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*regNorman
writes:Hi, I met this girl whilst I was going to work. She works in an airport. I travel a lot on short flights. I noticed this girl was very friendly to me a few weeks ago. Also when I entered the airport the other week I noticed she had spotted me and went straight to her handbag to put on makeup. I spoke with her briefly as I passed by.Yesterday I was coming out the exit and she was standing around doing light duties. We started to talk for almost an hour. She was asking me about myself and if I was seeing anyone. I talked about my last relationship and she told me about hers and that she had been single for over a year. We seemed to get on really well. She was asking me about jobs at my company and if I could find out if there were any vacancies. She gave me her number and I gave her mine. Later that evening I text'd her about a vacancy and that it wasn't so good. She called me straight back rather than text'd a reply.We talked for a few minutes. She told me she would be at the airport working tomorrow and gave me the times. I said I'd be popping through. So today I did just that and we hit it off again and talked for 10 minutes. She told me about her new flat and asked me where I was going. I said to a friends and she asked me if it was a lover/g.f. She also told me what shift she was on tomorrow. She told me what time she was finishing today and I said I'd be back before that. She asked what time so I told her 1. I arrived back about 1:20. She was on the phone when I came through and she just smiled at me but stayed on the phone, she briefly talked to me and said that I looked as though I was in my own little world. She told me to have a nice day and I said you too. As I walked by I felt confused as she didn't ask me to wait around or seem to want to end her call. I actually went passed her again 10 minutes later and she was still on the phone. Same thing happened she talked briefly to me but was still on the call, I just mentioned that I was waiting for some help to move a few things. She said hope you'll be ok and then said have a nice day again. Erm... not sure what to do next? Do you think she is interested? I found it a bit odd that she didn't seem to want to end her call or ask me to wait. Thanks for listening. Gx
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (30 June 2017):
 If she has not answered anything, not even one of those vague " very busy right now "... it sounds like she 'd rather be left alone. Who knows, maybe she has one of those botring jobs where the occasional chat with a friendly customer is a godsend, and that may generate confusion. In your shoes , though, I would not spend too much time in wondering why she changed her mind or her attitude. It could be so many things .
So no, I would not pop by on purpose ! which does not mean you have to avoid her like the plague next time you happen to be there and she is on her shift. Smile, go to say hi if you wish- be civil ( but not all over her ) .She knows YOU are interested, so the ball would be in her court .
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 June 2017): I really wouldn't get hung up over the fact that she didn't talk to you one time. She might really have had to finish that call. She might really have just wanted to continue the conversation with whoever she was on the phone with- would you hang up while on a call everytime you see someone you know?
Don't sweat it, and don't bombard her with messages. See how it goes next time you see her, if she's not on the phone, and she's friendly again, ask for her phone number!
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reader, GregNorman +, writes (29 June 2017):
GregNorman is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHi, I didn't get a reply to my sms to her. I haven't sent anything back. The last thing she told me was that she is on shift again on the weekend. Do you reckon I should pop by or just leave her be? Cheers, Greg.
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reader, CindyCares +, writes (27 June 2017):
Hey, even if she does not answer, or answers no- at least you have tried. Nothing ventured, nothing gained.
I agree that, from what you say, she sounded interested ; asking you about your relationship status, and letting you know hers.. generally this is not the kind of conversation you have with strangers or very casual aquaintances, so I would have taken it just like you did, as slightly come-hitherish. Then again, maybe she is just a chatty , outgoing type, or, worse, she was only interested to see if you could get her a new job !
No harm done. You did not make a fool of yourself at all , in case is this you are wondering, and anyway " asking is always permissible, and answering yes is always optional ".
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reader, GregNorman +, writes (27 June 2017):
GregNorman is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHi, I sent her an sms a few hours ago saying that ir was great talking with her again. I added that would she like to get together sometime soon. She hasn't replied :o.
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