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writes:wow... its been a couple years of being a part of this site.. i look back at the past questions i have asked. lol... but here i am again. i have feelings that my amazing husband is cheating on me. is here such a thing of a man to be committed to one person or is it a partnership for life and make it work????? im a loyal person by soul and very beautiful..... please give me your thoughts, thank you Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 October 2014): If you suspect your husband is cheating on you, sit him down and have a talk with him.
Yes, there are people totally committed to one person. They roll up their sleeves and work out their problems when the going gets tough, and if tempted by another, walk away from temptation.
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reader, Fari  +, writes (31 October 2014):
 I think a man can be committed to one person and a relationship can last forever. It all comes down to the individuals and their morals and values. e,g are they in it for the long haul, are they willing to do what it takes to make it work?? A relationship is a two way street so if one person isn't doing their part it can easily fall apart but if both are really determined and want to make it work it can happen. No relationship is perfect and there is always problems but that's where communication comes in handy. So I think if you have gut feelings, you could be right. He could be cheating but if you do find out he is....its up to you to choose what step you will take from there..
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (31 October 2014):
 If he is cheating he isn't as amazing as you had hoped or wished, but that is besides the point.
I've been married 17 years and we have had no infidelity. My brother have been with his wife for well over 25 years, no cheating. My bestie have been married 11 years, and my other bestie for 26. No cheating.
So it is possible.
Does it mean ANY of us don't think occasion of straying? or feel attracted to others? I don't think it does, but so far WE have all chosen to stick to the "moral code" of marriage.
Does it mean there is something WRONG with you since he "might" be cheating? Absolutely not. But there is something not quite working in the marriage that you both might be ignoring. Does that excuse cheating? nope.
Figure out what is up and talk to him. Figure out if you want to work on it or end it. Go from there.
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