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51-59,
anonymous
writes:My husband comments on my clothes if he thinks I look sexy in them, then there are days he doesn't even notice anything about me.Another issue is, he gets turned on by me, starts getting intimate, touches, undresses me, he gets sexually aroused, so do i, but just when i think we're about to make love, he stops, puts my lingerie back on, turns over with his back facing me...sometimes tells me his back hurts, etc., some lame excuse, and sometimes he just lays there and falls asleep.He masturbates frequently. I don't understand why he would rather have his hand than me. I have reason to believe he has a phone he has been hiding from me, and in the past i did find out he was on sleazy "adult dating/ chating" sites. He makes frequent visits to the bathroom.....i believe he gets on his "secret phone" with his sleazy contacts on those sites and possibly masturbates to them.He makes me feel less than attractive, rejected, and takes away any self esteem away. What do you think is happening?Thanks
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (31 October 2014):
 Instead of guessing what he is doing, TALK to him. And don't accept a lame excuse, like oh it's nothing..
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (30 October 2014):
 Ithink he's having a mid-life crisis and/or physical problems with the male organs(prostate,testosterone levels,etc.) which requires a straight forward talk with his urologist ASAP. I have hunch tha the phone issue is a non- issue i.e; phone sex costs a frigging fortune and you'dnotice it on the phone bills. It would be in the hundreds of dollars per month. I think you're lookingfor an easy scapegoat down that rabbit trail. Jst get him to the doc.
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