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I don't know whether to trust him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6438 days ago

11 April 2007 (F) - my bf has really hurt me. we've been together for 3yrs and obviously had our gd n bad times as any couple does. we took a brief break over a year ago and we both made new friends. sadly theres this one girl (his x's best mate, the girl he saw on the ...

We had a great relationship and had plans...now he's suddenly decided he doesn't want this! I am shocked! Please advise?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6438 days ago

11 April 2007 (F) - Last April I met a good man and we developed a good relationship. He was offered work in Gibraltar last July. I didn't pressure him either to go, or not take it, as it was too early on in our relationship to decide whether we were going to stay ...

How does a break from a relationship work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6437 days ago

11 April 2007 (F) - If you're planning on taking a break from your bf/gf what happens? How do breaks work? DO you talk to your bf/gf? Do you see your bf/gf? How do you cope while you're in the break?...

How do I strike a balanced way of seeing things so that I can relate with people the way they are rather than trying to see them the way I want to.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6438 days ago

11 April 2007 (M) - I have failed to found a person, yet, a friend or a girl who could really understand my deeper feelings and would appreciate the same or accept them to be normal. Because of this, i am losing faith and don't find it worth relating with any human ...

Does this happen to all inter-racial relationships ? I really dont want my Bf to hate my parents and vice versa!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6438 days ago

11 April 2007 (F) - My boyfriend is British and I’m Chinese. We both live in Canada. We have been dating for 1.5 years and are very serious about each other. His parents love me and even want us to get married soon. On the other hand, my parents are cool (literally) ...

Im 16 hes 40, I cant imagine life without him so how do I get him ot marry me ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6438 days ago

11 April 2007 (F) - I wrote yesterday "So many boys want to date me but I reject them all for my married neighbor who is 40! I'm 16. He is married but only see his family twice a mth over weekends coz they are overseas. We have been seeing each other almost daily for ...

Does sex harm your baby ? And do men get stretchmarks ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5674 days ago

11 April 2007 (F) - i have actually got 2 questions:: does it damage ababy if you have sex while you are pregnant?? because i am pregnant but my bf wants us t still have sex and.. do men get strechmarks?? might seem silly i jus wondering ...

I have a low self esteem and dont hold any of myself in high regard at all!! Please help!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6438 days ago

11 April 2007 (F) - I really hate my body and my low self esteem is beginning to distract me from everything else that i should be focussing on. I actually feel a constant disgust from just being in my skin, i can't look at myself in the mirror without seeing all my ...

I'm a black woman in NY, and I have a thing for white men, trouble is I dont seem to be their type around here! Any advice ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6438 days ago

11 April 2007 (F) - Okay, so I am not sure how to deal with this... I am a 32 yr old single black woman in NY. I am also a single mother. For some reason lately I seem to find myself more and more attracted to white men. Now I know there is nothing wrong wi...

Why do I seem to always find the players when it comes to men in my life ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6438 days ago

11 April 2007 (M) - i have fallen for another guy, now im no prude, ive been out for 15 years, its just my last two boyfriends were secretly into cottaging and cruising and they kept it secret from me, it broke my heart, now 8 years later, over four years i think me ...

I have a greater connection with my new GF than I ever did with my Ex, so why cant I get her out of my head ??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6433 days ago

11 April 2007 (M) - Hi, I split up with my ex girlfriend a year ago after 5 years (she was my first serious girlfriend). A few months after we split up she got engaged to another guy and moved in with him. I met an amazing girl who I have a great time with. I feel I ...

He told me I was cute! Why would he do that when he already has a GF of 1 year ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6438 days ago

11 April 2007 (F) - I was with my friend yesterday.. just spending time with him. He has a girlfriend but she knows we're just mates and has no problem. He msned me last night and told me how cute I was etc and that he liked me. Why would he tell me that when he's got ...

My Gf is always at work, never has time for me, she wont have sex everyday so I wont cuddle her, what can I do ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6438 days ago

11 April 2007 (M) - Im 27 and my girl is 26 I have a problem because she is always at work and never have time for me. she would come home and she would ask me to cuddle with her. I told her she knows i cant do that because i like to have sex everyday and she dont ...

How can I stop being paranoid!?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 6430 days ago

11 April 2007 (M) - How can I stop being paranoid about girl friends or girlfriends?...

My bf has just gone away for a spring break, Im worried he will make out with other girls!! Any ideas how I can find out if he does ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6439 days ago

11 April 2007 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for about a month now. He just left to go to cabo, mexico for a spring break trip, but he went with his family and best friend (his best friend is a party type of guy). My boyfriend is not known for cheating but it is ...

Any ideas how I can win my bf over again ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6438 days ago

11 April 2007 (F) - I don't know what to do am trying so hard to make it up to my boyfriend (i didn't cheat or out) and things are bad right now we said we would give it another go but he been funny with me and is pulling away i think he is doing it to show me what it ...

Why does this unusual feeling happen in my vagina when I sit down ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6438 days ago

11 April 2007 (F) - why do i have this feeling down my vagina when i sit down sometimes? sometimes when i sit down on a chair or couch i just get a random feeling in my vagina. i do not think of sexual thoughts but sometimes i do. i just again get that random feel...

I dont trust him, we broke up as he like someone else, hes still in contact with her and were are back together!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6436 days ago

11 April 2007 (F) - Should I still trust him? My boyfriend were going out for a year. Then suddenly he broke up with me, with not that good of an explanation. At that time, he got pretty close with another girl, and 3 weeks after our break up, he admitted to me that ...

