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Archived questions from: April, 2007 (see latest in Big Questions category)

Big Questions: Help and advice

The semester is almost over and our last class is this wednesday, and i don't know whether to ask him for his email or myspace or what?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6419 days ago

30 April 2007 (F) - I think this guy in my sculpture class is really cool. He is friendly and talented and helped me learn how to begin sculpting because I had no experience with clay before taking this class. We chit chat sometimes and we even had lunch together once, ...

Should I take her back??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6417 days ago

30 April 2007 (M) - I was with my girlfriend for 7 and a half years and we broke up for three months we were really getting to each other and we both parted ways. I still seen her about once every few weeks for the next three months. She never told me she was seeing ...

I don't want my mum to be alone.........

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6418 days ago

30 April 2007 (F) - You may all think Im mad or that my Mum is but here goes, I'll explain a little before I tell you the problem. My Mum's been through tough times for example violent partners and Alcohol and Drug abuse. Maybe she thought that that was her only esc...

We broke up last July, I dealt with it as he wasnt around... He's coming home and will be where I am, I cant deal with this, Im too hurt! Please help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6419 days ago

30 April 2007 (F) - sorry long post but pls i really need some help! my fiancee and i broke up in july he said he was too young to be in a relationship. His mum and i were very close and she said it was he was in debt and couldn't cope with the pressure of being ad...

I have a bf, but I get depressed as we dont live together, he likes his own space, I live alone and feel very lonely!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6419 days ago

30 April 2007 (F) - When it comes to a Monday, I get to feel really depressed. I don't live with my boyfriend (mostly his choice) but we do spend quite a lot of time together. I have lived on my own for over a year. In that time I have never got used to it. I do hav...

She's flirting with another male, despite knowing I'm interested, he will use her, what can I do ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6419 days ago

30 April 2007 (M) - ok i told a friend i liked her and she liked me but then last week she said she only wants me as a friend. i didnt know why she changed her mind but then i knew she started texting another guy from work which i was slightly jealous about and then ...

I ran up and snogged him to get him back for parading his new gf in front of me, now I'm scared he will hurt me!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6419 days ago

30 April 2007 (F) - I have fancied a lad for 2 years and he has just got a new girlfriend and he knows the way I feel about him and his girlfriend and him are always hugging and snogging around my school and they do it in front of me in purpose and Its sooo Upsetting ...

My mum has changed since my dad left, and now I'm having nightmares about her!! Please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6419 days ago

30 April 2007 (F) - I keep having violent nightmares about my mum trying to kill me because ever since my dad left , my mum has changed and she gets really angry and violent towards me and she says its my fault he left and she sometimes hits me to teach me a lesson and ...

I thought my friend felt the same way so I took the plunge, now I feel stupid! Has this happend to anyone else ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6399 days ago

30 April 2007 (M) - ever told a friend how u feel thinking they feel the same way (as they said they had) just for them to suddenly say they just want to be friends for no obvious reason? i feel so stupid and cant think what ive done. has this happened to anyo...

Hes led me on and then knocked me back! Im heartbroken what can I do ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6419 days ago

30 April 2007 (F) - hi last month i got drunk and told a friend that i fancied him but he never really gave me an answer, just said that he was unsure about whether he wanted to get in a relationship at the minute so i said thats fine and just carried on chatting with ...

I love him so dearly that I can't do without him, but he is proposing to marry the mother of his 7 year old child!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6418 days ago

30 April 2007 (F) - I have a lover that is about 28 years old. I love him so dearly that I can't do without him. We have been dating for 2 years now. The problem is that he has a son of 7 who lives with the mother and he is proposing to marry her. Please help me. I ...

Im 14 and hardly know any boys! How can I best get to know some ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6419 days ago

30 April 2007 (F) - Hey, i'm a 14 year old girl, but i really don't know any boys! i'm not a shy person and i get on well with most people... the couple of guys i know (my parents' friends' sons) seem to find me fun to talk to and quite good looking :P the thing is ...

