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writes:My girlfriend and me are separated at the moment but am trying to get her back, I earn alot more money than her and all the time that we were together i tried to help her with money for which she would only refuse my offer of money and told me that she is not my problem and would not take any money from me, i found out today that somebody who works with me that she has had nothing at all to eat for 5 days as she has no money to buy any food as her employer is in money problems and that she has not been paid and that she had applied to a foodbank who could not help her as there was a waiting list of people that need their help and to make matters worst i was phoned in the dead of night saying that she was seen walking alone in pitch darkness for miles from her place of work to her home and think that she did not have the money for any transport home, how do i help her and get her back, the reason that she finished with me was that she felt that she had nothing to offer me and only her money problems and got depressed that i earn over £80,000 more than her per year and that she is on very low wages compared to me and where she lives there is no jobs, i still love her and hopes that she still loves me but cannot bear to see her like this.
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reader, SensitiveBloke +, writes (31 October 2014):
 If you want to help her, post some money anonymously through her letterbox in an envelope. Don't include a note.
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reader, Fari +, writes (31 October 2014):
 Oh my, if what you heard is true then your ex girlfriend maybe in need of some help. I know that some of us women are full of pride or we may want to show men that we are independent, strong and have no need for them as much. The truth is sometimes it is good to ask for help and to need a shoulder to cry on. I think she needs help but she is afraid that you would think less of her if she begs but you need to help her and look past it. You are not doing this only for love but your are doing this because it is the right thing to do. You wouldn't feel good knowing that while you are asleep in bed she is hungry cold, lonely. So just call her and offer her some help. She may deny needing it but make it absolutely clear that your are doing this because you care. Then when things get back to normal and she is good financially, you may explore other aspects as in getting back together etc.
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