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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Is sex so important to my husband?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2728 days ago

30 June 2017 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi aunts. I have been married to my husband for 3 years. Our sex life is not good at all. I was suffering from severe dyspareunia for which I didn't seek treatment for a long time as the thought of a doctor doing a over examination used to scare me. I was scared despite my ... (372 words)

Does looking at those websites means cheating

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2727 days ago

30 June 2017 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone, I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years now and we have been living together for a year. We are both 26 yesterday, I borrowed his phone ( with permission) and saw he was on Craigslist looking at w4m in our city. After that I looked a little more. He researc... (255 words)

Snapchat app question

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2730 days ago

30 June 2017 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. This is a relationship question but I'll appreciate help because I'm paranoid right now. This new snapchat update is really creepy. I updated my app 10 days ago but did NOT access the map feature or settings. I continued using the app as usual. I accessed the map f... (108 words)

New Flatmate Is Already Causing Trouble. How To Deal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2729 days ago

30 June 2017 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a working professional, returning to uni in October and as my previous flatmates were moving city I found a room for the summer. Basically there are three international students who usually live in this flat but two of them went back to their home countries for the holidays ... (502 words)

He lied to my face, only admitted it after I told him I had seen proof

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2705 days ago

30 June 2017 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been dating my boyfriend for two years. We broke up for about a month or so in between, in which he admitted to kissing a girl. That's it he says.I don't care about any of that, we were broken up. However, I found a condom in his backpack. We don't use condoms. I asked ... (339 words)

Why is my girlfriend so stubborn about her size and weight?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2727 days ago

30 June 2017 (M)

age 30-35 - Why is my girlfriend so stubborn about her size and weight? When we met she was in great shape, she used to wear nice dresses and clothes. However last few years because of her rubbish diet and lack of excersise its showing. I ignored it for 2 years, she noticed and complains ... (419 words)

I was comfortable with him despite one or two disagreements again. Does that mean I still love him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2709 days ago

30 June 2017 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend five years but have been apart for two as he was sent to work far away from home. We lived together for a few years before that happened but during those two years apart I feel like our relationship has been affected a lot. He is a poor ... (215 words)

Do you think my ex-roommate will want to date me again if I put zero pressure on him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2724 days ago

30 June 2017 (F)

age 36-40 - So I dated my roommate for a year. It never progressed very far because every time I put pressure on him (which I have a habit of doing) he freaked out and pulled away. We really liked each other though so I always assumed the problem was living together. I moved out a coup... (219 words)

Is a man without a big wallet a deal breaker for you?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 2702 days ago

30 June 2017 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, I have recently met a great man. We've been dating for a few months but we have met each other's parents because we are serious about each other. Recently though, my worries have been our financial status. He is a hard working chef and I am currently looking for... (126 words)

He always manages to bring up sex in a conversation. Is he just horny? Or does he want something from me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2724 days ago

30 June 2017 (F)

age 26-29 - There is this guy I know. We are friends, but fairly new friends for the past 3 or so months. He is a really nice guy, very easy to talk to. Whenever we talk, he always tells me personal things about himself. I'm talking really personal things that he doesn't tell anyone else. ... (108 words)

My boyfriend left me for another woman in the past, we have since made up but I can't seem to get over it

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2726 days ago

30 June 2017 (F)

age 30-35 - I've known my boyfriend since high school so about 8 years or so. Last November, my boyfriend broke things off with me and within a week started dating the woman he was talking to behind my back. Now, I don't care that he was talking to another woman but after all was said and ... (309 words)

I can't tell if I'm dating a really odd social butterfly or a man whore.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2730 days ago

29 June 2017 (F) age 36-40 - Me and my boyfriend have been dating for about four months. We spend most of our time together. I don't usually feel jealous or insecure about myself. I know I'm pretty and smart etc. So when I do feel insecure I tend to think it's probably something moreso to do with who I'm ... (573 words)

Help me move on from family drama! How can I look back on my wedding day without feeling so negatively about it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2729 days ago

29 June 2017 (F)

age 36-40 - For a bit of backstory, I come from a large Italian family. My mum had over 300 guests at her wedding, and she had no desire to repeat the same experience for my wedding. So when I got engaged, she was quite understanding in my fiancé and I's desire to have a smaller wedding ... (1513 words)

