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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I understand that men sometimes can't help looking at another attractive woman or scrolling through their pictures of fb. I know that my boyfriend does both of these things (not on a regular basis, but occasionally). After reading about why men behave this way and what should I, as his girlfriend do, I have one question that keeps bothering me. A lot of what I've read says that while my man may glance at another woman or look at other women's pictures, as long as you know that he's trying his best with you and giving your relationship a 110%, there's no reason to worry about those "other" women. Because no matter what he looks at, at the end of the day, he will be thinking about YOU before going to bed and when waking up in the morning. While I get this, my question is that while he may be happy with me, is the fact that he still looks at other women not enough to justify that he wants something that looks like those "other" women and not like me? That if I'm too short or fat and he looks at someone with long legs and a thin waist, then that is the kind of women he wishes he could have? Doesn't his behavior show that if a woman like that did show up some day into his life, he will leave me for her because that is what he wanted all along and he would be stupid not to take that opportunity? Reply to this Question
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (1 November 2014):
 There is an unfairness in gender because women are always better to look at than men. Women are objects of beauty so as a woman myself I prefer looking at female models rather than men. Masturbating to pictures of gorgeous men just isn't something that women do. A man stays with a woman not only for physical beauty but also the inner quality. Men are also less perfectionistic than you think. Looking at pictures does not mean they are shopping for the next best thing. It has an aesthetic, calming effect that goes deeper than a boy looking at toys at a shop and wanting it. Men can be intimidated by beautiful women. Vain men may like showing off their arm candies but men who want long term relationships put priority on security and comfort. It doesn't take much to attract a man. They are hardwired to be attracted to an average female body and a feminine face.
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