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*errie89
writes:I have a Best-friend who I have known since 2011. Our friendship has been hot and cold many times. She is now dating a man who she has known online for 3+ years over Facebook. I do not believe he is healthy fit for my Best-friend as he has lost his License due to Excessive speed, Drugs and Alcohol.Since accommodating himself in my Best-friend's residence. She has distanced herself from me. I only receive messages when she needs a favour as I have a License. Lately, she has become rude to me but I thought nothing of it. Yesterday afternoon, I received a Snap-chat which clearly showed long scratches across her Boyfriend's back which captioned "Dick game is on point". I have been dating an attractive European body builder for 5 months. He is everything I want in a man and I feel unbelievably lucky. Why is my Best-friend becoming an enemy?
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reader, Angela9999003  +, writes (3 April 2019):
Your best friend is mad at herself and probably insecure. She is willing to accept his background and immaturity. I would back off and let her live and learn. If you try to help her she will only rebel. After he humilates her enough she will eventually start calling you. Hopefully she wishes up before having kids with this guy. Most "alpha" males never change.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (1 April 2019):
 Being rude is either who she is or HOW she wants to come across to you, so YOU have to decide.. IS this a person I want in my life or not?
Quite simple.
She has CHOSEN to date this man, move him in with her. HER life, HER choice. He probably ISN'T a healthy fit for her, but that isn't up to YOU to decide. She has to figure that out and ACCEPT it ON her own.
So if you have someone who USED to be a good friend but now she is rude , using you for rides and dating some loser... YOU can decide you know what? I don't need this drama or negativity in MY life. And SIMPLY cut her off. BLOCK her and move on. You don't even have to tell her or explain it to her. MY guess is, she will know why.
And for for the snap-chat thing... well, CRUDE really but WHO CARES?!
Cut her off and focus on your OWN life, your future and your new BF.
Not ALL friends are "friends forever" some are friends for life, some for a long time, some for a short time. YOU actually HAVE a say is WHO you want to surround yourself with.
You don't owe her squat. She doesn't owe you squat.
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