How do I react to my boyfriends passive aggressive comments about fitness?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2724 days ago

29 June 2017 (F)

age 30-35 - I weigh 42kg. I used to be a previous model however always been naturally petite. My boyfriend has naturally a slow metabolism and he can gain weight quickly. While he does talk quite a bit about him getting fit as he's definitely on the chubbier/unfit end which he would agree ... (363 words)

My boyfriend always admires other women, its been going on for years. Am I over the top?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2729 days ago

29 June 2017 (F)

age 51-59 - Sorry this is kind of long. When I go out with my bf, he seems to scan the restaurant, grocery store, gym, wherever, for attractive women. He has a couple of signature looks he gives when he sees an attractive woman. Sometimes it's the excited boyish look and other times it's... (524 words)

He broke up with me but now is sending messages with hearts!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2731 days ago

29 June 2017 (F) age 22-25 - Hey i need help, My boyfriend broke up with me recently because he thought we were drifting apart after we got out of school. He told me that we should just be friends and after that he stopped texting me. Now he is texting me a lot and putting hearts. I am not sure what this ... (164 words)

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2727 days ago

29 June 2017 (M)

age 51-59 - why do people have friends and when you talk to them and you say you love them and I got a friend he got's a girl friend and I know them for quit some time they are in a relationship and me and my friend his girlfriend are friends put I would love to be in the compantionship ... (91 words)

What's going on? I am confused why my partner is now an issue.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2730 days ago

29 June 2017 (F)

age 30-35 - I need some objective clarity. So here goes. When we were teens, say 16 years ago, he had a major crush on me and we went out a few times. I never reciprocated because I guess there weren't any feelings there, and I distanced myself from him. He ended up moving across country ... (584 words)

Boyfriend wants me to dress up like celebrities or people he knows?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2731 days ago

28 June 2017 (F) age 36-40 - Me and my boyfriend have been working to spice things up in the bedroom. He seems to really like the idea of role play. I tried it once with him, dressing up like a school girl. We talked about it more since then but now he's hinted around a couple times that he wants me to ... (102 words)

He wants to be friends with his female co worker and doesn't take my feelings into consideration

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2729 days ago

28 June 2017 (F)

age - Ive known a man for the past 6 yrs, we lived together for three years. the fourth yr we broke up. he was talking about marriage but never really asked me. then one day a new female came to work at is work place. slowly things changed between us. eventually i asked him to ... (190 words)

Things changed when my BFF got a girlfriend.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2724 days ago

28 June 2017 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm really hurt. My best friend C and I have been bffs for 5 years. We've had our share of ups and downs, but always managed to get through it and remain close as we were before. He'd been into me, like, majorly into me for 2 years. He said he was in love with me and he sure as ... (431 words)

He keeps staring at me. Does that mean something?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2716 days ago

28 June 2017 (F)

age 30-35 - So here is my story. I encountered a guy at my university whom I have posted about before. I caught him staring at me when I was buying something at the student bar shop. He was sitting right behind us and I saw him look at me couple of times. This guy is a student ... (736 words)

I'm always the gateway girl!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2731 days ago

28 June 2017 (F)

age 36-40 - OK, I don't know what I'm asking here, maybe hope from people in / or were in similar situations. Basically, long story short, I'm the gateway girl for guys to find true love/marriage/happily ever afters. I'v never had a relationship last longer than 3 years and I'm no... (349 words)

Do you think my boyfriend is lying about masturbation or what are your thoughts?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2731 days ago

28 June 2017 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a model signed to an agency in NY. My boyfriend and I have been together for quite a while now. Unfortunately when we first met, I had some insecurities which I regret mainly from the industry that is so heavily focused on appearance. When my boyfriend and I first met, he ... (485 words)

Should I warn her it's showing?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2732 days ago

28 June 2017 (M)

age 30-35 - My wife is currently 7 1/2 months pregnant with our 1st child. For the last few months as she has gotten bigger, she has relied on leggings and yoga pants as her go=to wardrobe. She hasn't noticed yet that these are becoming increasingly tighter and tighter on her daily causing ... (111 words)

