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*lovealextucker
writes:I am going through a long distance relationship with my boyfriend.We have been going out ever since february and his last ex was a long distance relationship too. We both have a myspace, and so does his ex. Alex's ex,in which she lives on the east coast of the u.s. and me and alex are 1 state between us(we both live in the southwest),i feel like she is butting in our relationship because in the past,she has sent me a myspace messege wondering about us. Alex told me that when his friends that are girls bother me or send messges about us or say something rude,he told me to tell me about what there saying and he'll talk too them,however,he told me that he barley talks to his friends on myspace anymore and even though he put me on his number one and my mom second,but his ex is number three, even though his ex and him dont talk that much,i feel like his ex still likes him because she hasnt delete flirty pic comments on myspace from him in the past when they were going out and she put him as number three,but the first number one guy on her top friends list and its fucking pissing me off! I told him about how i feel about this,but he told me not to worry about it because im closer to him and we are planning to meet and live together in two years and he told me he loves me alot,very very much. I just dont know what to do,everytime i look on his myspace and see her pic,i just get in touchy moods. People what should i do? Is it me being insecure or is it him or his ex?
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reader, chrissy32789 +, writes (12 April 2007):
 Dear ilovealextucker,
she is sending you messages askin about you two because she is jealious of the both of you..i dated my ex on myspace and he still had pics of his ex on there and it bothered the hell out of me but i keep in my mind im the one whos with him not her, and even though they was broke up he still talked to her and she was still on his top 8 but in ur case just let it go they can only be friends dont trip about it bc when u two live together u guys while still talk to opisit sex and u cant be jealious of it just keep reminding ur self hes with me and me onlyu should be happy to make his ex jealious cause she was prolly on his number one and now she is pushed back to # 3. put it this way im gettin married in may to my fiance and he still has a picture of his ex girlfriend in his dresser but i deal with it because i know he loves me and she was the past and i am the future. well good luck and dont trip about it it will all work out for you..
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