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writes: helloi met a nice man on a marriage site i did not know that he existed on the site until one day i recieved an invitation to chat from him he told me that he would love to chat with me then i agreed we chatted and sent e-mails he told me that his job really occupies his time but he really wants talk to me. So one day he told me that he would be at home for the weekend so we can chat i waited but he was not on line that day i sent him an e-mail saying that i waited for him.He came on line after 3 weeks and he said "iam so sorry my computer had a melt down and i had a project out of town i shall be back this weekend well if you are still interested in chatting mail Me back" okay i will get back to you.i want to know what do you think of what he said Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, kenny +, writes (4 April 2007):
It could all be a fallacy, something he has concocted, or he could be telling the truth, its hard to say.
As its the first time its happened i would be inclined to give him the benefit of the doubt. But walk away if it happens a second time.
Good luck x
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reader, Candy's corner +, writes (4 April 2007):
I can understand why you have doubts.. I think that the reason he gave about not getting in contact with you, Isnt a good enough excuse, as there are plenty of places he could have gone to, even just to let you know that he wouldnt be able to answer your messages as his computer was broken.. If you are really keen on him, then you should give him the benefit of the doubt. But express to him, you will not put up with being messed around.
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reader, ruth2203 +, writes (4 April 2007):
maybe he was telling the truth its a tough one but you shouldnt sit at your computer waiting for mail its not fair
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