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writes:Hi everyone, I've just got involved with a girl.We slept together for a while but didn't do anything sexual until just 2 weeks ago. Then she tells me she doesn't want a relationship and wants it to stay the same. Last time I saw her she didn't come near me for four days, I asked her about this and she doesn't seem to want to answer I'm really confused. I don't know how to handle this atall should I call her or leave it a while? Its been four days since I've seen her but feels like weeks, HELP! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 April 2007): That might possibly be her guilt acting up. However, let's say she does genuinely mean it, the thing is, you have to focus on her now rather than what she said before. If you like to give yourself hope that something positive may come out from this, then continue your friendship with her. However, if you do with sex on the side, the possibility for a heart break can also occur where she doesn't want to further anything deeper. So ultimately, you have to see which risk you want to take and which possibilities you are willing to face.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 April 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the answer martini.
One thing I left out is, the most important bit I'm sure.
She also said that it would be nice if it could turn into something good before any of this happened. This is where the confusement came. Cheers
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 April 2007): It means she wants to have a fling/casual relationship with you. If you don't want to have a fling/casual relationship, then this isn't the girl for you.
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