I really like this girl but shes a 15yr old mum, what can I do my parents wouldnt approve ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6437 days ago

11 April 2007 (M) - ok I am in a predicament.....i have a major crush on this girl she is 1.5 years younger than me....that isn't the problem the problem is that she has a kid. It is just a very odd situation....we met on the internet and we talk allot she lives in the ...

We are from the USA and my bf thinks that we wont be able to mess around below the waist as I will be classed as a minor even though I'm 17, anyone know if this is true ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6438 days ago

11 April 2007 (F) - I'm 17, he's turning 18 in a month. We both want to stay virgins, but he's telling me we won't be able to mess around under the waist because I'm still a minor, and I would have to ask specifically for it every time with nothing from him. It sounds ...

We hang out and he tells me he loves me, but why wont he ask me out ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6439 days ago

11 April 2007 (F) - I talk to this guy everynight on the phone and we hang out on the weekends and sometimes after school during the week. We have done stuff together and he tells me he loves me, but he won't ask me out. Why won't he ask me out?...

The age difference is 5 years and Im only 14, does this really matter ?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6128 days ago

11 April 2007 (F) - I am 14 years old and My boy friend is 19 years old. I really like him a lot.I am very mature for my age. People dont believe that i am only 14 years old. Every guy around my age arent mature and i hate that so much so I tend to go to older guys. My ...

Its my ex's fault that I got run down by my gf, I want to get my ex for GBH, but they will see it as my GF's fault!!?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6438 days ago

11 April 2007 (M) - i typed a question about being ran down by my gf. i have a cousin who looks just like me this is what i thogut it was you know, mistaken identity. but it turned out her freind told her that she saw me leave a woman's house, this is where it gets ...

I've always loved him, hes never interested, but now I think Im falling for his twin brother!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6438 days ago

11 April 2007 (F) - I've liked this guy for 2 1/2 years. I never doubted i loved him, but he ignores me. We went out last year, but over the summer, he said it would be better if we waited untill high school, next year. I believed him, but now he's going out with ...

What is the appeal of younger women to older guys?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6438 days ago

11 April 2007 (F) - Ive just started dating a man who is older. Now obviously he appealed to me because he is good looking and more mature than guys my age. What i want to know is, what is the appeal of younger women to older guys?...

We are LD, we are engaged, and I do want to marry her, But shes talks so openly about sex with others, that Im wondering is she right for me ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6438 days ago

11 April 2007 (M) - I am in a long distance relationship now with my fiancee and sometimes she gets on the edge, we had a row and she told me that the fact that she loves me does not mean that when i get her upset she will not make mistakes of going out to look for ...

I've been chatting to this guy on the internet, due to meet, but what If I dont like him in the flesh!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6415 days ago

11 April 2007 (?) - So i've been talking to this guy on the internet. we "met" through a mutual friend that i go to church with and he goes to school with. Well, we've been talking for awhile now and he wants to hang out this weekend. I really do want to meet him, but ...

I'm 15 and the whole thought of sex feels me with dread!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6429 days ago

11 April 2007 (F) - Ok I hear about people my age having sex all the time. I am 15 and right now sex isn't even an option for me. Like the thought of someone inside of me kinda grosses me out. I am 15 and wondering if I am ever going to over come my fear of having sex. ...

I opened up and told my husband about my past threesome!!! He cant move on from it and its destroying us! Please help!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5096 days ago

11 April 2007 (F) - I have a serious marriage problem. My husband and I have been married for 15 months now. We got married while he was in the military, and we were separated for 13 months. We have been living together for 3 months now. Everything was perfect in ...

I want her to be more affectionate, shouldnt she be comfortable being affectionate after 2 months ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6438 days ago

11 April 2007 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been going out for 2 months. She is really self conscious, and she even admitted it. She and I have held hands, etc, but at school she doesn't like anything else but hugging. I respect her space and comfort, but I really ...

What if I fall in to these lonely lust traps and never in love, am I doomed, should I leave relationships alone for a few years ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6438 days ago

11 April 2007 (F) - Am I unfit for relationships? I posted on this site a couple of months ago about a relationship in trouble which ended shortly after. It was painful but I was sure it was the right thing to do. Since then I've been trying to get on with things (I've ...

Any ideas how I can break the ice and ask her on the date ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6438 days ago

11 April 2007 (?) - i'm goin to phone the girl i fancy tomorrow over the phone and ask if she'd like to go on a day out with her and my friend? so the four of us. any ideas how i can break the ice and ask? it's my first time calling her! thanks,...

Im 18 and hes 26, worried that all he sees us as is sex, even though he talks about he future ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6438 days ago

11 April 2007 (F) - i am 18 and i am seeing 26 year old man and i am confused about what he really wants from me. He talks about the future but what about now what am i supposed to wait or just move on its hard because i have feelings for him that are strong.I caught ...

I'm confused I only see my bf once a week as hes always busy, but he is dead romantic! Am I being selfish ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6438 days ago

11 April 2007 (F) - I am confussed i never see my boyfriend only once a week because he is always busy playing footy or going to see his dad...and he puts me last all the time but he is a ded romantic person and shows alot of care ..i want to see him more am i being ...

I 'm finding this real tough but how do I forgive, so that I can move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6438 days ago

11 April 2007 (F) - How do you forgive someone? My ex made me feel really uncomfortable one night. Him and his best mate were teasing me so much it felt like bullying and he has since apologised for making me feeling uncomfortable and hopes I can forgive him. I ...