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writes:I guess its not really a question, but just an issue. I really like a friend of mine, but I'm not sure if he's straight gay or bi. I don't want to ask him directly cause I value our friendship to much. He know's I'm gay. The other issue is he's my bestfriends brother. I would talk to my bestfriend, but, again, I wouldn't want to ruin any of our friendships. Does anybody have any advice? Please don't tell me to find a boyfriend to get my mind off of him, I hear that to much. Thanks!
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reader, macboy  +, writes (30 April 2007):
 Get closer to this guy as a friend first.If you just like him but have never talked to him, you could find he is plainly straight.If he is comfortable around you, then you are able to talk to him freely about how you feel.If he is comfortable, ask him questions about how he feels.Oddly, I am going through a similar experience.I got close to my brother's best friend and told him how I felt. I had liked this guy for a while.At the time, I thought he was straight.However, it seems he is comfortable with it.He couldn't tell me whether he was gay or straight, as he wasn't sure. I decided to let him find himself.Ironically, I still haven't found myself.I swore I was gay a month ago, but now I am straight.Sexuality is so confusing!
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reader, the-emo-within  +, writes (30 April 2007):
talk 2 them
if there real friends they aint gonna piss off just caz of this. i mean if there real friends they'll talk 2 u bout it
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