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Archived questions from: March, 2019 (see latest questions)

Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My wife knows I don't want children and remarked that she could easily just "accidentally" get pregnant

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2079 days ago

31 March 2019 (M)

age 41-50 - Dear cupid, I've been married for the past 7 years (plus 6 more of dating). Lots of ups and downs of course, but I think we've been improving - or at least I am. Yesterday my wife said something (another one... yeah, maybe I suck at relationships...) that raised a ... (310 words)

My boyfriend gets angry when I talk about being committed

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2090 days ago

31 March 2019 (F)

age 26-29 - I live whith my bf at his place, he can be 2 different people sometimes, one nice warm and kind the other not so. We have been together for about 3 years but when I ask about being more committed to each other he gets angry . I want children and he dosent ever!!. It is a sor... (187 words)

I don't believe my b/f is going to start becoming thoughtful after 3 years together but it bothers me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2091 days ago

31 March 2019 (F)

age 36-40 - My Bf and i settled down very quickly into our relationship when i found out i was pregnant. My pill wasnt effective due some medication i was on and aboetion was not an option i wanted to take. But we were in love and happy and in ok jobs so we said we can make this work. Fast ... (300 words)

Why is my Best-friend becoming an Enemy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2088 days ago

31 March 2019 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a Best-friend who I have known since 2011. Our friendship has been hot and cold many times. She is now dating a man who she has known online for 3+ years over Facebook. I do not believe he is healthy fit for my Best-friend as he has lost his License due to Excessiv... (166 words)

Parts of my life don't work with me being gay and I have a crush on a straight man

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2075 days ago

31 March 2019 (M)

age 30-35 - For starters, I am a gay 25 year old man. I am in the closet to most everybody, with a few friends/family members being the exception. I am not "hiding" my true self per se, meaning that I don't fear being outed every waking moment like I did when I was a teen. Part of me wants ... (939 words)

Wife called the shots on defining the limits of our sex life...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2088 days ago

30 March 2019 (M)

age - My wife and I have been married for over 20 years, and together as a couple since we were barely teens. Starting out that young as a couple, there were infidelities on my part in high school. Then in a couple of years' span that we were apart because I enlisted in the military ... (404 words)

I know I'm depressed by my girlfriend doesn't seem to care.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2090 days ago

30 March 2019 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I’m male in my late 20s. I currently have this issue where I can’t sleep properly due to thoughts. So I am tired all day. I used to cry once every 6 months on a major issue however now I’m breaking down every day or two. People around me are noticing me getting upset at ... (372 words)

I think my boyfriend should end it if he isnt happy with me anymore.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2092 days ago

30 March 2019 (F)

age 36-40 - Last night my boyfriend jokingly said "go find someone else then", but I didn't find it funny. We spent the evening together just hanging out, watching comedy on TV. At the end of the night he said lets go to bed. I said yeah and like waggled my eyebrows and snuggled up to him ... (369 words)

My father made me look foolish when I was buying a car.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2087 days ago

30 March 2019 (F)

age 51-59 - Help with interferring father please. My elderly father embarassed me when I was trying to buy a new used car..!! He lives in another state and I don’t see him or my mother much.. 1-2 times a year, we small talk on phone every 5 -6 weeks, mostly about them, their health,... (487 words)

He cheated on me, was violent but it now feels things are back on track. So why am I not happy?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2076 days ago

29 March 2019 (F)

age 30-35 - I really don't know how I feel anymore, my head is all over the place and I'm so mixed up. I've been with my boyfriend for 8years. When we first met things moved very fast and I knew i loved him very early on. We had what I thought was the perfect relationship however a few mo... (532 words)

Is my doctor flirting with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2092 days ago

29 March 2019 (F)

age 41-50 - Why did a man I know fondle my wedding ring? Is there any way this is NOT flirting? I happen to know he is married too. And on top of this, he is my doctor. Do you think this behavior is strange? ... (48 words)

Is my fiance's treatment of me emotional abuse?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2092 days ago

28 March 2019 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I have been with my fiancée for over two years. Usually he’s charming and sweet. He has a mean streak though. He feels entitled like I should pay for everything cause he makes less money. If we have a disagreement. He says to shut up , and insults me. If I try to... (118 words)