Is this guy just using me, or does he like me ? What would this conversation tell you ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6419 days ago

30 April 2007 (F) - This is a conversation i had with a guy i liked, i get most of it but not all.Is he using me? Does he like me? Just please tell me what he means? Me: What do you think of me? Him: How do you mean, you have to be more accurate? Me: What am...

We dated but then went back to being friends as she wasnt ready, should I wait for something more ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6419 days ago

30 April 2007 (M) - i let slip to a close girl friend i liked her n found she liked me too... we weren't 'officially' going out but things were really good for a couple weeks or so until after one day i saw her she TXTd me she wasnt ready for a relationship yet and ...

I lose interest in guys that show how they feel about me, I just end up being compliant!! Anyone any advice ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6415 days ago

30 April 2007 (F) - Lately I've come to realise that I tend to lose interest in guys who show too much interest in me too soon, whether that be sexual interest or in terms of wanting a relationship. Like I'll be flirting and having fun getting to know a guy and t...

Seeing each other for a few weeks... about 6 times, does this mean we are officially dating ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6419 days ago

30 April 2007 (M) - I've been "seeing" a guy for a few weeks (seen each other 6 times, which amounts 1-2 times a week). We're both in our late 20s. We speak virtually every night on the phone. The problem is this: while I feel like we have a great time when we are...

My bf still talks to the guy who I feel betrayed by and I dont like it!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6419 days ago

30 April 2007 (F) - My friend found out I kissed another guy 4 years ago while I was dating my current boyfriend, he confronted me and then said he wouldn't tell him. However he did in the worst way, and my boyfriend broke up with me. Since then we have gotten back ...

Just discovered hes been looking at child pornography!!!!!! I dont know what to do!!?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4944 days ago

30 April 2007 (F) - i need some help. two days ago i found out my b/f has been looking up porn pictures of young girls on sites and downloading pictures (between the ages of about 8-13). i feel soo angry. i dont know what to do, we've talked about it and he apologised. ...

Living together 2 yrs and I want to get engaged, not to marry yet, but for him to show his commitment to me, is pushing him a good idea ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6419 days ago

30 April 2007 (F) - im 25 years old me and my boyfriend have been dating 3 years and living together for 2 of those years. Im currently in school to be a Physicians assistant because this is a masters program I still have quite a few years to go. The problem I'm having ...

I told him that I like him more than friends, he was cool with it, is he interested too ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6414 days ago

30 April 2007 (F) - I have this guy friend, we are so close because we hugg, we talk to each other a lot, we are like best friends. I told him that I had feelings for him but I know that he does not have feelings for me, I said that me likeing him should not make are ...

He always makes plans to go on a date with me, but it never happens !?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6419 days ago

30 April 2007 (F) - There is this guy who I really like, we get along so well and have alot in common. I know he is interested in me, and keeps telling me he wants a relationship, that he thinks I'm pretty, and when we are together he is totally into me. However, he ...

I have a small penis and I'm worried that my gf will laugh when we have sex!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6419 days ago

30 April 2007 (M) - i love my girlfriend very dearly and she loves me were young but old enough to have sex, i love her so much but afraid that if we go to have sex one night she might laugh or refuse to have sex because of my small penis what can u advise i do? since ...

How can I find out if my best friends brother is gay, bi or straight ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6419 days ago

30 April 2007 (M) - I guess its not really a question, but just an issue. I really like a friend of mine, but I'm not sure if he's straight gay or bi. I don't want to ask him directly cause I value our friendship to much. He know's I'm gay. The other issue is he's my ...

After we sleep together she says she doesnt want a relationship... Im confused!!?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6419 days ago

30 April 2007 (M) - Hi everyone, I've just got involved with a girl. We slept together for a while but didn't do anything sexual until just 2 weeks ago. Then she tells me she doesn't want a relationship and wants it to stay the same. Last time I saw her she didn't c...

