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I think I had sex, but Im not sure, Im worried that Im pregnant!!

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Question - (4 April 2007) 10 Answers - (Newest, 13 April 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *ubz writes:

i dont know if im pregnant!! but im reallyy scared after reading all these stories. i think i had sex but im not sure! if u have sex can u feel the penis go inside of u??.. i dont think it went inside but im not too sure. we didnt even use a condom. plz reply back because im really scared! im only 15 so i cant even get any tabletz! what are the signs of pregnancy? plzz plzzzzz mail back.. thanku!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2007):

if the peinis went inside of u would of felt an orgasim wich is a relaxation or tingely feeling sperm would have been released into u but if enough was then u could posabily be pregnant . after a few weeks u will start to feel sick

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2007):

Well what you have to do is --

first, when you are pregnant you may be constantly geeting/feeling sick or down.

need anymore help?

i am 16 and i have a 2yr old son

Rebecca,

xx

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A female reader, lubz United Kingdom +, writes (4 April 2007):

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thanks 4 the advice! hope u can keep me updated with everything. takecare xxx

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A female reader, ruth2203 United Kingdom +, writes (4 April 2007):

you can get pills at any age and your parents dont need to know x

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2007):

thanku so much! i feel at ease a lil now! but im still worried. im feeling really lazy and what not. if i go to the clinic wil it be confidential??

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A female reader, PoSiOnKiSS United Kingdom +, writes (4 April 2007):

PoSiOnKiSS agony auntto ease ur mind go to ur doctor/nurse and they will give you all the help you need and it will all be done confidentially. if the guy didnt come inside of you or wasnt inside of you for long then there is a good chance u wont be pregnant, but the best way you can find out is to go get professional help. Take care x

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A female reader, Melanne United Kingdom +, writes (4 April 2007):

Melanne agony auntI am sorry you feel so worried. It is clear to see that you feel very scared. Sexual intercourse is where the penis goes inside of you and the only way you get pregnant is if the man came inside you. It is very important to wear a condom not only because it protects you from getting pregnant but, it also protects you from sexually transmitted diseases.

Without having sex pregnancy is almost impossible or very unlikely. The semen need to fertilize the eggs passing through the vaginal opening to penetrate the eggs. Generally speaking, no, you cannot get pregnant without having sex. But if any sperm gets on or near your vagina, there may be a very small chance of pregnancy.

You need to go and speak with your GP. You need to ask him for some protection against getting pregnant. Talk to him honestly and tell him your fears. Doctors are trained to understand they also have to keep strict confidentiality laws which means they won't speak to anyone like your parents about this. It is important for you to get the right help and fast.

I hope I have reassured you a little but, in the future it would be good for you to have the right type of sexual protection. I would advise you speak to your GP as soon as possible.

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A female reader, Bailey J United Kingdom +, writes (4 April 2007):

Bailey J agony auntIf you have felt his penius inside you then you’ve probably had sex… did you feel any sticky fluid around your virginal area when he pulled away, if so this means he has ejaculated inside you. The first sign of being pregnant is being late on your period. Other signs include, feeling or being sick, and tender breast. My advice would be to get a pregnancy test or go and see your doctor who can advise you further.

I don’t think you should go this far with a boy again as you are very young and don’t seem educated about sex. Before having sexual intercourse you need to be fully aware of the pro’s and con’s, such as: Sexually Transmitted Diseases (Std’s) Unwanted pregnancies, Birth control, and the understanding of all that is involved.

I wish you all the best

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2007):

Sweety. It is perfectly normal to be scared, but chances are you are not pregnant. If you had had sex,unless he was VERY small, you would have most DEFINATELY felt it becuase it would have hurt. Also, I know people make mistakes, but next if you are going to do it, use protection. If you are still unsure, you could always talk to someone at your school, like a close teacher or counselor. As for the signs of pregnancy, there are many and they differ for every women, but a few common ones are, of course, a missed perios, but don't freak stressing out about this can also make you miss, and sore breasts becuase of an increased flow of estrogen. Your best bet is to go to a clinic for a test or buy a home pregnancy test. If you don't want you parents to know, I would take the test outside of the home, like at a friends. I hope this can help you and I wish you the best.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2007):

Why do you think you are pregnant? Are you late? At your age it is very normal to be late!

Have you ever had sex before? I don't think so, becaus so you would know that you would feel the penis inside you. Sex would not be fun, if you would not feel anything! But if it was your first time, it probably hurt, so you really would fell something!

But if you had petting and both of you did not wear pants or if he touched you with your finger. It still could be that you get pregnant because of the sprem in the drop. If never been pregnant so I don't knwo the signs. But don't bee scared. So if there really is any reason to think that you are pregnant, go to the chemist's or pharmacy as soon as posible and ask for help. They have the duty to treat medical records confidentially. So don't worry and get professional help in discretion.

And for every other time, to go sure, use a condom!

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