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writes:I met this girl online, really like her n she's 18 n im 23 almost 24. she says she's a virgin although I did not expect that i was really happy. she seemed shy to ask questions so i told her to ask anything on her mind n i won't lie. which i didn't. she asked me how many gf have i had n how manytimes we did it. I had two first we did all summer when i was 17, second gf we had no more than 6 times. both hurt me bad emotionally so i decided to stay abstinent.i told her truthfully now shes only responding in OK or that's ok. n she says i didnt upset her..... what should I do? I really like this girl. I think she might be the one. please help, what's going on in her mind? what should I do?P.S.she's 6 hours n half from me. we never met.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (2 October 2014):
 Yeah well, first thing I thought too is that it could even be one of those " Catfish " situations and " she " is a he that's sounding you off for wanking material.
I mean, it sounds strange to me that she is a shy virgin 18 y.o girl who does not know you from Adam, and first thing she wants to know about you is your sex life, and how many times you did it already etc. Weird thing to talk about with a new contact and perfect stranger.
Maybe he/ she would have progressed to ask you " and HOW you did it ? " with all the juicy details, only that your limited experience makes you not very interesting for this kind of games and not worth insisting.
Otherwise, let's go with the best case scenario, she is actually who she said she is, and you just met on the Net to see what develops....let it develop. Take it as it comes.
Maybe she is busy, she is talking to 20 other guys, she is in a bad mood for personal reasons, or she only wanted another virgin just like her. There can be dozen of reasons for her being unresponsive, but you can't take it so personally just because she failed to fall in love with you at first sight- or, in fact, at first chat.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (2 October 2014):
 You think shes the one? Haha, pardon my laughing, but thats cute. You never met her in real life, shes a perfect stranger. Your imagination is running wild with you here. Stop imagining her to be some dream girl when you have no clue who she is. So maybe she figured out youre not for her, maybe she only likes talking to virgins. Or maybe nothing at all happened and you are just over reacting. She is probably just busy, people do have lives you know. She cant always be online talking to you. Or maybe, probably, you just not mean as much to her? You have put a lot of emotion into this online thing, it seems. You should calm it down and not let your imagination run wild. You dont know her. She could be lying to you, she could be a dude for all you know. And even if shes hinest, all you know about her are small fractions... Keep that in mind.
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