I cant stop prank calling my ex!! Think I've got a problem! Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6415 days ago

30 April 2007 (F) - I can't stop prank calling my ex boyfriend. Seriously. I'm 24 years old and I'm acting like a 10 year old. He cheated on me and I was very angry, but instead of confronting him, I just prank call him all the time. My most recent one was calling...

Im worried my GF may have stopped taking the pill as she wants children!! Im only 17!! What should I do ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6419 days ago

29 April 2007 (M) - hi im 17, nearly 18 and i've been seeing this girl since we were 13, she is the same age as me. recently she has been dropping hints about children. We have been having sex since we were 13, i have always used a condom until she was 16 wen she ...

Im only 16, but he thinks I'm 18, hes 23 would I stand a chance with him ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6419 days ago

29 April 2007 (F) - Im a mature 16 yr old girl. i regularly go in my local pub with my friends as they are all 18 or over. over the last yr i have met a guy who is 23. the thing is i look older so i told him i am 18. he is a really nice guy and i think im falling for ...

I dont think I like my Bf's past or his antics, but we have a child together, should I stay with him ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6411 days ago

29 April 2007 (F) - my boyfriend and i are together for 9 years we share a daughter and he got a son which is older than her which he got a girl pregnant in the early years of our relationship and i am still insecure because i found out that he has other girlfriends ...

My gf steals pint glasses from the pub we go to a lot..and I am worried she might get caught! Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6420 days ago

29 April 2007 (M) - Okay this is going to sound silly but everytime we go out for a drink, my girlfriend wants to steal pint glasses! lol! And I don't think its a good idea as we go their each week and she may get caught. She has stolen a number of glasses from pub...

How do I get my nipples to become less pointy? Any ideas?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4552 days ago

29 April 2007 (M) - I am not sure if there is something wrong with me. I have pointy nipples, but i have tried to get rid of them. i am not overweight and never have been. In fact, every night i do well over 200 push-up, and over 400 sit ups. I am very active in other ...

What if I've got it wrong and I really do love him? What will I do then? Can someone help me please?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6420 days ago

28 April 2007 (F) - I am married with 3 children. My husband and i have been together for 10 years. Last year he started a new job which meant he had to spend a lot of time away from home. Meanwhile i was pregnant with our 3rd child, running a business and moving ...

I don´t understand women. Give me some perspective, please!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6419 days ago

28 April 2007 (M) - I know people will think I´m and idiot at the end of this but it is true. I don´t understand women. Yes I have a sister and I´m still friendly with my mum, I have friends who are girls. But I went on one date and I know it was a disaster because ...

People say when you want to be confident, you should look at what you´re good at. What does that mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6421 days ago

28 April 2007 (M) - i´m trying to build up my confidence so that i can do anything i want. I´m already doing that by travelling on my own around europe. There´s just one problem. People say when you want to be confident, you should look at what you´re good at. What ...

I have recently been introduced to my Brother's drinking mate, he is 27 and gorgeous. I really like him but I don't have the confidence to tell him how I feel.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6421 days ago

28 April 2007 (F) - I have recently been introduced to my Brother's drinking mate, he is 27 and gorgeous. I really like him but I don't have the confidence to tell him how I feel. We get on really well and we always flirt and he always gives me a kiss on the cheek wh...

Do you think i should tell this boy that i love him or just keep it to myself?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6023 days ago

28 April 2007 (F) - Do you think i should tell this boy that i love him or just keep it to myself? my close friends know, and my parents have guessed. he's involved with someone who is also very close to me. although i don't intend to try and break up them (and i doub...

Is it possible for a no strings relationship to develop strings?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6421 days ago

28 April 2007 (F) - Is it possible for a no strings relationship to develop strings? how can you tell if the person is still interested if strings develop?...

I still hold something in my heart for my old fling.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6419 days ago

28 April 2007 (F) - I'm sitting here in this party....its pretty lame. Yoù know I've been thinking aboùt how I'm feeling. I gùess I've noticed that for some reason I still hold something in my heart for my old fling. And I gùess also that I don't know exactly how I'm ...

