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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:There is this guy who I really like, we get along so well and have alot in common. I know he is interested in me, and keeps telling me he wants a relationship, that he thinks I'm pretty, and when we are together he is totally into me. However, he keeps making plans wtih me to do all this stuff, but never ends up calling me. He always answers my calls/texts and calls me back, but I feel like he always has some excuse why he can't hang out. He doesn't have much money right now, but who does we are in college. We live very close to eachother, but can't seem to hang out other than when I see him at the bar he works at or when he gets off of work. We have only slept together once. Why does he keep making it seem like he wants to hang out with me if he can't keep plans? I really like him, what can I do?
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reader, trueheartconfused +, writes (30 April 2007):
Usually if a guy is really into you , he will make all the plans and show up . He would want to spend a lot of time with you .
You need to take a step back and observe him more before you fall for him and hurt yourself. Stop calling him for a while,if he really loves you , cares about you , he would want to know what's going on and contact you by himself , if you call him all the time before he does , you have no way to find out , also confront him about this, tell him it hurts your feeling when he make plans but does not follow through, if he really loves you ,cares about you , he will apologize and change his behavior, if he only apologize and does nothing ,or
only does a few times, he is just not into you .
When he said he also wants a relationship , it does not necessary mean he wants the same relationship you want, he could mean he just want a relationship that whenever he wants to sleep with you , he can , so he would keep you for now by string you along .
You need to do some experiments and find out by yourself.
Good luck.
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