Am I being sent signs that I should stay single?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 2086 days ago

28 March 2019 (F)

age 51-59 - I met a man on a drunken, fun night the other night. We clicked and had a lot in common. he was quite sweet. he took me for dinner and gave me sweet cuddles. I had asked God if maybe God would want me to have a boyfriend or a husband a couple of days before this, because I've ... (473 words)

Is he interested or being a polite neighbor?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2094 days ago

28 March 2019 (F)

age 41-50 - I recently relocated to a new city. Within a month of moving in, my neighbor introduced himself and I was immediately stricken and attracted to him. The other day he stopped over and we ended up having drinks with neighbors and friends. He kept complimenting me and even ... (167 words)

What kind of body language is this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2093 days ago

27 March 2019 (F)

age 41-50 - Can anyone tell me what type of body language the following comes across in a male (apart from just being a comfortable position). I was sat next to a male friend on a sofa, he had chosen to sit next to me when there were other chairs in the room, every time he got up he cam... (182 words)

I trust him, of course I do, I just don't understand his actions.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2095 days ago

26 March 2019 (F)

age 26-29 - I’ve been with my partner for almost six years and we’re currently expecting our first baby, due in July. For a while now he’s been taking his phone everywhere with him, even if he is just going to the toilet/puts the bins out/make a cup of tea, he puts it in his pocket i... (304 words)

I want to sleep with my boyfriend (no sex) but my parents said NO

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2090 days ago

26 March 2019 (F)

age 22-25 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost a month. This weekend he asked if I could sleep over. Obviously, I’d love to. However, my parents are catholic and extremely conservative. I brought up the idea and they automatically said no. Honestly, I don’t even want to have ... (120 words)

I feel nothing after separating from my boyfriend of 4 years

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2095 days ago

25 March 2019 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend and I have broken up after 4 years together and I feel numb. We've separated because even though we love each other, we're not "in love" and we both knew it and it was completely emotional. Is it normal the feel this unphased after such a long relationship t... (88 words)

Please help me get my life back together.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2096 days ago

25 March 2019 (F)

age 30-35 - Ex bf went to prison. It was severe emotional abuse for four years before that. I told him I will help him without any expectations. But he asked for a relationship again. He came out of prison, ran back to his ex-wife, humiliated me before other girls on phone. I clearly ... (218 words)

If I move in as he suggests I fear I will be stuck into one of his little compartments and kept separate from his life

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2093 days ago

25 March 2019 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, was looking for advice. I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for around 2 years. He has basically been staying at mine every night for over a year but still maintains his own place which has made money really tight as he cant afford to help towards my bills. He ... (338 words)

Are some of us meant to be invisible??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2097 days ago

25 March 2019 (F)

age 41-50 - This is a question about feeling invisible and the “likeable tag” and “praise” When everyone around you is known for something good and liked for it and you’re not do you keep trying? Like at work: where you’re good at your job, try to be approachable and a te... (346 words)

I am not feeling comfortable with his intentions towards dating me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2095 days ago

24 March 2019 (F) age 26-29 - Afew weeks ago, a man approached me and we talked a bit, just a small talk. However, recently, i just don't understand what he wants. So basically, i started seeing him around me more often, just glancing at me from a distance. He approached me again and told me that he likes ... (236 words)

My Husband Loves Social Media... I Don't

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2095 days ago

24 March 2019 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello! My husband and I are having some issues in our marriage, mostly arising from social media. He loves his social media -- he's always checking his likes and posting pictures, but I, on the other hand, don't use mine all that often. And because I don't use mine all tha... (310 words)

How do I cope with failure?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2096 days ago

24 March 2019 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello everyone! A few days back I took a career advancement exam: I studied extremely hard, did may best and I coulnd't have done more than what I did. In a few weeks we will be getting our results back.I am terrified of failing it. I would feel like a failure and a totally ... (175 words)

Is my male coworker playing mind games with me?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 2092 days ago

24 March 2019 (F)

age 30-35 - There is a coworker who works in a different department, “John”. He doesn’t go to meetings, has attitude, gossips, flirts, dates fellow coworkers, likes to mess with people, etc. When I first talked to him about something work-related, he cut me off and walked away. Joh... (291 words)