He is not in love with her but at the same time he won't leave as he feels she will make it difficult for him to see his daughter

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6418 days ago

28 April 2007 (F) - this is goin to be a long one sorry i've known this guy for many years but its only over the past two we've really got on. we met up agen round one of our friends house and instantly we had things to talk about and practically ignored everyone else ...

Do i risk everything by still seeing him and commiting to our relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6421 days ago

28 April 2007 (F) - I am a single mother of two and have had my ups and downs with men. i have meet the man of my dreams and we have grown very close. he told me something the other night about himself because he wants no secrets and wants us to become closer and move ...

He's currently single but one day he'll find someone and probably settle down, and that will just finish me off. I can't tell him again,and risk our friendship but neither can I watch him be happy with someone else.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5555 days ago

28 April 2007 (F) - Hi, please look at this I haven't told anyone. Basically I need to go back several years when I was with a guy,lets call him H,for half a year.I broke it off because I still had feelings for my ex,and even though I did like H I didn't think it was ...

My boyfriend and I are engaged, and he went in to talk to his boss in the army to quit, but he came back even more confused.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6421 days ago

27 April 2007 (F) - My Boyfriend and i recently got engaged, hes been in the army for 6 years, we have been together for a year. He recently signed off as he has started to hate it but has to work up until next march. Then today he had to go and see one of his bosses ...

How do I get my man back?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5988 days ago

27 April 2007 (F) - How do I get my man back? He tells me he wants to work things out but I am tired of waiting. Should I continue to wait for him?...

I live in Spain and cannot speak alot of Spanish.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6421 days ago

27 April 2007 (F) - I live in Spain and cannot speak alot of Spanish. Theres this really cute Spanish guy i like, but i cant get him to notice me. Its really hard to talk to him as i cannot speak the language very well. Last time i talked to him i looked like ...

I'm scared of being rejected because I have never had a boyfriend before because no one had asked me out. I have started to think that I'm not pretty or thin or nice enough.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6317 days ago

27 April 2007 (F) - For starters, there is this guy i like but he's a year younger than me. He's 16 and I am going to be 17 next week. I'm worried that if i ask him out, people will laugh at me because he is younger than me. Also, I'm scared of being rejected because I ...

Would it be wise to send her an email asking her because I don't have much time after the weekend to ask her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6421 days ago

27 April 2007 (M) - There is a college dance coming up soon and i really fancy the person i want to go with. We have made a good friendship this year and we will speak whenever an oppartunity comes. I am slightly shy, I'm scared to ask her. Would it be wise to send ...

How can I tell if he has changed emotionally and if he is ready what are the signs?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6421 days ago

27 April 2007 (F) - Six years ago I met this guy. We dated for about six months. He seemed emotionally unavailable to me so I pretty much moved on. We have remained friends over the years and kept in contact. We met up a few times over those years as well. He showed up ...

He is avoiding me because he doesn't want to hurt me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6420 days ago

27 April 2007 (F) - I have known this guy for over 2 years now and we get along great. About a year ago, we started fooling around, and 2 months ago, I gave him my virginity. We have had sex twice since then, and now he is avoiding me because he doesn't want to hurt ...

He's romantic but impractical.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6421 days ago

27 April 2007 (F) - Hi, This guy at my church admitted he liked me which was really nice, but I told him for now I just wnat to be friends and he agreed and we've been like that for about 6 or 7 months hanging out,we have talked a lot and i really felt a bond being ...

What can we do to stay secret and to make it work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6422 days ago

27 April 2007 (F) - For the past year i have been in love with my cousin's ex-husband. He loves me too but there is a 10 year age gap and i'm underage. What can we do to stay secret and to make it work?...

I have a heavy period and I'm scared of what will happen in school! Any suggestions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6422 days ago

27 April 2007 (F) - dear agony aunt, i have started my perids a couple of days ago, when im in school i feel all scared of what will happen but in my house i am fine, also i am pretty heavy which makes it worse! and when i need to change it i will need my bag but...