A
female
age
30-35,
*J14
writes: hi everyone. i have a question for ull. i had been going out with my ex for a bit more than one year and we were on a break. i went out with this other guy for a movie and i kissed him on the cheek and he kissed me on my lips nd i pushed hin away and i realised how much i love my bf. when i told this to my bf he was hurt which i undetstand. and later he asked me out nd for the next five months he kept breaking up with me every fourth day and i kept fighting back for him.and then one day he just ended it. i feel really hurt and emotionally in a bad place. he doesnt talk to me anymore and he is in my classes for the next 4 years. whenever i look at him i feel lkke crying. i dnt know if its my place to say this but i know compared to the people i know i am open minded person and i thought my ex was too but when all this happened i just blanked out.have i cheated on him? pls be honest. cz his words have imprinted in my head and i have been feeling really guiltyam i being tooo open minded?
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reader, TJ14 +, writes (31 October 2014):
TJ14 is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni wouldnt have considered it as cheating. i would hv understood
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reader, olderthandirt +, writes (30 October 2014):
Bt way to answer this is to have you re-tell the event with you in his place and yo0u in his place. Then the question is did he cheat?
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