Is this the chance to get back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2732 days ago

28 June 2017 (F)

age 26-29 - Guys I'm stocked in a situation. I loved a guy and we had some misunderstandings which led us to break up. Deep inside I'm still loving him. After so many months I met him. I told him that I'm still loving him. He looked at me and said "U r the one created story and fought with ... (139 words)

We both have partners but workmate is flirting

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2724 days ago

27 June 2017 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi everyone. I'm writing about an issue I have at work with regards to a co-worker. I work in a pub so it is a very relaxed atmosphere. I get on with all my co-workers, both male and female. However, there is one particular co-worker who I am attracted to. I feel li... (402 words)

Should I ask her now?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2728 days ago

27 June 2017 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi I'm not sure where to start as this is a huge story, I will try to keep this as short and informative as possible. I'm here because I struggle to vocalise my emotions with those closest to me. I'm 27 years old I was with my ex for 9 years (16-25) we broke up just over a y... (396 words)

He wants to record us having oral sex and then send it to a friend?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 2703 days ago

27 June 2017 (F)

age 30-35 - Been seeing a guy right, everything was great.. Until he asked me a few days ago to let him record himself giving me "oral" in the not so usual place..to send to his guy friend! Is this relationship between them normal? Do guys do this with their friends more often than not?... (52 words)

We had sex nothing came of it but how do I act around him now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2724 days ago

27 June 2017 (F)

age 26-29 - About six months ago, I had sex with one of my close friends. It was pretty obvious that we both liked each other but nothing ever came from it. A couple weeks ago, we started talking again and we spent the night with each other a few times but never did anything (kissed or had ... (145 words)

I'm taking care of an ill family member. I don't know how to stay calm, parents won't help

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2703 days ago

27 June 2017 (F)

age 36-40 - I am caring for a family member who is here alone - she has fallen ill and I am the sole provider. I count the pennies because everything goes to paying for her to get better- my parents own to homes and in this moment of need they could help but I have not told them because ... (288 words)

Have I lost my share of family property?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2731 days ago

27 June 2017 (M)

age 30-35 - We are a family of two brothers and widowed mother. I am the eldest son. I am married while my younger brother is single and takes care of my aged mother. My dad expired 10 years ago. My brother and mother do not stay with me. My dad made two houses from his own earnings. I ... (389 words)

Am I that ugly that he will reject me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2733 days ago

27 June 2017 (F) age 22-25 - This boy I really like makes me super wet every time i think about him. I like him for his personality, He is the most sweetest smartest funniest boy I ever met. We are just friend's but I really want to be more than that. But I know that won't happen because I'm ugly. And plus ... (107 words)

How do I get married without hurting my parents? I want to convert and they don't want me to

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2733 days ago

27 June 2017 (F)

age 36-40 - How do I get married without hurting my parents? My bf and I are 29 and in a relationship for the last 9 years. He is a Christian and I am a Hindu. I have been practicing Christianity since I was 14 years old. Back then I used to visit temples and church as well. But as I gre... (259 words)

Caught him watching porn

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 2711 days ago

27 June 2017 (F)

age 41-50 - I caught my husband watching father daughter porn twice now is this normal he denied it and got very upset.... (20 words)

Graduation dilemma - what should I do ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2733 days ago

26 June 2017 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi there ! I have a " graduation " Dilemma . I had a messy divorce and lost my home and most of my possessions to my ex husband . My daughter has a University graduation in two weeks and gave her two allocated tickers for her graduation to her grandparents . Both my ex husband ... (143 words)

I have a gf but still think about my ex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2732 days ago

26 June 2017 (M)

age 36-40 - I feel so bad for thinking about my ex and I know people are going to bag me out for it. If it was someone coming to me, in which I am often the person, it is what I would be telling them. I tried to give myself time to heal after we broke up, 2 years. I've been with my cur... (339 words)

I've never met this online date yet but his mother died. How do I approach this or help him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2732 days ago

26 June 2017 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey, my online date im yet to meet has just told me his mum died last week . We have been talking a while but im going on holiday so we cant meet just yet . apart from the usual that would be said how else should i handle the situation i dont intend on bringing the subject up ... (105 words)

