A male reader, Royofthe Rovers United Kingdom +, writes (5 April 2007):

Royofthe Rovers agony auntDoes'nt sound like the nicest of chaps.. Do you know if he has been like this with previous partners? He may have a personal problem which he is hiding and refuses to aknowledge to you. If he cant be truthful when you ask him respectfully, (maybe cook him dinner, quite night in sort of thing) then he will never open up to you. That will surely end in more tears as you are missing out on a vital part of a relationship, whether it be sex or just a cuddle on the sofa. You can only do so much, but make sure you do all you can in the nicest way to avoid him feeling like he is backed into a corner. If you love him you can do this, if he loves you than he should be able to as well. Goodluck with it..thoughts are with ya.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2007):

what an horrible husband you have,he isnt worth your tears,the pain you must be feeling in your heart.you have to face the truth,he doesnt want you but its is loss as he knows your a great woman otherwise he would never have married you,try to be brave and start to rebuild your life without him,dont contact him as it will set you back and think positive there is someone whom will love you as you deserve out there,and when your ready go find him,good luck

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