I have no clue what I did wrong and don't want to ask because I'm afraid it will make her even more angry

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2095 days ago

24 March 2019 (M)

age 22-25 - Me and this girl we have been together for a while and recently went through a rough patch. We are slowly getting through it but today something happpened that has really confused me. We were talking on Snapchat when she said something that annoyed me and she realised but we ... (199 words)

I'm very attracted to a man who has kids and is separated. I'm torn about whether to move forward with him

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2096 days ago

24 March 2019 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi all - any advice or thoughts on the following would be much appreciated as I'm at a total loss, something very uncommon for me. A series of events happened in my life that caused me to relocate to a brand new city without knowing anyone. I'm building a house and it tur... (491 words)

How do I become more comfortable with sex when my own body isn't responding the way I want it to?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2098 days ago

23 March 2019 (F)

age 30-35 - So, there's this young man. We've been together for a couple of months although we've known each other for longer than that. The mutual attraction developed slowly over several months until at one point it was undeniable, but it still took us a couple of dates to work up the ... (557 words)

We broke up and he's acting like nothing every happened

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2097 days ago

23 March 2019 (F)

age 36-40 - hi i ended my 5 year relationship 2 weeks ago due to his lazy immature behaviour as soon as he got home from work he would start getting stoned then by night time he would be falling asleep on the settee and basically I got bored he spends hundreds on it a month theres things ... (146 words)

Do I wait until after his birthday to break up?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2098 days ago

23 March 2019 (F)

age 22-25 - I am kind of on the young side. I have been dating this guy for 2 and a half months and just seemed to have lost interest in him and am starting to have feelings for another guy. I want to break up with my current boyfriend but still be friends. How can I let him down easy so ... (86 words)

She seemed interested but now has changed! Should I tell her how I feel about her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2099 days ago

22 March 2019 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi I'm just looking for some advice on a situation. Basically I really like a girl and have done so for a long time, but I never really felt I had a chance with her so didn't try. Recently, for some reason, she became a lot more interested in being around me. The diff... (645 words)

How do I get the feelings I had for my dead ex into my new relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2099 days ago

22 March 2019 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm in distress thinking about an ex who passed away many years ago I'm in a relationship at the moment I do love him but it feels in a different way to cut a long story short although they wernt always happy between my ex and me I see are memories in Technicolor especially the ... (91 words)

How do I ‘combat’ a control-freak husband?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2099 days ago

21 March 2019 (F) age 30-35 - My husband is a wonderful man but he is a control freak sometimes. When he is, it's harmless, but super annoying. FYI we don't have kids. For example: He's the chef in the family. He's very particular and likes following recipes. He'll go out to buy any "missing" ingred... (510 words)

How do I make real friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2097 days ago

21 March 2019 (M)

age 30-35 - I’m struggling to get through life without always being hurt or angry. I have no real friends that care. I have friends that use me when I have money and when they have money, they invite others and meet in secret to teach me a lesson. I recently decided to use little money... (709 words)

My best friend separated from her partner and is now turning to anyone for comfort

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2101 days ago

21 March 2019 (F)

age 30-35 - hey so two of friend's just separated, one's my best friend (they grew apart). i have tried to be the best possible friend through this and have been happy for this to consume my life basically! always been checking in, trying to plan fun things and all the usuall stuff - ... (246 words)

A complicated LD relationship just got more complicated. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2100 days ago

21 March 2019 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi , if you are in my shoe what will u do? This is my situation, .. This guy i met online and we been talking for long hours everyday.. Discussing about us and our future. Especially we are also discussing about our 1st meeting in indonesia then we come to philippines together ... (286 words)

I wear conceal to hide spots. What if I guy wants to see my face without the makeup?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2099 days ago

21 March 2019 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi, I've been thinking lately, I got some pimples and redness on my face and to make my self cofidence rise again, I cover them with concealer, and if I have a boyfriend in the future and if he wants to see me with no make up, what should I do??? Cause from what I've red, mens ... (78 words)

Is it normal to be a bit incompatible in your sex life?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2090 days ago

