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writes:why do people have friends and when you talk to them and you say you love them and I got a friend he got's a girl friend and I know them for quit some time they are in a relationship and me and my friend his girlfriend are friends put I would love to be in the compantionship with her but but she is in a relationship with my friend so how can I go by that this to wait on her or ths go forward and leave it a lone. Reply to this Question
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (3 July 2017):
 Since you are good at waiting I suggest you keep waiting until until your male friend says he is cool with you hooking up with his girlfriend. Keep on waiting my man keep on waiting.
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reader, N91  +, writes (3 July 2017):
 Come on man be serious. You're over 50 years old, surely you know right from wrong when it comes to relationships?! Were you seriously expecting someone to tell you 'yes go right ahead and try and steal your friends gf'?
Find someone who is UNATTACHED and is available. Stop feeling sorry for yourself and trying to act like this is okay behaviour.
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reader, Andie's Thoughts +, writes (3 July 2017):
 OP, we are telling you to let go. Move on; you're obsessing and she's not interested! Do not go after someone who isn't single! Don't wait either, she doesn't want to be with you, OP!
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reader, lonlyperson +, writes (3 July 2017):
lonlyperson is verified as being by the original poster of the question well I been waiting on my friend for quit some time now and she is in a relationship and I been wanting to get a hold of her body for quit sometime now so what should I do this go forward or this wait on her then go get her after her relationship is over or this wait until something happens with them two.
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reader, Andie's Thoughts +, writes (1 July 2017):
OP, you are in your 50s. You know this woman is not single and you need to find someone who is. Do not risk your friendships and don't go after someone else's girlfriend.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2017): You knew you'd be shut down, didn't you?Do you expect anyone here to give you the seal of approval for wrecking another relationship for your own selfish gain?Here's the truth.You are too old to change your ways. In fact, at your age, you are set in your ways. And at this stage, it's too late to change the man that you are. Or the man you are not. But really, you are no man at all.Real men do not try to steal another man's girlfriend. A FRIEND'S girlfriend!!!Real men are not cowards or betrayers.Real men have honour and conduct themselves by a code of ethics.Imagine your friend trying to get together with your GF or wife and you loved her more than anything. Would that hurt you? Would the thought of his penis inside her vagina destroy you at all? Well, then, now you know how your friend might feel.If more people practiced EMPATHY in this world - and that means putting yourself in his shoes - before taking action -- then you might suddenly understand that if something like this would destroy you, then certainly it would destroy your friend? Is that what you call him?I pity his choice in friends.I also caution you to stand back and leave them alone. Let their relationship continue as it should. You have no part in it. Just keep these little fantasies to yourself and get busy pursuing other women. You obviously don't have too much going on in your own life at the moment.
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reader, Youcannotbeserious +, writes (29 June 2017):
 If you want to keep your friend, you leave it WELL ALONE.
I hope he is a better friend to you than you are to him.
There are plenty of other women out there. There is no need to try to spoil your friend's relationship.
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reader, N91 +, writes (29 June 2017):
All I can say is you're not a great friend if you're trying to come up with ways of dating your friends GF.
Even if they do break up do you seriously think your friend would be impressed if he found out you started dating his ex? You need to find someone who is available or friends that you're not tempted to steal GFs from.
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reader, judgedick  +, writes (29 June 2017):
 It is best to leave it a lone , you can't help your feelings for her , but you don't have to follow them , if you are a friend to them you would not try to split them up, What would you think of a friend that wanted to take you away from your love, you have them as friends now and best to keep it that way , Put a little more distance between them and you for now and may be try find another woman to be remantic with .
have a grate day
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