Am I being irrational for wanting my parents to be involved in my daughters life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2725 days ago

26 June 2017 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a daughter and am expecting another child. And since she was born, my parents have not been very active in her life. The first three or 4 months, they'd come over almost every weekend and after that, it'd be every several months. They do live far but they'll come... (170 words)

Crushing hard on a new boyfriend, but I found out he is into live webcam sex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2734 days ago

26 June 2017 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, so I've went on a few dates with this guy, and we have really been hitting it off. Like, I can see marriage and kids so far, and we are so so similar in person. I have a huuuuge crush on him and he seems to feel the same about me. However, I googled his social media ... (192 words)

2000 messages after and my interest has not waned in one particular man

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2733 days ago

26 June 2017 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a little sad as I write this and would appreciate this question is posted. I am new to online dating. A guy from the dating site started talking to me. I wasn't interested in him but after a few days of talking. We exchanged numbers, did skype and got on really well till ... (479 words)

Boyfriend did nothing for me on my 21st birthday and says I'm stupid if I expect things to be romantic

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2725 days ago

26 June 2017 (F)

age 26-29 - so i dont want to sound like a nag or like im being selfish but here it is. 25th june was my 21st birthday i had a meal and a night out planned. on the 24th my boyfriend didnt want to spend it with me but i told him if he doesnt try its over because he never tries at all. he ... (261 words)

Is moving to a big city a good idea? or am I leaving a REALLY good life?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2732 days ago

26 June 2017 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi all, Thank you for taking the time to read. I have a huge question. I am 29 yrs old, I have a finance degree, I live in a pretty good state (UTAH, USA), the economy is booming, the state is clean, safe. I rent a pretty cool apartment, I have a luxury car, I am pretty... (242 words)

I'm confused about her behavior. She seemed into me but then would not get off the phone??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2730 days ago

26 June 2017 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I met this girl whilst I was going to work. She works in an airport. I travel a lot on short flights. I noticed this girl was very friendly to me a few weeks ago. Also when I entered the airport the other week I noticed she had spotted me and went straight to her handbag to ... (483 words)

How can I break this impass on marital strife?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2730 days ago

26 June 2017 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been with my wife for 12 years. We've been going through a bit of a tough patch lately, but I don't think it's something that we can't work our way through. Now, please don't think that I am claiming to be perfect - I have problems that I need to work on, I am just giving ... (414 words)

He's a slob but I'm afaid to let go

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2730 days ago

26 June 2017 (F)

age 36-40 - I don't know what to do any more. My relationship seems like it's going nowhere quickly. I use to be really happy with my boyfriend, but now he constantly blames me for everything. He's never happy with anything. The other night I called him out on his drinking. I can h... (405 words)

My partner will not admit that she uses a vibrator and its making me feel inadquate

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2730 days ago

26 June 2017 (M)

age 41-50 - I've recently discovered that my partner if 6 years is secretly using a vibrator when she thinks I'm asleep. This has been ongoing now for 5 months and every time I ask her she becomes very angry and denial sets in. We have a very open relationship and talk about everything ... (223 words)

I'm worried that once my LDR boyfriend gets his own place, his female friend might try to make a move. I know she likes him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2730 days ago

25 June 2017 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in a long distance relationship with an amazing guy. We have know each other for 3 years and are planning to soon meet and start a future/family together. He is the kind of person that I call my best friend and soulmates. He is my person and I am his person.We are ... (556 words)

My friend doesn't treat guys very well and I don't like it. Should I just stay out of it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2730 days ago

25 June 2017 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi how do I tell my friend she's a little conceited? Or am I overreacting? She's one of my best friend's. We're both 18 and have both had our fair share with guys. I just mean like being at the texting stage and dating, that kind of stuff. I'm not a virgin but she still is... (299 words)

Why do these guys act so weird around me? They don't do this to anyone else

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2735 days ago

25 June 2017 (F)

age 26-29 - I am friends with a few guys from my church. They will act like friends one day but then another day they walk by me like I am not even there. When I say hey to them they say hey back in a fake surprised way like they didn't see me when I know they saw me. I am not interested ... (173 words)