21 March 2019 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years and when we first got together, we had quite a lot of sex. Before him, I hadn't really found anyone that I "clicked" with so kind of went without. When we were first dating, we did it a LOT. Like, 2 times a day during the week and ... (283 words)

Is it normal to feel unsettled in a long-term relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2101 days ago

20 March 2019 (F)

age 26-29 - I've been with my boyfriend for 4 years. We moved in together after 6 months of being together and we're generally quite happy (we've "broken up" twice but each time lasted for about an hour each!) Anyway, I feel like recently my life is becoming a bit predestined. Lik... (207 words)

I like him far more than I want to

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2100 days ago

20 March 2019 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I am need of some guidance at the minute and hope you can help! I first met Tim when I was at school, we were close friends and always shared a fondness of each other until teenage years when we lost touch. 12 years ago we became in contact again when our children became ... (317 words)

Why is my partner's brother so negative about us all the time?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2101 days ago

20 March 2019 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi there , so my fella and I are moving in together After 6 months of dating we both have a child each and all get on fantastic .. the issue is his brother is always negative about things .. our cars are rubbish ( his car is older than ours ) our relationship won't last, I ... (101 words)

Why do we hold onto people that are not good for us?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2101 days ago

20 March 2019 (F)

age 30-35 - Why do we hold on to those who we know are no good for us? My boyfriend of 10 and a half months broke up with me 3 days ago. He was my first ever relationship and I was so happy. I thought I was in love to be honest, because I wanted to be with him unconditionally.... (845 words)

Is the grief causing him to treat me badly?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2101 days ago

19 March 2019 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello. Firstly just for some context I was in a on and off relationship for 10 years with the sweetest best friend of a boyfriend who was my high school sweetheart but his lack of ambition and lazy attitude I couldn't take anymore. We are still close friends but after trying... (735 words)

Why did he unmatch me after hooking up?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2099 days ago

19 March 2019 (F)

age 30-35 - I hooked up with this guy from Tinder the other night but we didn't have sex because I was on my period. That didn't seem to bother him but I was uncomfortable with it and gave him oral instead. I told him next time we will go all the way and he said he would love that. Then ... (182 words)

His priorities don't make sense

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2102 days ago

19 March 2019 (F)

age 36-40 - DEAR cupid, my boyfriend I and have been together for a year and 1/2. We have been living together for a year. We have been experiencing issues and decided to end our realationship to work on ourselves and our relationship. This is where it gets confusing for me. Were moving ... (197 words)

Is this trainer being friendly or flirting?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2102 days ago

18 March 2019 (F)

age 26-29 - I hired a female personal trainer to help me achieve my weight loss goals, and she is co-workers with another personal trainer who is male. I see him around often and a couple of times he has said hi to me, and when he was getting his client on the treadmill next to me he ... (185 words)

She thinks there was a hidden message about being fat in my fruit and yoghurt comment

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2099 days ago

18 March 2019 (M)

age 30-35 - So I have been with this woman for 18 months. Our relationship has been perfect so far, no arguements, always get on. Today she had an arguement with a friend and was not very happy after. She sent me a message saying she was going for a walk and thinking about getting ... (143 words)

Is there anything wrong with fantasizing what your friends would be like in bed?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2076 days ago

18 March 2019 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I want to ask a quick question (I'll try to keep it quick anyway) Is there anything wrong with wondering what your friends are like in bed, or even fantasizing about such things when you're alone? I love my partner and he satisfies me in ways I never thought poss... (116 words)

I am not sure that I can be the support system I think my b/f needs

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2074 days ago

18 March 2019 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi all! I have been dating my BF for about 4 months now. The relationship was very fast moving and we basically were pretty "offical" after a few weeks of dating. He was pretty intense, But I felt like I had finally found someone who really cared for me and loved me. Overti... (394 words)

I'm having doubts about my 5 year relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2088 days ago

18 March 2019 (F)

age 36-40 - I am in a 5 year relationship and starting to have serious doubts about it. I'm not sure if I want it anymore, and pressures are growing around marriage, mortgage and children. There's no apparent reason as to why I'm feeling this way... nothing specific has caused this feeling ... (82 words)